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LionLeoRay

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I have a question: as a straight guy who’s VERY curious about being with men, I’m dipping my toes into the world of cruising. As a result, I’ve learned about bathhouses and discovered I live close to a couple, so naturally, I wanna go to one. But I don’t wanna go in blind - I wanna know what to expect. So my question is this: WHAT happens in a bathhouse, what’s expected of you, what’s the etiquette, are they discreet, etc.

If you’ve had any bathhouse experiences or have any advice, I’d love to know so I can make my first visit a successful and exciting one. Thanks in advance!
 
LionLeoRay said:
I have a question: as a straight guy who’s VERY curious about being with men, I’m dipping my toes into the world of cruising. As a result, I’ve learned about bathhouses and discovered I live close to a couple, so naturally, I wanna go to one. But I don’t wanna go in blind - I wanna know what to expect. So my question is this: WHAT happens in a bathhouse, what’s expected of you, what’s the etiquette, are they discreet, etc.

If you’ve had any bathhouse experiences or have any advice, I’d love to know so I can make my first visit a successful and exciting one. Thanks in advance!
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to add a question: how do you handle running into someone you might know? Especially if you are not out?
 
As gay man finally made my first visit to baths over 10 years nervous at first but met a guy who gave tour and how react. Been back on number of times. Go and enjoy.
 
It's a good thing you're in Toronto, where the gay bathhouses are good. If you were here in NYC, I'd tell you not to do it here at all and take a trip to Chicago or Houston or Montreal instead.
 
if you see someone you know say hello and smile. I wouldn’t scream out their name or a what the fuck are you doing here kinda thing. They are there for the same purpose you are…..I saw a priest I know at a cruise spot once and was thankful that I didn’t say good afternoon father to him like I normally would have…..thankfully I was leaving.
 
FPNY said:
I saw a priest I know at a cruise spot once and was thankful that I didn’t say good afternoon father to him like I normally would have…..thankfully I was leaving.
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There's an etiquette question! If one meets an archbishop in a gay bathhouse, should one kiss his ring? (That and his towel will be all he's wearing, of course.)
 
It's easy ... just use your body language . If you come across somebody who knows just smile , but be evasive at the same time ( if that's what you feel like doing ) try not engaging into conversations in areas where the rooms are crowded ... Do not be ashamed to show your nudity and to see other naked men who are engaging into sexual acts .
If somebody you don't like approaches you or touches you just remove their hand gently and say no thanks . If you wanna get it on with a guy you like ... approach him , you can touch his body without being too intrusive or you can even flirt showing your boner ( if you dare ) ...if you get a positive response , go ahead , if you're rejected , move on and seek someone else .
Be clean , use the shower facilities to smell nice ... Usually when you score with someone at the sauna you go separate ways after getting off , no strings attached , in my case it's been that way and I notice most guys do the same when they get off , and they move on to seek somebody new ...
I wish I could go to a gay bathhouse again , it's a thrilling place but it can be dangerous at the same time since many guys tend to have sex bareback and are careless ... Do not forget to carry quality condoms and be slightly picky when choosing a fella to get laid with

The first time you go it feels fun and magical and one tends to have luck the first time one goes ...
I first went to a real gay bathhouse when I was 22 ... I travelled to a bigger city all by myself and it was more than worth it
 
I love bathhouses! I've had some great experiences in them. The opportunities to get a good blow-job and to suck dick are fantastic. But, I agree with the guys who have written before- 1. Take it easy. Everyone is there for the same pupose - sex! 2. If someone is not interested, move on. Don't pressure anyone. 3. Follow safety guidelines for Covid and HIV- use condoms! 4. If you see someone you know - well, you now know that you have the same horny interests! In Los Angeles, Flex Spa on Melrose has been one of my favorites!



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Awesome video and great advice.. I've witnessed a lot in Key West, Florida at the Island House.. It is fantastic... You want to be alone, NP. Great porn room to watch porn, some I've never seen and also have the real deal right next to you with a guy standing on the bench skull fucking some dude... Place is so cool, I am really surprised that Island House isn't brought up very much..

Condoms in the "fun room" too, although I've never seen one on for a BJ... Other ways, of course. Last edit, a lot of beating off... In the sauna too.
Cock ring comparing, You really have the freedom to be yourself... and not intimidated. I've met some really cool guys, several physicians, military vets, cool.
 
cfsdbf5010 said:
Awesome video and great advice.. I've witnessed a lot in Key West, Florida at the Island House.. It is fantastic... You want to be alone, NP. Great porn room to watch porn, some I've never seen and also have the real deal right next to you with a guy standing on the bench skull fucking some dude... Place is so cool, I am really surprised that Island House isn't brought up very much..

Condoms in the "fun room" too, although I've never seen one on for a BJ... Other ways, of course. Last edit, a lot of beating off... In the sauna too.
Cock ring comparing, You really have the freedom to be yourself... and not intimidated. I've met some really cool guys, several physicians, military vets, cool.
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It's so good to know the names of specific places. If I were in Florida, I would definitely check out Island House! Oh yeah, there is always a lot of blowjobs going on in the places - in private and in the porn rooms!
 
Superboy69 said:
It's so good to know the names of specific places. If I were in Florida, I would definitely check out Island House! Oh yeah, there is always a lot of blowjobs going on in the places - in private and in the porn rooms!
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Without question... suck off's are unbelievable... This guy was ready to cum, he was going to blow his load on the guys face... The dude grabbed his ass and held him in his mouth.. took the whole load, wouldn't let him move kept him in his mouth and the dude came again...

Cool thing too about Island House is you can get a day pass...
 
How are older guys received?? I am a married bi guy and thinking about trying this. No problem getting a boner. Would just shoot up with Tri Mix before going in.
 
kauaipres said:
to add a question: how do you handle running into someone you might know? Especially if you are not out?
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If the guy you know isnt out and your both there doing the same thing then you hold eachothers secret. If the other guy is let's say, a gay guy you know or a gay friend of yours...well then I ask is he cute, hot, top or bottom? Because he could be your option to have a good time and do it right.
 
By the way , in a gay bathhouse you see all types of men , from young age to elderly age , if you see someone you know , you don't need to talk to him unless he acts friendly toward you ( You may just smirk , move on and walk away )
You mostly use your body language to connect with other men ... I wish I could go back in time and enjoy the Bathhouse Experience again but they only exist in the Big City , maybe one day I go to one again but it's been 5 years ...
 
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