Straight guys like to suck cock and take it in the ass

[Jiggerjagger]

I am guy who dates women and I at times let myself get fucked by gay men as a bottom. Most nights I am turned off but there are nights where I am partying and totally go for it. The majority of other straight guys I know, have admitted the same thing. I think any straight guy I am buddies with has done it atleast once, 60% of people I know have admitted it. So why the stigma, we are not gay but just fun.

The only question is why do we always want to be bottoms but not tops?

 

[Curiosity69]

It should be more like this lol, it is with girls, they can just do something with a girl one night and no one cares (mostly, there is still girl on girl homophobia)

 

[satyr987]

Yeah, it's unfortunate that stigma exists. It seems to be deeply rooted in our culture, especially our traditional religions, but we can point to instances in history where this wasn't the case. I have some reason to think this all could significantly change in the near future.

When I think about bisexuality outside of society's prejudices, I find it has a lot going for it. Then it seems like a worthy way to be.

I only had a handful of times with other men, but I share your preferences. I'm primarily interested in sucking cock right now, but I have decided that when/if I do anal, I will be a bottom. It just seems like the more interesting option. I like fucking pussy, and it's good enough for me. I find the idea of being penetrated intriguing, and sort of a way to be in what is thought of as a "feminine" position. I also like the idea of expanding my erogenous zones to include the anus.

 

[sixthson]

They can do it all they want, they just can't call themselves straight and be honest.

The title of this thread says "Straight guys like to suck cock and take it in the ass". That is not honest. There is nothing straight about a guy who likes to do that. Why is that so hard to understand?

 

[TX-Beau]

Yeah, that's kind of the definition of Bisexual.

 

[AlmondMilk]

There are those straight guys who will only have sex with a feminine bottom. But I've noticed most guys who identify as straight are also in your position where they'd rather bottom for a masculine guy.

 

[Donatello420]

I enjoy oral and jo/body contact but nothing anal. I wouldn't call myself 100% straight either because I've experimented with one guy and its become a regular thing. But I have no desire to get fucked or fuck any man, just not my thing.

 

[satyr987]

I say let people define themselves how they choose. We may think they're being disingenuous, but so what.

I think the op considers himself straight most likely because he doesn't form loving partnerships with other men. I'm speculating, but I think that's often the issue.

Technically, I would agree it is bisexual because of the little word "sex." I define myself as bisexual in part to avoid this particular criticism. However, in some aspects I could call myself straight.

I don't understand why some get so defensive about this. Maybe they worry it acts to discredit their lifestyle.

It's a fact that when guys have sex with each other it can be extremely pleasurable. I don't see why the majority of men should have to deny themselves this experience. What's good is good.

I didn't know that most bi and straight men end up as bottoms. I thought I was in the minority, and it would make more sense the other way around.

By the way, does getting fucked really feel that great? Does it feel the same for every guy?

I'm quite curious. It would be great to discover a whole new way to receive sexual pleasure. I guess it's another reason to love cock!

 

[subaaron]

There are some straight guys who suck and get fucked because it is part of the bdsm relationship. They don't enjoy the acts themselves, but they do want the power exchange. If you don't think about gay men romantically, "gay" does not seem like an appropriate classification.

 

[mark08]

Yeah, that's kind of the definition of Bisexual.

They can do it all they want, they just can't call themselves straight and be honest.

The title of this thread says "Straight guys like to suck cock and take it in the ass". That is not honest. There is nothing straight about a guy who likes to do that. Why is that so hard to understand?

I'm straight also and have had those thoughts. Your orientation isn't determined by your actions, it's determined by your attraction. I am very attracted to girls and have zero (As in none whatsoever) towards men, yet I think the experience of sucking or bottoming could be fun to try.

There's a very big difference between bottoming+sucking vs kissing, cuddling, making out, going out to romantic diner, etc. Most straight guys who are curious about sucking and bottoming would also rather do it with a girl using a strapon, but those aren't as common as gay men.

The other factor is that it's something we've never tried before, just like a girl can try eating another girl out because she's curious, that dosen't make her a lesbian.

I've been on this board for a bit and EVERY time a straight guy posts, there's a bunch of frustrated gays screaming ''OMG YOURE NOT STRAIGHT YOURE IN THE CLOSET OR BI!'', it's very ironic because you expect open mindedness from society, yet as soon as a straight guy (yes, we are straight) attempts any experiments, you want to label him right away.

Pathetic.

 

[aberro21]

This is my favorite thread ever. Experimenting doesn't make you bi or gay but if you like it and continue to do it than you're bi or gay. It's like 1+1. That's just my simple opinion.

I LOVE JUB!

 

[cocksucker4use]

I think it is just how one self-identifies, and that is up to each of us. Lot's of transvestites are straight. Lots of submissive males are straight, but suck cock or even get fucked if their mistress/dom orders it. I can and have fucked and eaten pussy and think its hella hot, though I don't go lookin for it, and certainly don't think that qualifies me a str8 or even bi, but then again, in my head, I could be bi, I guess. I have this deal where I give massages to guys, and about 50% of the time, the str8 dudes want assplay and to be fucked up the ass....and all want head.

 

[mark08]

I think it is just how one self-identifies, and that is up to each of us. Lot's of transvestites are straight. Lots of submissive males are straight, but suck cock or even get fucked if their mistress/dom orders it. I can and have fucked and eaten pussy and think its hella hot, though I don't go lookin for it, and certainly don't think that qualifies me a str8 or even bi, but then again, in my head, I could be bi, I guess. I have this deal where I give massages to guys, and about 50% of the time, the str8 dudes want assplay and to be fucked up the ass....and all want head.

Exactly, the act of eating pussy dosen't suddenly make you bi.

Just like a straight guy sucking/bottoming dosent make him bi either.

It's called trying new stuff out, expanding your horizons.

A lot more straight guys would be open to trying it and a lot less people would be homophobic if the gay community wasnt so quick to label people.

If someone has always eaten oranges, but never tried eating an apple, the curiosity might get the best of them. They might try eating one, find it ok and go back to oranges.

 

[tomhrdhat]

I have been with several straight guys (mostly high school and college). All these guys chose to mess around strictly due to being horny. I'm very masculine and do not feel they would have played if they had known I preferred being with guys. One guy let me fuck him because i told him I wouldn't suck his cock unless he sucked mine. I think for him, being fucked was the lesser of two evils.

 

[jmadaf]

There are bimarried who have gay sex, and call theirselves straight bacause they don't want to be persecuted, their choice. Now if those same run down gays they are dishonest but like me, I don't do that I treat them like people, and nobody thinks bad of me because I'm married, they just think I'm a nice guy, isn't that easier then fighting all the riddicule. Think about it.

 

[mark08]

There are bimarried who have gay sex, and call theirselves straight bacause they don't want to be persecuted, their choice. Now if those same run down gays they are dishonest but like me, I don't do that I treat them like people, and nobody thinks bad of me because I'm married, they just think I'm a nice guy, isn't that easier then fighting all the riddicule. Think about it.

I think there's a difference between a single straight guy trying out gay sex because there aren't women availible (no, it's not that easy getting laid) or to experiment AND a man who has a wife at home availible for sex that still seeks gay sex AFTER having it tried several times.

 

[goldpuma]

They can do it all they want, they just can't call themselves straight and be honest.

The title of this thread says "Straight guys like to suck cock and take it in the ass". That is not honest. There is nothing straight about a guy who likes to do that. Why is that so hard to understand?

exactly!
The thread description is practically the definition of a gay man!
Straight? Straight up the arse

 

[mark08]

I am guy who dates women and I at times let myself get fucked by gay men as a bottom. Most nights I am turned off but there are nights where I am partying and totally go for it. The majority of other straight guys I know, have admitted the same thing. I think any straight guy I am buddies with has done it atleast once, 60% of people I know have admitted it. So why the stigma, we are not gay but just fun.

The only question is why do we always want to be bottoms but not tops?

exactly!
The thread description is practically the definition of a gay man!
Straight? Straight up the arse

Didn't know gays dated women.

Actions and attractions are two different things.

You can be attracted to females, yet play with males out of curiosity or lack of females, but would never go on a date with a male because you aren't attracted to them, that makes you straight.

You can also be attracted to BOTH males AND females equally in a ROMANTIC way. That makes you bi. There are very few bi people.

You can also be only attracted to men, that makes you gay.

According to this forum:

A straight guy experimenting = full blown gay closet homo

A straight girl experimenting = wild party girl that likes to play around

A gay guy experimenting (with a girl) = Oh he was just curious, now he knows for sure.

 

[Curiosity69]

According to this forum:

A straight guy experimenting = full blown gay closet homo

A straight girl experimenting = wild party girl that likes to play around

A gay guy experimenting (with a girl) = Oh he was just curious, now he knows for sure.

Yep, unfortunately the moronic view of most gays on here.

 

[mbamike]

You can identify by which ever label makes you the most comfortable. In my experience, nature will win out.

I lived the straight life most of my life; longer than some of you guys have been alive. I got married, had a kid, embraced the conservative/family values, joined the church and got divorced.

I loved ass play when I masturbated. I stuck lots of objects up my ass as a substitute for a Real Cock I even broke down to purchase a Dildo Eventually, that did not satisfy my needs. I could not do it any more. I needed a Real Cock

I found a guy on A4A, told him I was a gay virgin and wanted to experience my first gay sex. Lucky for me, he had a PhD and works as a clinical psychologist. We were to hook up for one night, but we ended up spending the entire weekend together. I don't know if you are religious or not, but I see that as divine intervention.

He answered a gazillion questions. He also fucked me about every way imaginable; on my back, on my side, ass in the air, on my stomach, pillows under my ass, pillows under my stomach, etc. He rimmed me really good too. He has a nice thick seven and a half inch cock too. WOW! The sex was amazing!

I understand that society is hammering on our young people to be straight, that being gay is a choice, and if you "choose" to be gay then you are eternally damned. I wrestled with all that too.

I have learned through a great deal of studying and praying, that those are all lies. I can be gay and be a Christian too. I am not eternally damned either.

I am telling you guys this because I am seeing a great deal of denial in this thread. I don't want you guys to make the same mistakes that I made. As I said earlier, I was in denial longer than some of you have been alive. My regret is that I did not face my reality sooner. It is OK to experiment. Experimenting does not make you gay or straight. Just be true to yourself. I wish you all the best!