Straight Guys You Had Suspicions About

[mydrew1]

There's 2 straight guys at high school that I can say with more or less confidence were probably at least bisexual.

1 was a major bully. It was PE, and the class' topic was jumping on trampolines(the big ones yipee ) and one of the bullies(I forget his name, he was an Iraqi is all I can recall) and he seemed to have been checking out my legs(or but) as I was flipping, etc. Now I intentionally always wear long shorts(knee length or longer) so he wouldn't have seen much. Of course, while not making homophobic jibes last I recall, that'd be surprising if it reflected his sexuality. Of course, it might have been just general watching

The second time is a little more certain. Again, no homophobia from this guy(his name was Jesse), another bully, interesting thing I was told by a sub-bully was that Jesse had been caught peeking through a shower barrier or something at another guy. From then on he was ostracised by the group he was associated with. Even though this was a few years after graduation, I imagine it made his life more boring, tut tut.

Well, those are the only 2 I can think of. If anyone found the title hard to get, I hope the 1st post got you on track. Feel free to share similar stories.

 

[bananas15]

1 was a major bully. It was PE, and the class' topic was jumping on trampolines(the big ones yipee ) and one of the bullies(I forget his name, he was an Iraqi is all I can recall) and he seemed to have been checking out my legs(or but) as I was flipping, etc. Now I intentionally always wear long shorts(knee length or longer) so he wouldn't have seen much. Of course, while not making homophobic jibes last I recall, that'd be surprising if it reflected his sexuality. Of course, it might have been just general watching

Sorry, I find that makes very little sense. You sensed the 'Iraqi' was watching you?...or something along those lines. The paragraph is quite 'stream of consciousness' in its obtuseness.

 

[Scimitar]

My Freshmen year roommate who had a girlfriend, and was pretty southern and masculine. He would get drunk and call me buddy, and touch me, hug me, slap my ass, call me babe, moon me etc. But I was never sure, cause I also had a girlfriend at the time, so I just chalked it up as him being a really friendly drunk straight guy.

 

[USEDCAR]

My senior year this guy in my computer class. He used to touch me all the time play with my hands rub on my legs stare at me. We would leave class and we would lock arms together.He would get really upset if i was mad at him or couldn't sit next to me in class. He would also send me sexual aims time to time and would ask me "Do you think im cute" all kinds of crazy stuff this guy had the baddest luck with girls couldn't even keep a girlfriend for a month. I always thought he was bi-curious but just too scared to act on it

 

[mydrew1]

My senior year this guy in my computer class. He used to touch me all the time play with my hands rub on my legs stare at me. We would leave class and we would lock arms together.He would get really upset if i was mad at him or couldn't sit next to me in class. He would also send me sexual aims time to time and would ask me "Do you think im cute" all kinds of crazy stuff this guy had the baddest luck with girls couldn't even keep a girlfriend for a month. I always thought he was bi-curious but just too scared to act on it

Wow. You gotta try to get touch with him

 

[stupidhead]

I have this straight friend that is friends with my family. Everyone knows he is straight but he acts really gay...often. Like if I'm on the couch, he'll come over and spoon me, or make comments that are really gay. But his best friend is positive he is straight. I'm in the closet, so nobody knows I'm bi. I like to joke back at him. But I'm only partially joking. I was at his place one time and he walked around his house naked for a while before his shower. I didn't look because I knew it would be too obvious. Then I tried to glance quickly, and he said "I saw you trying to look". I hope he is bi at least... I can't really make a move seriously. I can only say things and pretend like I'm joking :/

 

[CudDULL]

When I was a senior I knew this kid who was in student government and he had a lot of senior friends which I was good friends with too. He was gay but he wasnt out but to me it was so obvious. I mean it was pretty obvious to everyone else too and i think I was pretty obvious too being gay haha about.

 

[gaytxn09]

Hey stupidhead (I feel like I'm calling you names haha)...if the guy is walking around his house naked and you're there with him, you can definitely look. Just don't stare. It's only natural to look, and if he's chilling around naked, he's either (a) really comfortable with himself and doesn't mind other people seeing his nakedness or (b) he's an exhibitionist or (c) (my favorite) he secretly wants you to look. In any scenario, you're totally fine in peeking. Again, just don't stare. And you can always joke around. Push the envelope just a tad. In my opinion, if he's walking around naked next to you, the writing's on the wall....

 

[stupidhead]

Hey stupidhead (I feel like I'm calling you names haha)...if the guy is walking around his house naked and you're there with him, you can definitely look. Just don't stare. It's only natural to look, and if he's chilling around naked, he's either (a) really comfortable with himself and doesn't mind other people seeing his nakedness or (b) he's an exhibitionist or (c) (my favorite) he secretly wants you to look. In any scenario, you're totally fine in peeking. Again, just don't stare. And you can always joke around. Push the envelope just a tad. In my opinion, if he's walking around naked next to you, the writing's on the wall....

Thanks for your advice. I spent the night at his house the night before and I didn't want to sleep on the couch, so we shared his bed. He slept in just his boxer briefs. During the night I woke up in so many different positions. We started off back to back, but then I woke up face to face...only 2 inches from his face, then I woke up with my head on his arm, etc. It was interesting. The next morning he just took of his boxer briefs in his bedroom and walked to the bathroom and hopped in the shower, leaving the door open (shower curtains closed). As I was brushing my teeth he opened the shower curtain for like a minute, staring at me. I tried to ignore this. Then I kinda glanced out of the corner of my eye and he said "I saw you trying to look!" (He still left the curtain open for another 10 seconds though.) There was another girl present during all of this. Just one of our mutual friends though. He seems like a straight guy thats just joking around...but I kinda feel like theres a possibility he is bi...or it could be me just wanting him to be bi.
He's 24 by the way...

 

[mydrew1]

Thanks for your advice. I spent the night at his house the night before and I didn't want to sleep on the couch, so we shared his bed. He slept in just his boxer briefs. During the night I woke up in so many different positions. We started off back to back, but then I woke up face to face...only 2 inches from his face, then I woke up with my head on his arm, etc. It was interesting. The next morning he just took of his boxer briefs in his bedroom and walked to the bathroom and hopped in the shower, leaving the door open (shower curtains closed). As I was brushing my teeth he opened the shower curtain for like a minute, staring at me. I tried to ignore this. Then I kinda glanced out of the corner of my eye and he said "I saw you trying to look!" (He still left the curtain open for another 10 seconds though.) There was another girl present during all of this. Just one of our mutual friends though. He seems like a straight guy thats just joking around...but I kinda feel like theres a possibility he is bi...or it could be me just wanting him to be bi.
He's 24 by the way...

Ask him out, jeez. I'm my view he's doing everything but ask you out.

 

[KnightRider]

I love reading these stories, they are usually the same, and they take me back to my late teens and early 20's. So many of us have stories like these. If these guys are willing to be so suggestive with you, you are just a fool if you want to do things with them sexually but you resist. By doing this, if you respond directly and for some odd reason they AREN'T willing to be sexual with you, you can always play it off as joking because that is exactly how they are acting with you. You won't have to lose face or look foolish, they are covering that for you. Act on your feelings or you will spend the rest of your life wishing you had. Stupidhead, don't live up to your name here. Do it for me, I believe in you

 

[stupidhead]

I know I know...It sounds really obvious on paper, but I do really think he is just joking around. And I leave for school in a week, so that kinda puts a damper on things

 

[stupidhead]

Update: He seems to become more straight as he drinks. This confuses me. I think I am officially giving up on it...

 

[CGHJ]

I have fucked around with a lot of the guys I had suspicions about. That 'suspicion' is called GAYDAR, you have to learn to trust it!

 

[pauliesan89]

My so called straight friend who i had sex with every day for over 3 years, now he pretends it didnt happen. But i dont believe it, i know what he tastes like :O

 

[seven_sins]

Used to go out to eat with a guy across the hall from me in the dorm when I was in college. We would go back to his room and watch some TV. He would strip to his briefs and T-shirt, then stand between me and the TV and change from briefs to boxers. He claimed he was more comfortable lounging in boxers. He had a nice dick and usually sported a semi. I still get hot and bothered thinking about it.

 

[Sha-Rok]

In high school, well school generally I would always space out and sometimes it would look like I was trying to hit on you, a few girls and boys asked if I was interested in them..Then the rumor mill stated I was Bi. Lmao.

 

[talesofabyssjade]

Alot lmfao in high school one of the quaterbacks always Eye fucked me and flirted like he was always trying to get close to me...but he was a jock and i was a prep...So we rarely hung out after school

Also I'm in college now and all of my frat brothers now know I'm bisexual and they all of a sudden want to cuddle with me it was so weird because they're str8, they don't want to have sex just cuddle and a lot of them seem to be getting naked infront of me more often than not (I mean they're not trying to cover themselves in the frat house, its like they're inviting me to do something) aslo my anthropology professor, who's a grad student has been eye fucking me since school started and he always comes up to me and smiles and chats but he's 28 and has a fiancee so i dont know maybe he's just really nice!

 

[blackbeltninja]

^A helpful bit of advice for your college assignments and whatnot: punctuation and grammar are your friends.

As for me and suspicions about guys I know or knew - none. My gaydar/bidar is hopeless. I did find out recently that one gay in my class is gay and out about it and it took everyone I know by surprise when one of my friends mentioned it recently.

And there is a guy at my karate club who is extremely gay, but I thought he was merely a bit foreign (he is) and effeminate (ditto). But nope, gay gay gay - I'm clueless.

-d-

 

[talesofabyssjade]

^A helpful bit of advice for your college assignments and whatnot: punctuation and grammar are your friends.

lmfao your kidding right I type on here like I text dude, do you honestly think I write like this in class (im in honors for crying out loud) i would get str8 F's...meh maybe im to lazy but whatev's ill type how i feel