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So there is a guy in my apt complex. Im really attracted t him too his wife just left him a few months ago and he lives with another guy well they were outside today by the creek near the apartment don't know what they were doing but it did involve a towel and some honey I think they might be on the down low . how do I find out if they are down for some fun ?the one guy invited me back to his place to watch a movie didn't work out right but I was picking up some vibes but it could also just be my wishful thinking how can I be sure ?and how can I put out my vibes of my own to let him know I'm down for a good bro job with no strings attached
 
Depends...think he likes a dude with a lisp?

...huh?
 
I have to admit I find this a bit... Puzzling. Are you sure you want hook ups?
Because it seems like these two guys are strangers to you and that was something you weren't comfortable with when you tried to hooking up through an app. I mean, besides distance what really makes this any different? It's certainly not any safer, health-wise.

If this were a friend that you wanted to be friends with benefits with I could understand a little because there's a certain level of trust and intimacy that are easier to engage with. But that doesn't sound like what you described.

As far as vibes go, I definitely can't help ya. I don't pick up on these kinds of signals and I certainly don't know how to send them. I'd much rather people just be direct.
 
Yeah sorry I was drunk when I posted that. The guy I like Is not a stranger. I've known him for a while. But last night it may have the drinks but I was picking up a vibe from him.
We were talking he said he was a dick to his wife. And I told him but I bet your a good dick and he said he was a great dick I told him I would like to find out for myself one day and he laughed and invited me back to his place To watch a movie. . Is that a sign?
 
No. The sign comes when you ask him out. Unambiguously. You get your answer when you state your intentions, clearly.
 
Croft85 said:
Yeah sorry I was drunk when I posted that. The guy I like Is not a stranger. I've known him for a while. But last night it may have the drinks but I was picking up a vibe from him.
We were talking he said he was a dick to his wife. And I told him but I bet your a good dick and he said he was a great dick I told him I would like to find out for myself one day and he laughed and invited me back to his place To watch a movie. . Is that a sign?
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Go for it
 
We hung out the other night night and watched a movie. In the middle of the movie he left the room and came back without a shirt. My God the man is ripped. Sadly I don't pick up on any vibes those time. He fell asleep. But it did give me a great opp to admire his body tho. Wow
 
and here I am on the other side, a straight guy looking for a gay guy to fool around with
 
Croft85 said:
In the middle of the movie he left the room and came back without a shirt. Sadly I don't pick up on any vibes those time.
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That he was undressing practically in front of you didn't trigger a reaction on your part?........ :confused:
Good grief man....... #-o
 
I didn't know if that was a sign or not. he come back sat down and fell asleep. so I just assumed he was getting comfortable to go to bed. So I good night and left
 
You do realize that he's going to have to explicitly know you want his dick at some point don't you? Unless you intend to wait until he pounces upon you, while you make like a blushing maiden protecting your virtue.

You are doing what all closeted guys do, having wistful fantasies waiting for guarantees so you don't have to take any chances.

It's why the closet sucks ass, and not in a good way.
 
seven2go said:
That he was undressing practically in front of you didn't trigger a reaction on your part?........ :confused:
Good grief man....... #-o
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Or he's just a tease. Some guys are. Straight AND gay. What, you've never met one of those? "Look but don't touch"?
 
mcbrion said:
Or he's just a tease. Some guys are. Straight AND gay. What, you've never met one of those? "Look but don't touch"?
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Or he was sleepy and it was a hint that he wanted his guest to leave so that he could get some sleep.
 
Of course we all know there is an utterly simple way to find out.
 
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