lol besides the squabble, any help here?
i'll go over it again:
no alcohol, porn, motels etc. its either in a backyard or somewhere open. we're both 18 and all i'm asking is how to fool around that's not obvious (ex. hey wanna wrestle? - a bit obvious).
also, he thinks im straight.
thnx guys.
Hey,
justin77!
O.K. ... here's "The Scoop!"
You're both 18! (Gawd!, I wish I could be That, again!!
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) You're both at your sexual peak! (Raging hormones, and all that goes with them!

) And you're both
assuming the other is completely Str8!

(I seriously doubt there is anything such as a
100% Str8 Male!!

)
Truth is, you're both 98% IDENTICAL! (Human Genome mapping, and all that "scientific stuff"!) And, you're both, HORNEY, Human Males!! Know how YOU feel? Know what YOU like? Just KNOW that HE is feeling the SAME as YOU! He is just as Confused, and Frustrated, as YOU are! The "Trick" is how He has been raised to Deal with "IT'! And that is Your "Problem", too! Your own perceptions! It's all about not being sure what is Acceptable, Expected, Social Behaviour!
So ... let's jump over all of that "Concerned Introspection"! Just RELAX and be Yourself! Would You like a Hug? Give HIM one! Would You like Him to massage Your shoulders? Then, rub His shoulders! Would You like Him to run his finger down Your chest? Then lightly scratch His chest! Gently bump into Him! Sit close, touching thighs with Him! And ... this is one of my favorites! ... if you're both about the same size ... tell Him how good He looks in His clothes ... and ask if You can swap! (Preferrably ALL of them!

)
"Playfully" untie His shoes! Want Him to take off His shirt? Loose Yours! And, all the while, acting like it's the most Natural thing to do! Become a bit more "Forward" in Your own actions! All the while letting Him KNOW that it's O.K. for Him, to Touch YOU! Want HIM to drop His "Shields"?? Drop Your's FIRST!!
And should He "retract"? Then, respect His own "Comort Levels"! But, still, continue being just the way You would WISH things to be! Not, necessarily, Completely FORWARD, but, rather, completly Natural! Know what I mean??
He may not respond eniterly in the ways You might Wish! But ... I'm willing to bet ... He'll react in ways that might surprise You!
Want to see His dick? Show Him YOURS First! Pick a bush, or tree, walk over for a pee, where He can see, and just casually "whip IT out"! Pee shy? Still no big problem. Pull it out, in His full sight, and after a few moments of NOT peeing, mention something like, "Sorry, Dude! I just can't seem to do this while You're being able to watch Me! Must be "Pee Shy"!

Are You, too??"

Make light/fun of it! Even if You don't have to pee!!

The important thing ... don't make Anything a "Big Deal"!
And if You should pop a Boner while whipping IT out? Something along the lines of, "Hey, Man, does the slightest breeze give You a Hard On, too?"
Show IT! Talk about IT! Don't be
Shy!!
It all "cums" down to making Yourself "Available" to Him! Will He take the "Bait"? Can't say! But ... if You do it, Casually, NOTHING "meant"!, simply being a Guy!, You just might, MIGHT, be able to get HIM to relax, enough, to comfortably be the 18yr. old, HORNEY MALE, that HE is, Himself, around You, too!!
Don't Sweat the Petty Things, just Pet the Sweaty Things!!
Wishing You ALL the Very Best! And ... oh yeah! ... keep us Posted ... hey!??
(Thank Goodness, the "Smilie Limit" doesn't seem to be a "Concern" anymore!)
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
