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straight man asks "are you a virgin"

evanrick

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the only guys that have ever asked me "are you a virgin" are always flirting with me in some way....is that some kind of signal? as far as i know these guys are straight but do gay stuff like touch me and ask me to lick their balls (jokingly)....
 
Well, yeah. The guys who aren't interested in flirting don't care about my virginal status, so they don't bother asking. If these "straight" guys keep asking, answer "Why do you ask? Are you hoping to cure me of it?"

Lex
 
Okay, i'll be the one bastard who's completely honest with you:

I highly doubt they're flirting with you, man; They see that you never talk to girls and are most likely still a virgin, so they're teasing and implying that you're gay since you aren't out getting lucky with females.
 
Yeah. Unless they know you're gay, it sounds more like they're trying to get you to admit you're a homo.

They didn't ask if you were a homo virgin, did they?
 
Everyone always suspects me of being a virgin family co workers etc. I just don't share my sex life with random people and i feel uncomfortable sharing it with my family members i think that's sick. A few friends knows I'm not a virgin.

evanrick when a straight guy ask you "Are you a virgin?" Just tell them you are and say to them are you going to help me lose my virginity and then wink your eye at them. I'm sure that will fix that.
 
ok one of them i could SEE checking me out one day, sizing me up, IDK why...maybe he WAS trying to decide if i was gay...but why would they care either way? do they even want to know that im gay? im thinking they might, but one of them is the last person i would tell just because he would tell everyone everything.

i had a similar situation where a black guy asked me if was "mixed race" i said yes but you really cant tell and even he didnt know. i think he was jealous of the fact that i could hide it but everyone knew he was black. i dont have a problem with saying that because the guy was a douche.
 
ok one of them i could SEE checking me out one day, sizing me up, IDK why...maybe he WAS trying to decide if i was gay...but why would they care either way? do they even want to know that im gay? im thinking they might, but one of them is the last person i would tell just because he would tell everyone everything.

i had a similar situation where a black guy asked me if was "mixed race" i said yes but you really cant tell and even he didnt know. i think he was jealous of the fact that i could hide it but everyone knew he was black. i dont have a problem with saying that because the guy was a douche.

Not that you'd want to "hide" being black, right? Just saying that your wording implies being black is something to be ashamed of...which isn't true, but you knew that.

And neither is being gay or being a virgin something to be ashamed of. But yeah, it's hard to tell when guys are checking you out or just being nosy/playful/annoying (at least for me). The only way to check is, yeah, ask 'em straight out if they're planning to help you with it, jokingly. They'll get the point whether they're joking or not lol.
 
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