Like a couple of the other guys replied, I feel no emotional attraction to guys. Never have, to be honest. And all those years surrounded by most-often wet naked boys, teens and men - I was totally uninterested. But THEN, once I stopped going to the gyms, and stopped seeing other guys naked, and stopped being seen naked by other guys... well, I slowly came to realize that I missed it. And I found myself looking at naked males online as much, and perhaps more than naked females.
These days? I just love naked male bodies. And I look back on the opportunities I had as a boy and young man to "experiment" and realize I really, I mean REALLY, missed out. So many guys I chat with tell me they experimented with friends, or brothers or cousins - and I really only did once (at age 13) but that didn't end well, unfortunately.
Would I "experiment" now, at my age? Very unlikely due to the effect it would have on family. But, if the right setting, I might try something. One thing is for sure - I would LOVE to try some things - things most guys did as boys. I'm just a late bloomer, I guess.
Like a couple of the other guys replied, I feel no emotional attraction to guys. Never have, to be honest. And all those years surrounded by most-often wet naked boys, teens and men - I was totally uninterested. But THEN, once I stopped going to the gyms, and stopped seeing other guys naked, and stopped being seen naked by other guys... well, I slowly came to realize that I missed it. And I found myself looking at naked males online as much, and perhaps more than naked females.
These days? I just love naked male bodies. And I look back on the opportunities I had as a boy and young man to "experiment" and realize I really, I mean REALLY, missed out. So many guys I chat with tell me they experimented with friends, or brothers or cousins - and I really only did once (at age 13) but that didn't end well, unfortunately.
Would I "experiment" now, at my age? Very unlikely due to the effect it would have on family. But, if the right setting, I might try something. One thing is for sure - I would LOVE to try some things - things most guys did as boys. I'm just a late bloomer, I guess.
We have a lot in common CN. I think of missed opportunities too.
There was this blondish guy in my 8 am poli sci course
Freshmen yr in college, we lived in the same dorm and started walking to class together. We got along well, I recall he had a slight limp at that young age. I can't recall his name, this would 50 yrs ago, maybe it was Alan? So we were getting on the elevator after class and he asked me if I wanted to go see a movie w/ him.
I knew I was also attracted to guys as well as girls but this direct dealing w/ my male attractions was too much for me to deal w/ at age 18, coming from my background. I took it as an invite to a date, which it was, and I declined. I don't recall what happened right after, but I know we didn't remain friends after that class ended.
And that saddens me today, this site has just reminded me of that experience. For he reached out to me, I think for a possibility of a relationship and I was too scared to even contemplate it back in 1973.