Straight men 'gay' each other up

[Stuart]

I worked many years with a group of seemingly straight men. None of us were openly gay but we did 'gay' each other up. This was back in the day when suggestive banter was more acceptable.

The sort of thing I'm talking about is for example, if I was to drop my pen on the floor and bend down to pick it up, one of the other men would say - "While you're down there". Meaning while you are down there suck my cock. The women would often go to the toilet together and sometimes for a laugh the men would also do the same thing, sometimes holding hands.

I wondered if this was limited to my workplace or the just in the UK.

Did you do this and did anything ever come of it?

 

[yeahrightsd]

An old roommate and I used to mess with each other and just say “suck it” all the time.

Then one day he just said well whip it out. I didn’t think he was serious so I just laughed it off. But he started saying it often.

One day I was a bit buzzed and very horny. I said suck it, he said whip it out. I still wasn’t sure if he was serious , I said “you won’t do it” then he said it again, my heart was pounding but I just said well turn off the light first. As a final test. And he got up and shut off the lights so I pulled my shorts down. And he went right at my dick.

We played together all summer. I started sucking his fat dick too. I eventually fucked him a few times. Once bare just to feel it. But I was never able to take his big dick. I wish we would have worked at it. We just stuck to oral. He drove a big ol Lincoln. I tried to suck his dick once while he drove but he got scared we’d get caught lol.

This was back in 2001 or so. I think he lives in Minnesota now. Scott if you see this, hi. I miss you wearing that lingerie while you sucked me. I wish I never moved, we could have experimented and done so much more together.

 

[USEDCAR]

Many years ago, I became friends with a guy on Facebook, and we would hang out often. I came out to him at the bar, and he told me he messed with a guy once, which I wasn't surprised by.


I would always slap his ass or touch his hair, and he would always act annoyed by it. We were at my house, and he said his back was hurting from work. This was a week or two after me coming out, and I think he plotted this. I offered to massage him, and he said he would be down. He laid on my bed, and I massaged him, and after I was done, he asked where my happy ending was. I told him to whip it out, and he made an excited squeal and took out his really rock-hard dick; he could break a brick with it. I sucked his dick, and he came a lot, and we talked, and he went home. It happened a few more times, and I eventually ate out his ass.

We drifted apart, and he ended up getting a girlfriend, and after they broke up, we talked on Messenger, and he wanted to be friends but never bring up the blow jobs, and I kindly declined, and what was weird was that if he saw me in public, he would say hi and make small talk.

I used to work with a very flirty guy i'll have to post that story next time.

 

[Stuart]

Scott if you see this, hi. I miss you wearing that lingerie while you sucked me. I wish I never moved, we could have experimented and done so much more together.

I often wonder if the guy that used to "gay me up" is on here. Perhaps I should post a message like you.

Mark, if you are reading this, get in touch, I'd love to suck you off

 

[Stuart]

I used to work with a very flirty guy i'll have to post that story next time.

I would love to openly flirt with men. I'd really like to read that story.

 

[PrinceCory]

I wondered if this was limited to my workplace or the just in the UK.

Did you do this and did anything ever come of it?

I heard that kind of talk in the work place when I was 19 to 21. The younger "high school kids" that I worked with said that to each other. Since I was an Asst. Store Manager, I didn't talk like that to them. But even the couple of friends I had (not from work) that I drank with, I don't remember talking like that. But then I was solidly in the gay closet so that may have been the reason I didn't make those comments.

 

[Stuart]

I heard that kind of talk in the work place when I was 19 to 21. The younger "high school kids" that I worked with said that to each other. Since I was an Asst. Store Manager, I didn't talk like that to them. But even the couple of friends I had (not from work) that I drank with, I don't remember talking like that. But then I was solidly in the gay closet so that may have been the reason I didn't make those comments.

I was in the closet too. I had a reputation as being a ladies man as I'd dated a couple of women at work. We were in our 40s to 50s at the time so certainly not young. I never instigated anything first but I carried it on when a guy had done it to me. One guy would strut around the office like a girl. I remember his arms by his side his hands flared out gingerly walking on his toes like he was in high heels, wiggling his bum. Being a bit of a sissy this really appealed to me. I felt sure he had been practising. He suggested I have a go but I jokingly told him that I would put him to shame. It was about this time our assistant manager piped up from out of his office - "Get on with your work you fucking queers". Needless to say we were all a bit sheepish after that.