In my opinion and experience, straight men as "tops" just instinctively do it better. I do believe this is in part that straight are taught well with their time with women, and they don't have the hangups that gay ment tend to have. And gay men aren't allowed to develop their sexuality in the early ways as our heterosexual counterparts are.
And I'm still waiting to meet any gay/bi dudes that surprise me as ones I "would never have guessed" or are the aforementioned masculine/aggressive dudes.
Just my opinion from my personal experience.
And I'm still waiting to meet any gay/bi dudes that surprise me as ones I "would never have guessed" or are the aforementioned masculine/aggressive dudes.
Just my opinion from my personal experience.

