The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    PLEASE READ: To register, turn off your VPN (iPhone users- disable iCloud); you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • The Support & Advice forum is a no-flame zone.
    The members offering support and advice do so with the best intention. If you ask for advice, we don't require you to take the advice, but we do ask that you listen and give it consideration.

Straight or Bi

L

Lewiz55

On the Prowl
Joined
May 17, 2007
Posts
52
Reaction score
0
Points
0
I'm a bit lost cus I've never actualy been attracted to a guy I've met or seen in public b4 and don't think I'd wanna go out with a guy, but I love gay porn and really like the idea of having gay sex.
 
Hey man -

Have you ever had a childhood experience in which male to male interaction took place (i.e. touching one another)? I (23 years old) have no desire to date guys, but because my first sexual experience was with a guy, I fantasize about gay sex. Just throwing that out there, if that helps.

Usually, there is something in your life that triggers your gay sex fantasies. Although some guys describe that they were born gay (and I in no way doubt this), people like yourself and I usually have a life experience that triggers this fantasy. Think about your past and this might bring about some understanding.

Good luck!
 
I understand that. Although I often have sex with other men, I like porn much more than the actual sex act. I also think my fascination with homosexuality comes from several childhood experiences.
 
I don't think I had any sexual experiences as a young child with guys or girls so I don't think that's what triggered my liking of guys.
 
The thing that gets me is that most of the time I don't really think about having gay sex. How I just randomly want it and how I don't always have the strong desire to have sex with guys is what really confuses me and worries me.
 
Lewiz55 said:
The thing that gets me is that most of the time I don't really think about having gay sex. How I just randomly want it and how I don't always have the strong desire to have sex with guys is what really confuses me and worries me.
Click to expand...

(!) Sex with guys is OVER-RATED! LOL (!)
 
I'm also somewhat submisive and might be a bottom (course I wouldn't know since I'm a virgin) and I'm pretty sure there arn't alot of girls who are into being dominate. Just thought I'd mention that in case it might help someone figure out what I am.
 
I almost feel like I'd be missing out if I went out with a girl and if I went out with a guy I feel like I would be doing it only for sex and would be really lonely.
 
BeardedWoof said:
Trish-just curious why do you like fucking men with dildos? What does it do for you?
Click to expand...

Hi, B'Woof! ;) First of all, it's only fantasy as I've never actually done it.

Second, and I feel kind of bad for this, but I want revenge. Every guy who grabs my ass, I want to treat him like the scum he is!:grrr:

T
 
TheTrish said:
Hi, B'Woof! ;) First of all, it's only fantasy as I've never actually done it.

Second, and I feel kind of bad for this, but I want revenge. Every guy who grabs my ass, I want to treat him like the scum he is!:grrr:

T
Click to expand...

I know we've talked about this before but I gotta say again...

I'd LOVE you to use that thing in me!! OMG, such a fantasy, and YES, I've done it before. :)
 
Even though I choose the label "bisexual" for myself, because it's the closest thing that fits, I really loathe and despise the use of labels. Why can't humans just be content accepting that they are "sexual" beings, and forget the prefixes? Because we just like labeling things. Unfortunately, this causes a lot of confusion for us. Lewiz, you are a sexual being. You can allow yourself to experience your own sexuality with whomever/whatever you choose. You do not have to 'adopt' a label. Be yourself. In the end, that is what we all are, ourselves. Labels be damned. Enjoy life. It's too short to worry about what to call yourself. Just do what seems right for you. You have nothing to prove to anyone else. Labels are only for the benefit of others. Follow your heart. Oh, and let me just say one other thing. I have had relationships with both genders, and am currently seriously involved with a guy. Don't cheat yourself by not dating guys. You just might be surprised how fulfilling it can be. Bottom line, be open with yourself and allow yourself to fully explore every avenue available. Don't be prejudiced and close yourself off because of childhood programming. At 19 you are just becoming 'aware' as an adult. Use this opportunity to explore yourself and the world before making any 'decisions' ... the results may surprise you.
 
capper269 said:
Even though I choose the label "bisexual" for myself, because it's the closest thing that fits, I really loathe and despise the use of labels. Why can't humans just be content accepting that they are "sexual" beings, and forget the prefixes? Because we just like labeling things. Unfortunately, this causes a lot of confusion for us. Lewiz, you are a sexual being. You can allow yourself to experience your own sexuality with whomever/whatever you choose. You do not have to 'adopt' a label. Be yourself. In the end, that is what we all are, ourselves. Labels be damned. Enjoy life. It's too short to worry about what to call yourself. Just do what seems right for you. You have nothing to prove to anyone else. Labels are only for the benefit of others. Follow your heart. Oh, and let me just say one other thing. I have had relationships with both genders, and am currently seriously involved with a guy. Don't cheat yourself by not dating guys. You just might be surprised how fulfilling it can be. Bottom line, be open with yourself and allow yourself to fully explore every avenue available. Don't be prejudiced and close yourself off because of childhood programming. At 19 you are just becoming 'aware' as an adult. Use this opportunity to explore yourself and the world before making any 'decisions' ... the results may surprise you.
Click to expand...

yea I know I don't need a lable, but I kinda want one not to like comfort myself or anything but just for fun and to make describing myself easier. Thanks for posting everyone :D
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top