Straights Who Play You

[stripes]

i dunno. can't speak for those guys but i've been in a couple of situations where i didn't mind flirting with guys. some thought i am straight & some knew i like the cock. but once they tried to take it further i'd just completely lose interest. it's nothing personal and i was never out to hurt anyone's feelings, but flirting was enough for me. i never had any desire to take it further.

maybe it was the same way for them. if that's the case, then don't take it personally.

 

[Halifaxboy8]

I've certainly been in many situations with straight guys as the OP described. However, I think you just acted too early. The people I've been involved with took, literally, a year or so of flirtation before they'd finally act and do something.

You just picked the apple before it was ripe, my friend.

 

[Storybook_Man]

play games back with them. I do all the time and they end up really wanting something, and I don't do it lol..

 

[Luckydude69]

Is this to a spacific age group range thing?

My best friend since 6th grade is always messing with me. when i came to terms with being gay he was ther for me. then he started like holding me in a chock hold and he would grind his hips in to my ass i use to grab his meat and he would jump playfull then somethimes when he stays over hes such a bitch! he like gets on top of me and like gets me all horny he lets me grab his butt and lick his nipple but that's as far as it gose he gets me hard and he laughs! we're now 23 and he still dose it! I only suckd his cock once in 9th grade!

 

[looseliam]

I got techs at work who whistle and cat call at me.

I call the honey and sweetie, and blow kisses.

It's all fun, and neither of us take any meaning from it.

 

[Oceansluver78]

Why is it when women fall in love with gay men, we somewhat tend to ridicule them, when it seems perfectly fine for gay men to infatuate over straight men......

 

[RedRedKroovy]

Straight guys play gay guys because they can. That's the long and short of it.

It sounds real mean but it is true. I've done it and prolly will again if need be.

If you don't want to be played don't play along.

 

[luckyass69]

(i changed my screen name i am luckydude69 just to let you guy's know)

dose any one have a vary close straight friend that likes playing games with you? lime me and my friend rob i have seen straight guys do what would be considerd borderline GAY but my friend rob will dance with me at parties he will let me give him a dub and hill hold me and let me like grab him and grab his butt ( i love it it's nice and firm.) but i guess are relationship is diffrent his like my bro i have known him for soo long

 

[Jo-thin]

I totally agree!
but I fall for straights all the time!
I had a straight guy cuddle in bed with me
and he chewed on my ear but he was STRAIGHT!!!
Its like wtf ya know!
Just playing mind games

 

[alley]

they are having fun--straight guys play "gay" with each other ---it really has no more meaning than that ---usually.

 

[954dude]

The straight guys that have played me are usually insecure and have no confidence. All their lives, they've never really been in a relationship...enters me, an outspoken bisexual guy, who doesn't have a problem with flirting or giving compliments.

With their pity stories and sad faces, they feel a boost in the ego one I say "You're a hot guy!". That's all it is...a way to make themselves feel better. I haven't fallen for it anymore. As quick as I rise their confidence, I put them in their place. What goes around, comes around...no one dicks around Kishi.

 

[RedRedKroovy]

I appreciate the honest feedback. But I don't get what's in it for the "straight" guy to pretend and play with a gay guy. Is it for a feeling of power?

Most of the time it is to get stuff. I will say it is kinda cool to have someone falling all over you. Gay guys buzz around me like moths to a flame....always have. I guess it's because I'm not a raging homophobe. I mean I've had to put a few guys in their place but nothing huge.

I've never meant to hurt anyone by doing it. I mean I would never lead someone on to believe it is anything other than just kidding around. I think most gay guys think there is always that possibility. I don't know you tell me.

 

[fuglybeotch]

He was surprised and wanted to know why I wasn't going to do the same for him. I told him I was straight and I left.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[sentirpromesas]

i cupped my coworkers ass a week ago...he asked me to hold him up while he was fixing a window...i graciously grabbed the firmest thing....we both had a good laugh...so much so that i couldnt even hold him up and we ended up just bringing the stairs...

some people are just very secure in themselves that they can joke around...i think most gay men "flirt" with their hags...some straight guys (as surprising as it may seem) can do the same with their gay friends...

 

[luckyass69]

well i was out to dinner on wed night and my old high school friend was their i havent seen him in a while. but during dinner he put his arm around my chair, he rubs his leg against mine and he grabbed my need and then when i got up he spanked me. but then he told me how he got divorced and is seeing a new girl!
eehhhhh... thats ok i got laid that not by this closet case and my "STRAIGHT" yeah aha friend was in the room sleeping who later was drunk he humped my leg and now is jealous and controlling and dosen't want me talking to the guy he introduced me to now his like bullying the guy LOL? all this in a matter of a week? i really wish i was making this shit up! I'm just like what the fuck is going on! people i really need some help i'm puzzeld. i'm on my sidekick what the fuck do i do?

 

[called-kiddo]

I've got the same problem with two guys who are best friends with each other

 

[Luv_Trail]

I've had two "straight" guys manipulate me. Both were on the job.

The first was at a restaurant. This STUD cook used to tell me how good looking I was. He'd howl like a wolf when he'd see me come in. He'd stare at me a lot. I finally suggested we hang out together. He said yes. A week later, a day before the day we were "scheduled" to hang out, he acted like we never had the conversation.

It was painful! I realized it was a game he was playing to see if I was interested in him. For him the "sex" was only about flirtation.

The almost identical thing happened at another job years later. A handsome co-worker used to stare at my cock all the time. He'd give me these intense looks. When I made a move on him, he ran the other way.

Lesson learned: Even if a straight dude is staring at your cock, it doesn't mean you're going to get with him.

Another lesson learned: Sometimes the flirtation is the ONLY thing they're interested in. If you amp it up to another level, they run.

Moral: Getting involved with "straight" people is painful. Find yourself a good looking GAY guy. They are out there.

AMEN TO THAT, MY FRIEND!! I have been hurt time and time again by straight guys that I've befriended, eventually caught feelings for only to not have those feelings returned! Its painful, stressful and very depressing.

 

[slnattak]

Hmm. While I agree with you that gay boys that go on and on about how hot straight guys are being very obnoxious, I'm not sure I understand how somebody can flirt with you without wanting it to lead anywhere. That's just beyond assholery. And I've been with some very cruel guys, but they almost always wanted me to do SOMETHING with them even if it was as simple as me sucking their fingers.

Sounds like he just enjoyed teasing and mocking you for being gay. Honestly that's common. If you really want them to stop, only way is to be physically aggressive sometimes and push them or tell them to fuck off. They don't view gay men as a threat, so you are an easy picking for them. Honestly the media portrayal doesn't help either. Every gay man is depicted as a fucking victim emo.

 

[stripes]

I'm not sure I understand how somebody can flirt with you without wanting it to lead anywhere. That's just beyond assholery.

some guys (and girls) just muck around without any real intentions of taking it further. There's no harm (or assholery) in that. I try to avoid mucking around with people if I feel that they don't have that type of personality. I've found that some have trouble with taking it too seriously and they are the ones who tend to get hurt easily.

 

[wtever]

Okay -- this strikes me as odd -- most replies talk about the straight guy who didn't play along...like it never happens with gay guys? Everyone who flirts is not looking to get naked. Actually, I would be ;-)

I'm just saying this isn't necessarily a straight / gay thing. Also, if you take a look at what those two words mean to people here (which is a pretty good representation) the definitions can be vastly different...i.e., emotional vs physical...LTR vs NSA...etc. Along the continuum of sexuality I doubt your acquaintances were totally straight, and, even if they were interested, they may have gotten scared...then jerked off about it for months.

So just forget the fuckin labels...if you're attracted to someone, respond appropriately...if it doesn't work out, well, he just wasn't that into you.