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I was having issues with my route and my laptop this evening and was looking through the log that records the web hosts that someone visits.

I noticed all these gay porn sites coming from my friends computer.
I've had a small thought in my head that he might be gay, but brushed it off as nothing. He makes comments about women, occasionally, claims he's hooked up with them... but I've never seen this and we've been friends since we were little kids.
Now these were some really gay websites. Sites that aren't just porn but straight up hardcore gay porn. I tried going to a few and you had to login to them just to view videos (free, but you still had to register)

Should I just forget about this? I just really wonder if he's gay... I'm a little shocked I dunno... I just wanted to share.... this is a little weird
 
sorry... no I'm bi and closeted no one knows... but I think I might be able to share my secret with him if he was as well...
 
FossilForbes said:
sorry... no I'm bi and closeted no one knows... but I think I might be able to share my secret with him if he was as well...
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Why must he be bi or gay for you to "share your secret?"

We ALL had our own answer to that question. What is yours?
 
I dont know the answers to my questions. Im probably just going to forget it... its probably best. Sadly, I personally dont want to come out to anyone, its probably his situation too I dunno. its been in my mind all night and all day today. i dont know why....
 
"So, Bob... I have a question for you."

"Oh FossilForbes, I have a question for you, too."

"Ok, you first..."

"No, you first..."

"No, you go first..."

"Nah, that's okay... you ask first...."

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Just come out to him. What further proof do you need?! Jeez.
 
Keep the info to yourself and wait for him to come out to you when he wants to. Don't force him out or even hint or try to make him come out to you. He'll hate you for it. It's his choice when he wants to.

Or if you're impatient, you could come out to him and hope he comes out to you. You know he'll be accepting because he's gay or bi himself. If he somehow freaks out on you with homophobia, you could always tell him that you felt comfortable telling him because you thought he was gay because you saw the website.
 
Don't tell him about the website, do tell him about urself. A bit of honesty will do you good, if he's a friend he'll be there for you. If he's not there for you he's not a real friend and you are better off knowing that now. You can't live your life in the closet. There's nothing wrong in being gay, you shouldn't be ashamed, or let anyone make u feel ashamed. Don't come on to him unless he's willing too. Shags are 10 a penny, a good friend is a rare thing indeed.
 
So....? What's been happening?
 
Nothing. I'm not saying anything or doing anything. I put myself in his shoes and realized that I wouldn't want to be confronted like that. Also - I don't have desires to reveal anything about myself either.
It's constantly in my mind though when we hang out... it's weird.
 
Well, I don't think you should confront him with your newfound knowledge. That'd be kinda creepy. I agree with you about putting yourself in his shoes.

But the most revealing thing you say is, ironically, that you don't want to reveal anything about yourself.
 
FossilForbes said:
Nothing. I'm not saying anything or doing anything. I put myself in his shoes and realized that I wouldn't want to be confronted like that. Also - I don't have desires to reveal anything about myself either.
It's constantly in my mind though when we hang out... it's weird.
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You would do yourself and your friendship a big favor in just being honest with your friend. Or at the very least, letting him know that you're open-minded and gay-friendly.

Read around in this forum. Everyone needs a friend that they can be honest with and with whom they can relax and be who they are. You're missing out on the opportunity to be that person.
 
you probably think each other are gay and both won't say anything.

how long are you going to not say anything, like years? life is to short. He looks at gay porn, he's at least curious.

check the sites again and see if he continues to look at gay websites.

if he does, doesn't that mean anything to you? or does it mean you're still not going to say anything and let it draw out for months and months. You have a green light and you're not going.
 
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