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stupid timing

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So tonight this boy that I like and want to pursue a relationship who I've been seeing for a few weeks invited me to go to a party, meet some of his friends, drink and have a good time. I accepted and showed up and did all of the above. When hostess said it was time for her to go to bed, and that myself, the boy I like, and another boy were welcome to stay on her couch and we could leave whenever.

I didn't really want to drive, so the three of us started to fall asleep on the couch in a semi cuddling position. The next thing I know, the boy that I just met that night decides to try and kiss me, with the boy that I want to pursue a relationship right next to me on the couch with us. I was pretty shocked and didn't really know what to do so I excused myself to the bathroom, and came back hoping that he'd get a hint.

It didn't really work, because the next thing I know after getting back my hand is on his chest and his hand is guiding it down slowly to his hard dick. I have to admit, I did jerk him off for a few seconds before I thought to myself "excuse me, but what the fuck are you doing?" and stopped it. Eventually he got the picture and just sat next to us trying to go to sleep until the boy that I want to pursue a relationship with and I decided to leave.

On the way to the car, I told him what happened and he said he thought it was amusing. I hope thats actually that truth and he in't upset or anything.

Its just so weird, it almost is never the case where someone shows interest in me and the second I'm trying to be with someone else its like BAM heres some random guy putting my hand down his pants.

I know this sounds like a lot of whining, and it pretty much is (boohoo people want me, my life is so terrible). Thats not what I'm trying to say though. My complaint is just that timing sucks.
 
Happens to many of us. I hope you get your chance to know him more and spend time with him. I had someone like him only to end up losing him after like a couple of dates because I tried too hard to be careful with what I say or do with him. Take it easy and follow your heart.
 
It's fairly common. When there is somebody obviously interested in you, you become more interesting to others around you. I don't know why, but I've observed it quite a few times.
 
Simple: competition. Everyone wants to know they are "better" than who you're already with.
 
Simple: competition. Everyone wants to know they are "better" than who you're already with.

I guess thats sub-conscious because I've never been attracted to a guy just because I found out he wasn't available.

Hmm...
 
I'd say I'm 85% sure. Although I guess I should be smart enough by now to not assume anything til I actually hear what he has to say.

Relationships are hard :(
 
Well, hell, don't be 85% sure. On the way home, you should've said something. "Actually, I didn't mind stroking his cock. It's just that I sorta wished it were yours."

Lex
 
He and I talked last night. He was more upset than he originally let on, but he said he was confused more than anything. I told him he really had nothing to worry about, and that I was sorry for letting things progress as much as I had with the other guy, and everything is good. We're still not like... official/exclusive though. I think I'll talk to him about that when I see him next week.
 
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