Succesful Monogamous Couples

[Auburn]

Nonimus,

Oh believe me for years that Is all I wanted!

Very slim pickings In a tiny midwest town and I was 30 before I had a date with a guy!

It only lasted 2 months but we weren't right for each other anyway. I'm not one to stay in a relationship just so I won't be lonely so I had a few 2-3 month relationships.
Then I had my first love! That didn't work either but I was heartbroken neverless and after the break up had a one night stand, a few terrible dates...just wanting that love so bad.
Finally I stopped worrying and just started enjoying my family, friends, job and a few months later BAM met my husband!

I knew immediately he was the one and it sounds all 'Shirley Mcclaine' but i really felt like we had known each other before. It was just an INSTANT feeling of comfort like finding home! Plus he is VERY hot!!

Okay....you can puke now!

Very inspiring!!!! (no i didn't want to puke! LOL)

my bf and i are also best friends. we are really different.example; i under spend and he over spends. but because of differences like that we meet in the middle for compromise. our personalities are different but we both enjoy the same movies,comic books, and video games. we are really playful and don't take each other to serious. it's nice to be in a monogamous relationship. best thing that ever happened to me. the trust that we have for each other is really a big part of us and opening that up would ruin that. when we first met and were friends we tried a 3-way twice with the same guy. it was okay and no one got jealous but it was not for us.we don't have that seedy side to our relationship that i have had with boyfriends in the past. we still look at other guys and even enjoy looking at porn together or seperate. i really think the key to being monogamous is really being friends first with your bf. not hidding anything and being open to look at porn or talk about how hot the guy you just saw at the mall was. really being secure in who you are. my bf dated guys in the past who tried to start fights if they caught him checking out a cute guy. they would throw the whole "what's wrong with me" shit and be all dramatic.they would spy on him and just had no trust in their relationship or him. i really think some gay guys are way to dramatic and looking to start trouble so they can play the victim.keepin it real and having open honest talks is the way to go. to not judge who your bf is and understand who he is really and not who you think he is in your mind or fantasies.hope all this made sense and wasn't to long winded.

Yeah this does make sense. I went through some of this same stuff before so i can relate (refer to bold print above)

My partner & I have many things in common, but we do have different personalities. Whatever makes it tick, we are grateful for. We've been together almost 28 years.

28 years? Please share your secret LOL. That is a rare relationship in today's society.

Thanks for the great stories guys.....this shows that not all gay couples are "the stereotype". We actually do have wonderful relationships