Sucked a straight Marine off. He couldn't cum.

[Rex]

I met up with a straight guy who was in the Marines. He was a huge guy, body builder physice and shaved head, Italian. Very masculine.

He'd never done anything with a guy before. He said he'd been curious but always chickened out. We hung out for a while and then when I started sucking him off he got hard and I started jerkin off as I was doing it. He said he wanted to see me jerk off and cum. So I sucked him a bit longer and eventually I thought he was close to cumming but he wanted me to cum first and I did and he watched but when it came time for him to cum he couldn't.

Is anyone who's good as sucking know how to make sure someone cums from a blow job. I know there is a jerk it while you suck it technice but I guess either my hand was too big or his cock was to small so it was kinda hard to do.

 

[crzyrazn]

Is anyone who's good as sucking know how to make sure someone cums from a blow job. I know there is a jerk it while you suck it technice but I guess either my hand was too big or his cock was to small so it was kinda hard to do.

Of course, it may have nothing to do with the fact he is "straight." He prob. couldn't climax because he wasn't aroused. You want a man who can shoot, than get a man who gets off by being with other men.

 

[The White Stripe]

Err...I'm a virgin so mabe I souldn't be trying to give advice on how to give a blow job, but I've read the moving your tounge around while giving head drives guy crazy.

But what the fuck do I know? lol

 

[Corny]

practice

 

[genthree]

The main reason a guy does not cum is because he is not turned on. That aside, suck him slow and deep and finger his arsehole, use some lube and start gently ......................

 

[CGHJ]

Last time I couldn't get a marine off it was because someone...YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE...barged into my house at 4 am drunk off his ass to tell me I was an asshole. I'm still burned up about that one. The guy (I was blowing) was fucking gorgeous, too. Arrggh!!

 

[HunterM]

Physical actions (rubbing, sucking, jerking) can get a cock hard. Cumming is all in the mind. His mind needs to be aroused. Only he can control that. Maybe have him watch straight porn the next time while you're sucking him off.

 

[bankside]

He prob. couldn't climax because he wasn't aroused.

Nope.

The main reason a guy does not cum is because he is not turned on.

Nope.

If a guy is nervous he most likely can't reach climax

Yup!

practice

Yup!

 

[hilltop08]

some guys cant come from oral alone. So I would suggest mixing a hand job while your blowing epically if your not comfortable with anal. Secondly did create pressure with your tongue and the roof of your mouth. Guys are use to pressure when getting them off.

This is very true, I know that me personally can't cum just from oral alone, and I've has some amazing people give me a blow-job.

I'm sure it had nothing to do with your abilities, he was just probably way too nervous, especially this being his first time with a guy.

 

[Rex]

Of course, it may have nothing to do with the fact he is "straight." He prob. couldn't climax because he wasn't aroused. You want a man who can shoot, than get a man who gets off by being with other men.

He had a hard on so he was aroused to some extent.

The main reason a guy does not cum is because he is not turned on. That aside, suck him slow and deep and finger his arsehole, use some lube and start gently ......................

He defenitely wasn't interested in anything involving his ass.

 

[sixthson]

He had a hard on so he was aroused to some extent.



He defenitely wasn't interested in anything involving his ass.

But he didn't get hard until you started blowing him. His dick getting hard is not the same as him being sexually aroused. I'm not saying he wasn't, but it might not have been enough for him to follow through. It's not all about the technique. The desire has to be there, too, in sufficient quantity to excite ejaculation. It sounds like he was hoping for sexual arousal by watching you jack off and cum, however. Maybe next time.

Next time, try dominating the muscular, masculine, curious Italian. Everyone knows that's what those kind of guys want.

 

[jstud]

Yeah, I think he probably just felt weird about doing it at first. Maybe he is one who prefers to see other guys jack off, who knows? Why don't you ask him to blow you next time to see how that goes.

 

[Kyanimal]

I've heard it said that sex is 90% mental, 10% physical. And, though the precise numbers might be in question (And, who cares anyway?), I have to agree that getting off is mainly about where your mind is, and not so much about where your dick is. (Though that would certainly have something to do with it, too.)

At least he was willing to let you give it a go! And, the fact that he wanted to see you jerk, and cum, indicates he was trying to get his mind to "the right place".

I'm thinking that if he was at least that interested, there's likely a good chance you might get another opportunity with him. And, when/if that happens, he'll probably be less uptight about it, and might be more inclined to be able to successfully try to drown you!

"Performance Anxiety", for whatever reasons, can definitely be a "cock blocker" for most guys. Doesn't mean they aren't physically aroused, and enjoying the experience, nor that you don't have a great technique. It just means there is some, likely small, mental obstacle that they have yet to overcum.

In any case, don't beat yourself, nor him, up about it. Just chalk that one up to experience, for both of you, and hope for a re-play!

Good Luck with that, Sultan! And, should there be any further action, with this guy, or others, please be sure to update us!

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[cklover]

I met up with a straight guy who was in the Marines....

He isn't straight if he let you suck his cock. Straight men don't have sex with other men. I would say that this guy is most likely bisexual, but doesn't want to admit it.

 

[Rex]

He isn't straight if he let you suck his cock. Straight men don't have sex with other men. I would say that this guy is most likely bisexual, but doesn't want to admit it.

He was straight up until that point and leans more towards women than men.

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

He had a hard on so he was aroused to some extent.



He defenitely wasn't interested in anything involving his ass.[/QUOTE]

oh - and you didn't mention that you tried? or was that spelled out in the pre-suck agreement?

Wow - Are you sure he's a MARINE? (ducks because CGHJ is gonna try to slap me - but hey -- )

 

[jstud]

He isn't straight if he let you suck his cock. Straight men don't have sex with other men. I would say that this guy is most likely bisexual, but doesn't want to admit it.

This is such a cliche' thing to say. There are straight guys out there that are curious you know.

 

[Telstra]

Who ever can't cum is that person's fault and not yours.

Maybe he watch too much porn and he only could cum with porn.

 

[itsmeagain]

This is such a cliche' thing to say. There are straight guys out there that are curious you know.

I am curious.
and straight.

And I never cum when getting head.
(have never had a bj from guy)

I would guess the Marine just was nervous.

 

[Rex]

He had a hard on so he was aroused to some extent.



He defenitely wasn't interested in anything involving his ass.[/QUOTE]

oh - and you didn't mention that you tried? or was that spelled out in the pre-suck agreement?

Wow - Are you sure he's a MARINE? (ducks because CGHJ is gonna try to slap me - but hey -- )

Yup I was gonna rim him but he wasn't interested in that and yeah I'm positive he was a marine.