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The first night they couldn't manage to find the entrance and when they finally did, the guard turned them away. So they staged the trek once again last night and were finally successful. Evidently it is well worth the trip.. although they described ascending a more than 45 degree inclined stairway with little or no railing in the middle of night. The climb sounds terrifying to someone who has problems with vertigo - although they said it was actually easier because it was so dark. Coming down after the sunrise was easier than ascending but I'm certainly not so convinced.

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Sex adventures: I went out the first afternoon to Diamond Head Beach and got naked on the slopes of the cliff (more like a rocky hillside with trees and bushes as cover). I stayed in the shade to avoid getting really sunburnt on my first day on Oahu, which is something I have had to learn to do from lack of precaution on previous trips. It was only mildly cruising and I had no takers nor the chance to get some dick on this outing. However, later that night, I went to Max's Gym, the local gay sauna and also training gym (actually it's separated into two different parts so I've never even been into the gym part).


It was pretty dead except for one guy in his late 30s who seemed to really enjoy

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sucking my cock. We kept running into each other in the video room, the dark room maze and he was happy to chow down on my dick. Eventually we started playing around with a third guy, who ended up realizing that I liked a little butt play. Once he put a finger up my ass, and had me bend over again the wall, it wasn't long before I came and splattered a big load on the floor.

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The next day I took it easy and spent a good bit of it making changes to my travel schedule. I have decided to spend time in the Bay Area instead of going to the Timberfell Lodge Mr. Timberfell Contest. Actually, my friend John (from Hawaii), who's now living again in Boston (his 'real' home), told me a couple of weeks ago he wouldn't be able to come down to Tennessee while I was at Timberfell. So that made it less attractive. Also, I decided to look into real estate investments in Monterey County instead of sucking dick in rural backcountry of Tennessee.

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Last night (Friday, Aug 5) I went again to Max's. It was a bit more lively this time. I have several guys who jumped on the 'new guy' on the block (me.. being a visitor to Honolulu), and one of them (who had disgusting tobacco breath) wanted to swallow my cock and balls all at once. We played tag and bag games - chasing each other around the various rooms with the interspersed involvement of 3-4 more horny dudes until finally we ended up in a mass of naked bodies in the darkroom. One guy acted like he wanted to get fucked but that turned out to be a little bit too much excitement for me.. and so I spilled my seed long before I had a chance to take him up on his offer of tight ass.


August 9 - August 11

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I got to SFO last night but was too tired to go out to Blow Buddies as I had planned. I'm not really that much into sucking dicks... don't get me wrong, I can do it and especially enjoy when the guy gets off on it. But doing a dozen big cocks in a row can actually make you throat raw (or worse) and makes your jaws tired.


Anyway, I spent Tuesday at Beach 67 (next to Waialea Beach in South Kohala, between Puako and Hapuna Beach Resort on the old dirt trail that leads of the old Puako Road, it's a quarter mile or so off the main highway H 11. I stayed there from about 11:00am til 4:00pm and ending up getting too much sun - although I did stay out of the direct sun and used sunscreen too. On Wednesday, August 10, I traveled to San Francisco.


The next afternoon, I went to The Water Garden in San Jose. I spent the afternoon

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cruising guys in this hot and upgraded gay sauna. The hottest guy was a late 30-something Vietnamese guy. He was a top and I only got to watch him fuck and be sucked. Unfortunately, I never did get a taste of his substantial cock, although there was a time when I probably had a chance. From August 14 - August 20 I was visiting my parents' home in the southern US. No much chance to get away for some clandestine sex.. I ended up sunning myself naked in their huge 3-acre backyard and masturbated. See the photos in my Tribe photo gallery.


August 21 Back in Honolulu (in transit overnight). I went to Max's Gym. I ended up getting to fuck a white guy about my age. He had a big cock but only wanted to suck mine and then get fucked bareback. Of course, I

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pulled out before I came. We were getting intimate in the backroom dark 'maze' but I was too excited to hold off when more guys started crowding around to watch.


August 22 - Oct I'll be in Tokyo (on assignment).. Hope to get soon to the banks of the Tama River for some naked sunbathing, and I'll surely be getting laid at the 24-Kaikan baths before the week's out.


Cheers, Kelly

 

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Now, it is August 6 (Sat). I have been in Honolulu since Wednesday. The stay at the hostel is OK, although the nights seem to be extremely noisy. This time around the hostel management isn't doing too much to combat the perennial noise of drunken and excited guests who like to play music, drink and sometimes argue or at least talk too loudly half way through the night. The other side of it is that my roomies are the intrepid types. Four or five of them had a plan - almost a pact - to climb the forbidden 'stairwell to heaven' night hike and to watch the sunrise in the green steeply inclined heights of the Pali Mountain range. So for the last two nights they have gone to bed as early as 9:30pm in order to get up a 3:00am.

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You see.. there's a guard posted at the beginning of the trail to prevent people from entering it (not sure why but it's probably on commercial property). It's a 3000 step climb to the top once you enter the trail proper - more like a staircase I gather.. but if you arrive too late, you'll be barred from entering. So the challenge is to reach the entrance at an early enough hour to avoid the posting the guard, but not too early that you'll have to spend most of the night in the dark at top waiting for the sunrise.

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At first, the guy being sucked didn't quite get what was going to happen, but when I squatted down to enter the ass of cocksucker, the hunky guy didn't seem to care for such group action, so he pulled away, got up and left. The sucker was undeterred in his lust and wanted me to fuck him full on, slamming his ass hard.

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We turned and twisted around so I could slice my sword up his buttocks at different angles. He moaned in ecstasy. But I was still not ready to cum. So after a few more minutes, when he tried to turn over once again, I pulled out and stood up, telling him I wanted to take a rest.


To be continued .... P.S. Tomorrow (Aug 3) is the beginning of my vacation. So I'll be in Honolulu when I next write more or add to this. P8100178 I'm heading directly to the hostel, and then getting my ass on Diamond Head Beach, where there is always some cruising going on. If I get lucky, I'll have more stories to tell in a day or so. -------

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One of those guys was eager to pull me down into the lower bunk, but - at least for now, I would have nothing of it. I didn't want to cum just yet and wanted to have a couple more hours of sex play for ejaculating. I went back upstairs to the sun roof, although by now it had started raining. So I made my way to the 3rd floor bath, shower stalls, and sauna area. I stopped to shampoo and shave at the long row of faucets and showers along the wall. In front of each of these is a large mirror which allows you to get a look at who's coming through the bath, and also get a peek at what's between the legs of the guys sitting on either side of you.


Next I went into the individual shower stalls area. In some of them, there are glory holes purposely made in the walls of the stalls so that you guys can suck cock; there are also smaller holes close to eye level so that you can peek into the next stall and see what's up.

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Sure enough I entered one such stall, and I heard the door close in the adjoining one. As I rinsed off under the shower, the guy next to me kneeled down to look through the large suck holes. It was obvious he wanted to get some cock, and mine was not unwilling to oblige his craving. Man, was he good at it, too. He was a younger blonde guy, probably here on business from the US most likely.


Eventually, he got up and turned around because he wanted to have his ass plugged with my dick. So I'm fucking him through the glory hole as he bumps back against the wall. When I stopped (again not ready to cum and call it quits), he leaves the stall, but then I hear a light knock at my shower door. His ass was hot, but I'm not wanting to be so intense.. just a grazing for now, fella! I'll probably see him again later. So I went back upstairs and after drying off.

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There are seven floors of this gay baths/sauna and hotel. The price is 2400 yen for 12 hours, which comes in handy if you need to spend the night. It is possible to sleep in the large group rooms, although you may have to put up with guys fucking next to you or someone prying under your covers, looking to suck some dick or get a ride on your erect penis (or give you one).


Next I went into one of the smaller group rooms - one with only one bunk bed. This time I recognized one of the same guys who had been sucking me earlier. He was the one who had wanted to pull me down in the bunk. But now, he was sucking dick of a nice looking athletic guy as he reclined on the padded floor mattress. He raised his ass in the air and gestured that he wanted me to fuck him. Again, I was happy to pleasure the dude.

 

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Kylesj decided to restart the discussion under a new thread: Traveling and having sex like a dog. That's certainly got my attention because at times I feel that exactly what I've done, and this summer vacation will be not different. I knew I wasn't the only one who does this kind of vacation with anonymous sex as one of the main activities. But it's interesting that we have a venue to share the stories and to give sexual travel advice. So I thought I would share my pleasures and keep a on-going list of my adventures as the vacation unfolds on my Tribe blog or on my Typepad blog: If you don't see any updates here, then try visiting my blogs.

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Travel Diary and Sexcapades: July 30 (Sat)


In anticipation and due to the need for some long overdue relief, I decided to head to one of the local gay baths/sauna in downtown Tokyo. The rains has stopped and the sun had come and started heating up the humid air. I figured I'd be able to sunbathe practically naked on the rooftop of 24-Kaikan. I arrived at about 3:00pm and went immediately to the roof after getting checked in and changed. There wasn't much happening: I had bought a couple of cheeseburgers and two cans of Chuhai (a carbonated alcoholic drink (8% alcohol) popular all over Japan (originally made from first from potato vodka and soda).

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As the sun decided to take a break, I also decided to go exploring in the bowels of the seven floor building for this all-male gay baths, sauna, and hotel. The fourth floor is a series of large rooms with rows of bunk beds and also futon beds.


Some guys pretend to sleep (or actually do sleep) on the futon (floor) or in the bunk beds. Other guys cruise around (in the almost darkened room) and feel up the 'sleepers' or approach another 'roamer' to coax him into some intimate kissing or more. Often, there are two (or more ) males engaged in some kind of gay sex openly so these rooms have great visual appeal for those too inhibited to dash right into the hunt. I usually stand next to one of the couples who are engaged in anal sex. While I don't usually fondle the guys or interfere, it's nice to see male lovemaking up close and personal... like a guy's cock into the asshole of his pleasure partner.

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It's very stimulating to hear the grunts and moans that can be heard -- sometimes quite loudly - and to feel the bodies of other roaming viewers brush up beside and behind your own. Sometimes one of these guys will grab my towel (I rarely ever wear the gown that they give you at check-in), or not too infrequently, a guy who likes what he feels (and sees) will then huddle down in the lower bunk, and get his paws or his mouth around my now engorged cock. That happened a couple of times: once I had two guys in the lower bunk as I stood with my head just at eye level watching with a couple fucking on the top bunk, they were vying to see who could get his mouth on my dick. That kind of fun gets my sexual juices flowing pretty quickly -- in preparation for what will happen later on.

 

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by sunbuns originally on Tribe. net and as sunbuns99 on JustUsBoys.com

August 24th, 2011, 12:29 PM It's been a long hot summer, except for the last

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couple of weeks when there's been rain (due to typhoons). Work hasn't been too bad, but there is a never ending stream of stuff to get done. That's all coming to a halt as I take my summer vacation (away from home, back to the US) beginning next week. I depart Aug 3 and arrive in Honolulu, where I'll stay until Sunday, Aug 7. Then I'll spend a few days on the Big Island (Hawaii), and then fly overnight to Nashville, where I will drive to Timberfell Lodge (practically a sex camp !! Whoa). You'll get to ride along vicariously... so I hope it is (slightly) entertaining. Maybe you'll be inspired to share some of your own exploits from this summer, too.

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A source of inspiration: A guy on Dudesnude (kylesj) http://www.dudesnude.com started a thread about sex vacations: He wrote: " I'd love to hear more from guys who have traveled around the world; spent all day doing the local sights and all night doing the local guys (the non-prostitute ones) He asked, "Please also leave tips and ideas as to where the best places are for this activity and what to watch out for." He goes on to write about his own sexual 'vacation' to Bali.
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"In Bali, the best place to stay (for this activity) is in Seminyak. It's right on the beach and easy access to tours to the rest of the island, great restaurants nearby and world-class spas (the real ones). Then at night after dinner, the 3 gay bars

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right next to each other on the main street come alive with tons of guys. Lots of foreign and domestic tourists to pick up. They are mostly eager to hook up. Bonus points if your hotel is nearby (mine was 5 minutes walk away), so you can pick them up at the clubs and bring them home for some naked fun. The 3 nights I was there, I brought home different Indonesian guys each night for hot naked fun Watch out for "money boys". Make sure to ask explicitly first before taking them home. You'd be amazed that even the hot gogo boys have the same needs as us I took home a hot gogo boy once after his shift at the club. That was hot fun ;-)"
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Thanks, Kylesj. Sounds hot. I'm not so far from Bali and have never been. What you've described sounds hot. A few other people posted stories, but then the discussion got side-tracked a bit.

 

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Cross-cultural Perspective on Freeballing

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I wonder how many other national costumes or traditional clothes allow for freeballing? I've spent a lot of time in Japan and a few other countries where the national costume -- kimono or yukata (light summer informal kimono with fundoshi (loin cloth)) (at least it

remains one of the traditional ways that some people dress --especially for festivals or typical Japanese cultural events) does make freeballing sort of accepted. As I said in an earlier post (Scottish singer in a kilt), I wonder how many national / native or traditional costumes make it easy (or not) to freeball and perhaps to catch a glimpse. We've seen that many guys wearing kilts do not have anything on underneath.

I have lived at times in Japan and still have strong connections to it. I find the kimono, and in particular the yukata, gives a great opportunity to freeball (go commando). The traditional kimono, which is really as formal nowadays as a tuxedo and not worn very often at all, does not work out

very well for freeballing -- mainly because it is worn for ceremonial events and people are not likely to move around much. The kimono is also worn tightly bound and can have several undergarments and belts (obi) so that it is not likely to come open. Damn, it must even be difficult to take a leak or squat to use the bathroom. However, the yukata is quite a bit different. It is a casual summer kimono-like one piece outfit -- typically worn for festivals and as night wear / indoor wear at hotsprings resorts and fine hotels.Traditionally, Japanese men (and there are some people who do still) wear the yukata and its shorter version (the happi coat) as casual wear -- although mostly it is only during the summer and fall festivals, but a few for daily wear especially during the hot humid summer season.

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Under the yukata -- and sometimes ONLY without even the yukata-- is worn the traditional Japanese loincloth called the "fundoshi." It is not exactly underwear because it can be worn as swimwear or beach wear, as festival gear, and as an undergarment for a yukata (or kimono). Normally, only men wear a fundoshi, but some guys think it is very sexy for women to wear them .. so you sometimes see women in porno wearing a fundoshi. Fundoshi is not really about freeballing -- it is a wrap that curls up from behind and under and can even tightly bind your balls, but it certainly does not leave much to the imagination once in place. There are a couple of styles - -the one for festivals is often twisted into a knotty rope like a thong and rides up the crack of your ass. Other style leave a hanging cover of the front so it's a bit hard to see the guy's encased mound of cock and balls, but this flying droop moves and floats around so you do get a view sometimes.

I'm not Japanese and don't have much chance to wear a yukata or fundoshi, but I have an acquaintance in Japan who has been after me to try them. He is a Buddhist priest who is about 35, married with two small children. The place I stay is

just next door to the temple so he invariably invites me over when he knows I am in Japan. Perhaps he is just trying to be nice by introducing me to traditional Japanese culture -- Japanese are not very big on evangelical Buddhism (although I hear it does exist). On a recent trip to Tokyo, he insisted on measuring me for a yukata and told me he would have onr made for me and then show me how to wear it and we would go to a fireworks festival wearing a yukata. While he was measuring me, he got down on his knees in front of me (apparently in total innocence) but it sure made me wonder. He first had me pull off my trousers and then he measured about my waist and hips while I standing there in a bare of almost mesh semi see-thru boxers. I had to pull my t-shirt down over the front to conceal

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what could have been a eyeful of my semi-freeballing. The next day he came running up to me again and wanted to measure me again -- he thought he might have made a mistake so it surely did get me to questioning his motives. For now, I will assume he has only my "cross-cultural" education at heart and nothing else. I do have to say that it will be interesting if he wants to teach me how to wear a fundoshi next! There are a few different types of 'fundoshi' style (Japanese loincloths). I guess you might say they are more like "freebutting" instead of freeballing, but what the hell, I think they look pretty cool. ​

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This photo above shows a guy's full body tatoo (irezumi) -- still quite popular with a certain segment of the Japanese -- it was strongly associated with gangsters (yakuza) but less so nowadays. Notice the twisted rope effect in the crack of his fundoshi -- wonder what that feels like -- maybe it helps keeps his semi-hard so that the spectators can enjoy the festival "show" even more. You can see different lengths of "happi" coats in this pic-- so the fundoshi is not really meant to be covered up -- although it can serve as underwear -- it is more like a 400 year old Japanese Speedo bikini or gym shorts. ​

 

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To read similar CMNM stories, go my Clothed Male / Naked Male blog Guys into CMNM at http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com

Clothing that invites CMNM situations Some types of clothing and certain social situations seem to invite CMNM (clothed male / naked male) and probably just as often CFNM (clothed female / naked male) behavior. It's not too surprising that one of those types of clothing is the kilt. Still, there are several other kinds of male attire that sometimes offer the opportunity for spontaneous partially nudity, at time under the guise of freeballiing, such include boardshorts, ethnic or traditional clothing (the 'kilt' is a Western invention for covering male anatomy), but there are other forms of masculine clothes from Asian, the Middle East, Africa, and Oceania that perform similar functions and which offer similar glimpses.

Here are some recent photos from social events where guys were wearing kilts.


It always seems that whenever some guy is wearing a kilt -- whether formal or informal, he seems to get a lot of attention directed toward what's under the kilt. By the way, it appears that his male buddies are just as fascinated by what he's wearing and what he's not as his women friends are.

 

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Before that, I had taken some pics of me standing or knelling in the water. ​ There were pics too of people around me. ​

 

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​ Suburban nudism - exposed at public recreation area Summer's dwindling away slowly here. ​ But the sunny days are no longer so ​ humid, school's getting started so that brings out teams and athletic groups. Fortunately, we've had few typhoons (Pacific hurricanes) so far this season). Instead of spending all summer abroad (US/Europe), I returned to JP and ​ have had a few weeks off. Lucky for me, it means trips locally (by bike), into the big city (for the gay baths) or further away. Just minutes by bicycle from my house is a (usually) shallow river that has large flat flood-zone embankments which are used for recreation areas. ​ I've been spending lots of time there - sunny myself (almost naked or sometimes ​ completely - SEE NEXT POST). I was pleasantly surprised recently to be flashed (accidental exposure - really) by some college age frisbee soccer dudes (see pics below). The best 'exposing' was done on a Sunday afternoon. But unfortunately, I didn't ​ have my camera. I went back two days later and the same group was practicing. This time I got some photos; however, the two hottest guys who naked 'incidents' I wrote about in the blog entry (below) weren't as exhibitionistic as before. ​ Still ... I think you can get a flavor of what I was seeing before - since their ​ undressing after practice lasted over a 15-20 minute period. They are not intentionally flashing anybody - except maybe each other - although I can't see why they wouldn't know that anybody (like the white American guy sitting around the field) could be watching or even people passing on the walkway above them. However, I found it so ironic that they could so easily get naked -- since Japanese are so shy in some aspects of their individual personalities and social culture. Paradoxically, people in groups can get away with almost anything if the 'group's' mores/norms allow it. It was both intriguing and downright sexy to watch. Enough so that afterwards, ​ I had to get naked and exposed - on my own. It was easy and ohh so fun .. ]being inspired to nakedness! Kelly ​

As I said, I was inspired to try out some innocent naked exposure on my own -- ​ hardly innocent - but not malicious either. Who knows maybe there was someone with a camera, taking photos of my naked body - just as I had done with the frisbee team above. ​ About 4:30pm when the fisherman leave the river (most have on waders and ​ are out flying fishing), I move from near the side of the frisbee soccer field on down to the river's edge. There is a grassy / bushy area between the field area and the river banks, which is lower, flat but wdie, and partially hidden - except from people who are either on the river's edge or who are standing on the other side of the river. It's covered in smooth rounded rocks and pebbles. I strip and wear my wrap-around (pareo) to get into the water. Then remove it ​ and swim in the very shallow cool and clean (mostly clean) water. It's not the muddy crap you see in China or some other Asian nations. The water in Japan is mostly clean so much so that you're tempted to drink it - and probably could without risk. The people in Japan are proud of their water and a lot of public works money is spent to ensure its quality and efficiency. ​ I start jerking my cock and it gets hard, knowing that someone might be able ​ to see me -- either from the opposite banks, or the apartment building balconies just beyond that. Other 'viewers' might suddenly come down the embankment from behind me and interrupt my masturbating, but that only serves to get me more excited. Two teenage boys are fishing at my left down the river - they could have looked up - to see a naked male figure on the horizon. I keep looking to see if they noticed - but had no indication that they ever did. ​ If anybody gazes in my direction for a little while, they would see the regular ​ pumping movements of my arm and a hand that's moving back and forth at my crotch. I'm not going to stand up - it's not even 5 pm and the sun is still one hour before setting - bathing me in soft yellowish light. Before long, my cum mingles with the mossy rocks and flows rapidly away downstream. ​ ​

 

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​ ​ Of course, you can try to start a group -- or at least - hold a CMNM event in your area. I have lots of ideas and would do as much as possible to help promote in on our blogs, and ​ social networks, etc. Depending on when it's held, I might be able to attend or ​ organize/host part of it (I'll be traveling in North America from August 1 - 30 -from Hawaii to New York, from San Franciso, California to Provincetown, MA). ​ One way to start is to make your interest known by joining one (or all) of our Guys Into CMNM social networks. You may want to use a separate email address (since your real identity may expose you to some unwanted noisiness or scrutiny). However, in today's world, it has become less of a problem publicly admitting that one is gay. However, homophobes and morally self-righteous extremists still exist (and may actually be thriving). It's probably obvious but it will take some initiative and some effort on the part of at least one person to get such an event or group started. However, even one is not enough. Therefore, you have to try to encourage or attract guys to actually participate FIRST as people -- not as sexual objects. If you try to 'round up' a bunch of hunks for your own private orgy, it's not going to work unless you look like a male fashion model and have the body of an Olympic athlete. To be realistic, most guys into CMNM are just regular guys. The guy down the street or the one who works at the mall or in local office building. What's it going to take to get them to come up with the courage to attend a CMNM event. My advice for guys trying to get a group started is to first make it a fully clothed gathering to initially. ​ ​ Then a part of the group's activity can be to do something that involves nudity for a fairly short and non-threatening, fun activity - such as ask (or hire) a nude model for some sketching of the naked male form. Or watch a movie where male nudity is a recurring theme or important point in the plot. Hold a pool party or barn dance, play badminton or horseshoes, and allow some of the participants to disrobe. Set up a fashion night or a costume party in which the 'models' strip for a certain 'runway' event or make it a fund-raiser for charity by letting the audience bid for removal of each piece of clothing for some 'lucky' or willing volunteer who, thereby, gets stripped. ​ Sexual behavior (penetrative anal or oral) does not have to be involved - especially when the group's members are just meeting for the first time. If there are sparks, then it's better that things develop slowly so that everyone knows the boundaries and feels comfortable acting within them before starting any more 'aggressive' types of CMNM behaviors or situations, especially those involving domination or humiliation or mild bondage. It's not easy but it can be done. It's just not going to happen over night and the key to first find a couple of others who are interested and also willing to be patient with the slow development of the group. Most guys who are turned on my other men sexually just want to jump to the wild orgy -- and that's NOT going to happen in most cases. If you want sex with strangers, then use Craig's List or go to a gay sex club, or travel to where there is one. ​ ​ I know I've gone long to answer, but it was a good question, and one whose answer I can attempt to make an appropriate blog entry. Good luck and let me know how I might be able to help out. ​ That's the sort of group that I'm trying to getting started or revive. It's like when we were teens -- nobody thought that much about a circle jerk with your buds. I, myself, yearn for those times. CMNM is - for some of us - a lot about restoring some of the playfulness and rowdiness to male relationships. ​ For many, they may never need that time again. Guys who have regular satisfying sex (physically and emotionally) probably would be interested. But then why are the majority of guys who hang out on sites like this one actually here? (No, need to answer - it's a rhetorical question). ​ ​ CMNM can be a lot more than immature sex games and playing around with nudity, etc.. but that part of it should not be ignored or related only to foreplay.

 

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CMNM - Clothed Male / Naked Male groups - real and online ​ One reader to our Guys Into CMNM blog wrote to ask recently: (That's you, Allen. Thanks.) I thought the cmnm scene and getting local groups started might be something which has some appeal to some of the guys here, too: Note: The original blog entry is located at: http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.jp/2014/12/cmnm-clothed-male-naked-male-groups.html Guys into CMNM: Networking for CmNm Groups / Events in Local Areas Question: I wanted to see if you had a group of CMNM in northern Indiana for me to join? Any ideas and/or contacts I could make to join in the area? Thanks. Answer: So.. what do you do when you live in a rural area or far away from a metropolitan area? ​ Are there any local groups and if not, what you do to get one started? ​ ​ (Answered by 'sunbuns', Kelly Lewis, editor and admin, Guys Into CMNM blog and social networks). ​ While they may be members of one of our several social networking (online) groups who live the your area, Northern Indiana (or southern Mich or northwestern Ohio), I don't think there are any real (off-line) CMNM meetings or events -- at least not yet. ​ CMNM hasn't be recognized for very long and it's still not commonly understood - even by the very men (particularly gay men) who are so turned on by it. There are elements of it in so many activities / situations that are NOT simply sexual by definition. For example, there may be a men's nudist group in your area or close by. While many don't advocate sexual behavior at their events, some don't prohibit certain types of opportunities where naked and clothed men can intermingle. Another form of CMNM often occurs in certain male sports or fitness situations - joining a YMCA, or other type of fitness club, or amateur sports league often gives a guy (CM or NM) a chance to interact with other males in clothed or naked situations. Obviously, there may not be any overt sexual behavior but it can nevertheless be highly stimulating. ​ For overt sexual situations, you can try a gay baths/sauna. I think Toledo has at ​ least one, and there are certainly some in a few of the major cities around you; ​ likewise a few gay bars have events where nudity (or semi-nudity) is condoned, or even where it is encouraged in backrooms, or enclosed patios, etc. ​

 

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"I did think of driving round town with just a T-shirt on," I added, hearing Eric's really enthusiastic​

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response. "Dare you," said Eric. I looked at him to see if he was serious. He was. "OK, you're on. But you have to do it too," I replied.


"OK," said Eric. "Can't be tonight with these people here," I pointed out. Eric nodded. "Tomorrow,"Eric said. "OK," I replied with my cock jumping to attention at the thought. We went into my room and sat down at the computer. "What other daring things have you done?" said Eric.


I pointed to the window of my room which looked out on the street. "I sometimes stand there naked," I said. Eric went over to the window and looked out on the street. To my amazement, he unbuckled and unzipped his jeans letting them fall to the ground. Leaving them round his ankles he pulled his briefs down. His dick was superb. Slightly hard, but smooth and with a sweet foreskin. Under that I reckoned the tip looked slightly moist. Eric was getting harder and peering along the street. I stood up and walked over. I looked from behind Eric and saw why he was getting excited.

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Along the street were coming two really cute lads about our age in football shorts. Eric was stroking his dick now and I stood behind him making as if to hold him in the window so he couldn't chicken out. The guys were getting closer and closer. When they were almost right outside, Eric started to back away from the window so he wouldn't be too obvious, but he continued stroking his now hard dick.

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The first guy glanced at the window and his eyes locked on to Eric who was still stroking. He nudged the other guy who turned round and both stared. At that point Eric exploded with a shudder. The two guys looked laughed, nudged each other and one gave the thumbs up, before walking on.

"Good grief," was all I could say. "They saw you." Eric was breathing heavily. "Your turn," said Eric.

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as brave as you," I replied. With that Eric got behind me and started pushing. With a deft move of his fingers he unpopped the button on my jeans and let them fall. My dick was tenting out of my boxers. Eric grabbed them and pulled them down.


Eric then put his hand round and began my cock, which was now rock solid. The guy was really cute. He was about 18 or 19 with longish blond hair a white T-shirt and white shorts. He could hardly net see me in the window, with Eric wanking me from behind. Sure enough his head turned with a classic double take, then he locked his eyes on me. His

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jaw dropped as he stopped and stared and stared. By now his hand was down his own shorts, and his own shorts were tenting with his now rigid dick.


It was too much for me, too, and I came over the window. The guy in the street gave us a quick flash of the tip of his cock, a sheepish smile and a hesitant thumbs up. We cleaned up and returned to the group, having arranged to meet up as planned the next night for our dare.



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I didn't know Eric that well. He was the brother of two girls that I knew and I would meet him occasionally with them. He was about 18 years old at the time, quite sexy in a boy-next-door way.

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On this particular occasion there was a big group of us and Eric and I were sat together at one end. We started talking about cars. We talked about cars we lusted after. Cars we owned and cars that we had driven.

It was then that the conversation took an interesting turn. Eric explained that he had been driving on the main road south when his car had broken down. He had had a puncture and had to stop to change it. In the process he explained his trousers had split completely.


At this point I noticed he was glancing at me as if testing my reaction. I found it difficult not to look too eager! The vision of Eric with his underwear, or more, showing through split trousers was quite exciting. It appeared Eric was enjoying telling me the story.


There was more. Eric went on to explain how he took off the torn trousers and replaced them with another pair from his overnight bag adding, as if I had forgotten: "I was standing right beside the main road in a pair of briefs".

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Again he was watching my face intently as though looking for clues to my interest. "Did anyone see you?" I asked. "Yeah," Eric laughed, "a couple of cars hooted their horns - one was a minibus full of lads going to a football match!" "Sounds like you enjoyed it," I replied, fishing for more but trying not to make it too obvious. "Yea, I did," Eric replied.


Having established that he liked the thought, I said "sounds good to me". There wasn't much more that I felt I could say when we were sat in the group and it would become obvious that we were getting interested in each other. "You were asking about my computer," I said, linking back to a comment from long ago.I stood up and heading out of the room. Eric followed. "I think the most daring thing I did with a car, was to drive round the block wearing nothing but my boxers," I said as soon as we were out of earshot. "Wow," said Eric, adding, "I wish I had been there!" said Eric.

 

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Thanks, Toras, for being encouraging without be condescending. I have lived in communities where a Causasian male (which I am ) is a rare minority , so it means I would have no trouble being picked out of a police line-up. Toronto has a very multi-ethnic community - there are about 800,000 people of Chinese origin alone live in great Toronto — at least you can ‘pass’ for a local. I can’t where I am living now - that’s why I guess I went overboard last summer and was a little bit too careless while vacationing on Cape Cod. I thought I blended in as to be unrecognizable.
The other interesting phenomena and also could make flashing (exposing one’s genitals and face) on the Internet somewhat riskier for people who define themselves as flashers, exhibitionists and exposers is

1) the tendency for the Christian right to categorize them as sex offenders — the same as child rapists and baby killers, and
2) the new Internet technologies for tagging pics, passing data including pics and tags through RSS feeds even further around the globe, and geotagging - ties/links an Internet object (user, picture, file) to a specific geographic spot.
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I know this is off-topic , but it was my topic (Walking the Dog) in the first place so I doubt the moderator’s will mind. I usually do a lot of thinking while I am ‘walking the dog’ which is both a methophor for ‘wagging the wiener’, freeballing in the open air, airing out the family jewels. But it also is REALLLY what I am doing — taking my pet dog for his daily walks. I also think about flashing both as my hobby and also about it repercussions and consequences too - while I’m enjoying the solitude and occasional chance to peek-flash some guy (see separate, earlier posts for the narratives)


Back the thesis — We know there is tracking of what you purchase and even what you’re interested in (sites that you have visited leave cookies that search engines can pick up and then display ads that are related to the types of sites (products) you’ve been visiting. Google does that big time.


So it’s not too big of a stretch to think that pics (or other data files or media objects), which you download or that you place on your website or public / private profile on some social network, or that you even look at briefly online, might leave discernible and followable traces. I’ve got profiles all over the net and many pics with and without my face — both under my real name and my various alias (sunbuns is not my 9-5 working world identity).


Someday somebody is going to find a way (my conspiracy instinct says they already have) to collect these

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traces (tags) or at least connect them like dots. So they’ll start selling the information (klandestinely of course) for ostensibly purposes of security and anti-criminal protection but the personal id info will most certainly also be used to defame and try to ruin the reputations of people (basically good upstanding citizens — like me and you) for political gain, religious cleansing, or profit from blackmail or pay-offs.

Sorry to take a sinister lapse into the dark side of the net… Hey, it’s my real birthday today. I’m 39 - yep! Well, at least ‘sunbuns’ thinks he is or at least won’t admit to being any older than that - and he usually says he’s younger). I remember a comment your once made in another posting — most of the people on this site (who are interesting in or doing flashing) are in the 40s and 50s.

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In honor of the fact that I’m chicken to show my face here’s another pic — not only faceless but too headless from one my walking-the-dog hikes into the local cemetery. If I get any more ‘invisible’ - I might as well be dickless. Sometimes I think it will be good to be reborn as a dickless being (a female?) in my next life.


If I am not recognizable, may be my dog will be.


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On the public profiles, I was referring to in my post above is located at Dlist — a gay social networking site (I feel like a ‘old’ man among the ‘twinkish’ - hipster GQ types plastered all over the home page. But what the hell — I like college age dudes - and sometimes they like a guy who’s more mature and obviously well-endowed (I don’t mean ‘big’ dicked).


I collect such pics and thousands of others. I am turned on more by ‘real’ photos of real guys getting nude and being naked, male and happy about it, than the slick, hard-glossed superstuds and huge meaty cocks of the porno models.

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I have them in Flickr and a few thousand save in Yahoo Photos - only friends can see them - unlike Dlist and GW - my profiles and pics are password protected. I realize it is not much security (protecting one’s identity from theft or blackmailing/blackballing) but usually like-minded people of the same persuasion join a gay or porno site. That’s not the case with these two new entries, GW and Dlist. Even Yahoo 360,

That’s what I’ve heard — but I don’t have any light colored ones to test that out. Of course, it matters how much direct light (sunlight) there is and the width of the mesh opening, how reflective the material is too.

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I was a rare treat — not only getting buck nakid on a public beach — but improvising a dildo out of a cucumber I stopped and bought on the way to the beach. Wish you’d been there to view me — it’s a sometimes cruisy area where guys go out to sun themselves nude, but frequently there is sex play (mutual - not just alone like mine) in and among the brush and low dunes.


Local fisherman often come up along the beach and stay for a long time. Tourists and people out enjoying the beach could have caught me dickflashing with the anal toy inserted. Keep me hard — I saved cumming for a little later trip back closer to Waikiki (where more secretive nudity and male-to-male cruising goes on.

 

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Well, that other morning, as he rode passed me on his bicycle his eyes centered in on my freeballing cock in these mesh pants which was just hanging partly below my shirt. He turned in from a side road and so his view of it was just a short glance, but he definitely reacted. Because he had earphones on, as was listening to music, he could not heard himself but I heard him mumbled just as he passed me ‘goddamn! or something like that, doing a double take.
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Somehow I don’t think he was not as shocked as he was surprised - maybe even delighted — that there was somebody in his neighborhood he would do what he’s been thinking about so long (his pissing in public was just his way of innocent flashing). So I now I think he might have been getting his own thrills as he ‘innocently’ pissed in public ever morning.
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I know there are many — if not most freeballers - who do wear no underwear for a lot different reasons than the thrill of accident exposure. But I think there might at least be a element of thrill of being seen for a good many — even showing a VPL (visible penis line) through your pants/short that are NOT mesh must be appealing to some freeballers. Wearing mesh and semi-transparent or see-thru or ripped clothes with holes while freeballing is more further step along in that direction.
By the way, beside mesh pants/short does anybody get off wearing ripped jeans? I’ve got some old ones I cut off as short but they are full of holes in the crotch so somebody can get a look at skin and maybe more when I wearing them while freeballing
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On a morning walk in the cemetery a few days back, I pulled off my pants - always wear a loose fitting cargo pants and freeball. So it’s easy to quickly do a bit of ‘stealth flashing’ — I call it ‘stealth’ since I don’t believe anybody is watching. It’s just the fact that they might or could at any moment — there are cars intermittently passing along a lane about 50 m behind me. I got excited and just secs later starting jerking off until I cum.






Showing ‘face’ when your flashing or ‘innocently’ exposing yourself to strangers is actually less risky than doing so on the Internet. I mean there are only a limited number of people who actually see you and many don’t really ‘see’ you at all. Even if they do, they don’t want to act on it (confront your personally or even call the police and press charges) and then they don’t have ‘proof’ - just their word against yours.

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I was once arrested for lewd conduct charges (a felony in Mass). It happened while on vacation near Provincetown in 2005. It was a police who saw me — although I was just ‘pissing,’ which I was, he claimed I was trying to flash him (I was wearing a skimpy see-thru pair of shorts but he could not have seen that from the distance he was when he first noticed me). I was not convicted — of course —the case was dismissed because it was a case of false arrest/police brutality / insufficient evidence / unlawful seizure of evidence (my camera), I obtain the services of a local lawyer who had experience with theis particular police department. It seems they often made this kinds of arrest in order to discourage ‘perverts’ from coming into their community - -not Provincetown township but another one further down (south) the Cape.


But the whole trauma of the experience taught me some valuable lessons. For one, it made me realize how vindictive and self-rightheous some people are — including well-meaning and hardworking police officers — most of whom I have a great deal of respect for the dedication.
But flashing on the net or letting your face get shown may have some risks that you cannot control or may not even realize until years later.

 

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Walking the dog

It amazes me that I can walk down the street on any morning of the week wearing a mesh athletic pants (liner removed) and never get a stare. I’ve been getting a little more daring but still most people are just oblivous.
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I know when I am out walking or going somewhere, my eyes are constantly on the ‘crotch watch’ and looking at guys’ butts. I guess that’s is part of what makes me (I’m surely not alone here) work differently.​

Well, I sort of got a look for a guy in a passing car. He was working in the cemetery so saw him a minute later but he was not alone. I chickened out of strolling by — he was busy. It’s getting cooler so the mesh pants won’t work too much longer. I have been asked where I got these pants. I know several online underwear/sportwear stores have them but those are more expensive and more see-thru than you might need.
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I found these at either Walmart or Kmart - but Sears or JCPenny, etc would have them -
although more expensive. (US but I’m sure there are equivalent stores in the UK and Australia - I’m not sure about continental Europe, however, they are probably manufactured in China, so they’re likely to be found anywhere.
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They are in men’s athletic or sportswear section. Sometimes you can find a bargain price.
Check the size of the mesh on the outer layer. Some have a very tiny mesh but these were a larger weave - allowing more visibility. If you can take out the lining only on the front of the pants - so that when heads turn the pants will look like ordinary ones. If you lucky enough to be noticed, then at least they can just wonder if they really saw your cock or just the illusion of it.
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Being a closet flasher I enjoy wearing my mesh shorts or athletic pants (liner removed) outdoors. Amazingly however, I rarely get noticed — even when I don’t wear a long shirt that would cover up the fact that I’m freeballing and hanging loose. There are different sized mesh weaves so the amount of transparency varies on the garment and whether it’s sunny or cloudy (amount of light) affects how see-thru they appear.

For the first time in a pretty long while, I actually did get noticed. I went out about 7 a.m. the

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other day wearing my long mesh pants to take a morning walk — without my dog. Lately I’ve been taking the dog out and hour or so later than that.
Along came someone on a bicycle who I’ve seen in the neighborhood before but haven’t for a long time.

He’s a gardener / landscaper who works at a nursery nearby. I remember him because he’s used come early to pick up the company truck parked in a lot across from where I live. He would arrive on his bicycle and then proceed to stand sideways out in front the parked vehicle and take a long piss (just about every morning). I had noticed this habit - not because I was spying on him - but I’d see him when I came out to get the paper, looked out the window, He was apparently not deliberately exposing himself — at least from my viewpoint. Yet I always wondered if he were sort of doing it on purpose. If he’s coming to work by bicycle, his own place couldn’t be that far away. For a year or so, his company uses a different parking lot for their vehicles so I’ve not seen him taking a morning piss.
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It would have been great to have been naked - all of us jumping off of the boat and then remerging up the gangway between the two large rudder fins of the catamaran. It was a great cruise and being naked made it so much more fun. Unfortunately, nobody got any pics of me.

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So upon returning home, I just had to get naked in public this weekend. So I went out to Arakawa River since it was sunny and warm (staying in Tokyo now). I can't swear that anybody really got a look at me.. although they were passing by while walking or biking back behind me at the crest of the hill (actual flood bank) along the river. There was a hurricane (tropical cyclone) just a few days ago that overflowed the river (and prevented me from getting out).

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nobody was playing yesterday, but the teams had gathered to try to cleaning things up.
I placed myself about 2/3 up the embankment and got naked. Cyclists on the main raid below could see - although they pedal

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by so quickly that they don't have time to see much (or seem to care). The boys on the baseball time were involved in doing what they need to.. so they didn't seem to look up and over in my direction. I did get up a few times and it would have been obvious to 30-40 people that I was naked but it

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seems nobody noticed. I was there to freshen up my tan and commune with nature, and not particularly into flashing anybody anyway. It sort of confirms my recent self-realizations.. I like being naked with people who like seeing (and being) naked too - I am more of a nudist and naturist than an exhibitionist I guess.

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The pic shows the ballfields (soccer, baseball) in the background and the road below me where cyclists frequently passed. Somebody 'could' see but they have to be looking up and trying to see if I'm nude. Most people don't expect to find a naked person in a public area like this so they just don't bother to look / search.
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On the other hand, it's a different story for me.. I love to look (so I'm maybe as more or more voyeur than exhibitionist). In the places, sometime guys (alone or in groups) change clothes - strip down to get into athletic gear or vice-versa.

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I've seen many college age groups strip down - some do it modestly by wrapping a towel around them at they pull off their underwear. Other are more brazen and just strip naked and then don their soccer gear, etc. At other times, some guys stop and pull out their cocks to piss - I love it when the whole team of

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Japanese high school guys is told by their coach to take a piss break. They all line up in a row and pull out their cocks and piss.. occasionally I've been lucky enough to catch a glimpse of this scene and I really wish I had a camera (or could get away with a shot of this type of amusing (homoerotic) scene.

 

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One of the times I almost forgot about was really one of the coolest CNMN experiences I had for a long while. I stayed over in Waikiki over 6 days (at the hostel I mentioned in an earlier post). Apart from that, however, on Sundays, there is a catamaran cruise which is mainly

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reserved for gay and lesbians departing from Waikiki Beach at 1:00pm - you can get discounted tickets at Angles (gay bar on Kuhio) and the 90-minute ride includes 4 drink tickets. It's advertised as clothing optional -

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although I'd never seen anybody go naked on this cruise before (it was the 2nd time to take the cruise since they have advertized it as 'nude cruise.' It seems that actually boat operator and captain aren't really kept informed (at least they plead ignorance).

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Previously cruises I had gone on were very tame - nobody got naked, but this time I simply was not going to be denied the chance to get naked in public in front of so many people. As we were boarding, I asked some of the guys if they were going to get naked later on. Nobody seemed eager but there were any flat denials either.


So .... when we got further out in the bay about 500 yards from shore, I asked the captain - a local

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Hawaiian guy, if it OK if I got naked. He said he was told about that before - but I explained that the cruise was advertised that way and that I wouldn't be obscene or do anything to attract attention from other boats. So he consented. I was the only one to get nude and there were a few women and also a group of 5 young Black doctors from Wash D.C. in town for a medical convention.

I sat with a very big local guy but he didn't get naked
but seemed to enjoy having me do so. The two young ship's mates on board took furtive looks, but they werenonchalant about having a naked haole dude on board. Later on, we got back closerto shore nearly the end of the cruise, I pulled on my trunks and then we asked aboutbeing able to stop for a swim so the captain agreed.

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[h=4][/h]The kind of flashing that appeals to me is the sort of 'semi' innocent flashing where guys get naked when changing clothes. It is not as if they really are intending to shock somebody by masturbating and blowing your load right in front of people .. it's a kind of laid-back

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form of (almost) unintentional public nudity. Don't get me wrong -- I'd probably love being exhibitionistic more overtly in certain circumstances -- like the in a gay theatre or sex club -- I know I've enjoyed being watched in gay saunas -- but that is a kind of private sex life that I am not talking about here.
At least for now, the only kind of public flashing I can do is the accidental exposure - "you weren't supposed to set that" type. I have found that some parks (depends on the country and the city) are great for this type of spontaneous 'naturist' flashing and other are not. I have already written about

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how guys in Japan who are with their teams -- often change in public parks and just outside public ball fields -- you can sometimes get quite a show when they strip down to nothing or try to jump out of their athletic gear and into their street clothes. There are other places where I have experienced something a bit different. It seems that there is 'room' in society for a lot of male public nudity in Europe


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Link to info about nudism on Donau Insel (Donau Island inside Vienna on the Danube River): http://www.nudismus.cz/reports.html

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Donau Island in Vienna and its excessive public parks along the Danube River were excellent for this kind of 'innocent' flashing. Along there somewhere may well be a section that is totally nude, but I couldn't find it. It is easy to take the train (subway) to one of at least two stations along this public

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park-way or arrive at one and walk (30 min) to return via the other - which is the way I explore the area. I found that you were more likely to just happen across a nude man or women or see people pull of their clothes to get into the water. A few couples were going at it .. like a woman giving a guy a handjob under his shorts, but it is mainly a family like atmosphere - -but with some nude people mixed in - typically as singles. the long thin island is where I walked and then sunbathed nude, although there were a lot of people on the opposite banks -- the river is quite wide so it was not easy to see what state of undress people were on the far banks.


What I liked is that you could change clothes (and flashing cyclist) or pick a spot up on the embankments and just get naked, or go for a

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nude swim and it was not a big deal -- at least not for the casual observers who might glance your way. Obviously, Englischer Garten in Munich would be another place -- it was raining hard when I was there in August. Innocent Flashing Spots: Can anyone recommend other places/parks/ public recreation areas where this can easily happen (in North America or elsewhere too)? Much of the US tends to be so puritanical about nudity that people are likely to call the police on somebody who just is peeing, let alone actually sunbathing nude in a public park.

 

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What do you think? It's not much of a flashing experience - but it's the most 'real' flashing I've ever done (not counting nude beaches and CMNM with male strangers in hostels/campsites). He's got to know that I'm 'beating off' for him, but he's closed to the idea.See what I mean ... in a posting

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(original from May 10) cygnus wants to find a place to flash in Holland. Of course, there are many more people of Asian origin in most European cities than you would find Non-Asians (caucasians) in major cities of the country where I live.


Look how he described himself "I am skinny asian boy" (a very cute one from the looks of his attached photo ), but does being a racial minority have an effect on us wanting to be a flasher (or to expose ourselves). I would say deep down psychologically it does.

We' re not talking about simply travelling to a country that has a very different ethnicity as your own. But actually living, working and becoming immersed in the language, culture and daily life for a long period of time - (few to many years) might prompt extreme minority members to crave acceptance beyond the 'normal' channels.

I noticed some str8 flasher on the other discussion forum on this site who fit this profile. I'll need a shrink to help me explain it or explore the ideas within myself - but others may have some insight to share.



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For nearly two years (very infrequently - off and on), I have tried to get a younger man (about 23-27) who rides to work on his bicycle through the cemetery to notice my peekaboo flashing (see thru, hole-riddled jeans, and mesh clothes). He's not ever really taken the bait and generally turns his head or avert his eyes - if we're too close - so that he can't be 'accused' of looking. I am pretty positive he knows what I'm up to ... a few times a month I make a sudden appearance on his route - sometimes with my zipper down or sometimes,

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during the warmer months, wearing a pair of mesh shorts with my shirt tucked in just for him to see my pale cock wiggle from side-to-side as I walk by him.

If he were so disgusted or fearful (of being stalked), he could easily find another path to his work (I think he's working at a small commercial airport not too far away) because I meet him usually (once a week or so) around 7:00am and he returns about home the same route in mid-afternoon. Wednesdays are his day off so he works on Saturdays as well.





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I would say deep down psychologically it does.




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more bold.. like this morning. From the road, he would see
me something like this (photo attached). I realize it's very tame by comparison

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I'm standing in a pathway between grave plots about 7 meters from
the main road that runs through the cemetery. It's a straight wide (private) road with no thru vehicle traffic - so I only have to be careful about pedestrians and bicyclists going east/west. Before taking up my position just off the road, I scout out down the road to see if he's approaching and then take up my position (like the photo).


I'm turned a bit to the left but I can him clearly when I look to my right. I've done this before but never pulled my pants all the way down until recently. Earlier, I was taking a piss (or pretending too).
So twice recently.. when I knew nobody else was approaching either direction .. I've pulled down my pants and starting jerking my cock (not hard in this 'staged' recreation of the scene).

There should be no doubt that he can see me in this peripheral vision but he's TOO damned chicken or just not going to give me the pleasure knowing he's looking. He's smart - not a smart-alec and he's not looking for a confrontation but he's not looking to see 'dick' if he can help it either.




I know it's pretty stupid (fruitless is a better word LOL) -maybe useless to try to keep flashing this guy (if you can call it that). But the challenge just seems to be increasing my feelings of urgency. This time after he went by without so much as a smile or frown/scowl or side glance... I had to go deeper off the main road and beat off til I came. Is this going to lead to me trying to go to greater lengths to get the guy to look? I think the attraction is that I sort of 'feel' like I know him -- ridiculous idea (I know) but at least we recognize each other.
Sometimes he almost can't help it if I suddenly meet him coming around a corner but it's risky to be 'showing' more than just wearing see-thru mesh - because mothers with school children, old ladies and men heading to their office job are equally likely to suddenly appear around the same corners.

I know he does look my way at times .. but it's only when I'm 20-50 meters away. There is a large plaza (paved area) along the main road, where we sometimes cross paths at a much great distance. It is at times like that when I have my zipper down and my cock partly exposed. I notice then that he 'seems' to take a brief look .. but if I'm too close.. he averts his eyes or even turns his head.
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