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When guys' butt and ass cracks are showing it true that the sight is hot or 'cool' -but - at the same
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time -- I always just have to believe they are doing so completely innocently that is kind of mindless, without consciousness and so it NOT exact sexy. Because for me, just showing some butt or your crack is something you're likely to see on almost anybody - toddlers, school children, overweight people reaching up or bending over at Walmart, old people, athletes in action or just warming up, as somebody climb into a busy and just about everywhere and while people are doing most anything.


There are times and cases when this is NOT true so it's when we can accidentally see up the front of
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guys who typically are wearing baggy pants/shorts (and may also be freeballing (going commando) is when I sit up and take notice and get turned on. Women are obviously NOT going to find it easy to accidentally flash their twats - unless they sort of make a bigger and more obvious show of spreading their skirts .. anyway, by all appearances and by most everybody's admission, women don't see to be as visually stimulated or find looking at body parts as erotic as men do -- not to be too sexist.
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Back to the idea and actual experience of seeing up a guy' s short.... However, when you can see a guy's cock clearly outlined -- the head, corona ridge and all - you just got to know HE knows what's showing and he doesn't give a damn or more likely, he's happy to give others (perhaps especially other guys) a peek at his goodies.


Likewise seeing a guy's cock from a view up the leg his baggy shorts, somehow just really gets me excited to the core -- because I just KNOW he can't really be that naive and innocent about it. I mean - he decided what to wear and what NOT to wear -- I'm all for freeballing -- obviously but I know that my eyes zero in on a live target and his floppy cock or sweaty balls are a hell of a lot more appealing than a hairy butt crack (no offense to those who are and to those who do like to show crack). But this is freeballing -- after all. It's what up front that counts -- or should I is what 'cunts'. P.S. I know that most of these types of photo are just 'posed' but there are times when you get a look up some buddy or total stranger's shorts. When I was a teen, my day had a young college age guy who worked for him on subcontractor jobs
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(painting, building on house additions, etc). He wore cut-off jeans a lot and was really handsome and also took a friendly interest in me (although I was much younger -- I guess he wanted his boss (my dad) to think he was a nice guy but he could have been so friendly for 'other' reasons - that he was always in my day-dreams and later by fantasies -after the time I saw him up on a ladder with his tight bubble butt and hairy legs. Believe you me.. I was hanging around at my dad's job whenever I got the chance (which was not much because I was in school). The guy in this first pic definitely seems to be authentic and his freeballing seems totally innocent or at least he doesn't seem to be aware that his uncut meat is exposed.


Does anybody else find this type (above) of 'realistic photo' of a real

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person appealing? I won't say that it is ONLY sexually appealing because it really is NOT just that. In the second photo below the guy (in red shorts) is really hot, but the pic seems totally contrived. It is probably an early pic in a series where this guy eventually does a solo jerk off - that really doesn't do much for me.


Maybe I am getting jaded in my 'old age' and maybe the lost innocence on the first guy's face (and dick) just remind me of what I once had ... I am NOT talking about foreskin.-- but that sense of being innocent and exploring the mystery of your burgeoning feels and maybe your bulging shorts when you think about someone (or somethings... ) and then losing one's innocence, and also the joys and stumbling in learning to know yourself like most all of us went through (mostly in our adolescence -- where it concerned our sexually maturity and the changes in physical body and attraction to other people (str8, gay or bi - as the case may be).
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Excepts from an online dialogue about freeballing, men in Asia, and accidentally
exposing (to family members) Oh, those embarassing moments....


FB23 wrote: Hey, I'm from Singapore. 23 chinese. i've been freeballing since Junior College. tats little experience in the art as compared to most
of the guys here. wanna know are there any guys from Singapore who dig having no underwear binding your goods?

I'm now studying at uni. I started out mornings wearing some snug jeans to school. Sometimes
when i get horny, I have major hardons. No one could see me in the back rows and I sometimes rub my jeans under the desk. I reached that point where I really needed to blow, but also I know its wrong and would be a mess. It felt so good. Doing my situps nvr felt so liberating too.

Doing my chin ups was also a breeze, I could feel the wind rush up round my cock. Wonder if the guy helping me knew or not.

I've seen guys walking in the heartlands and its almost certain they don't wear undies, i mean, their bulge is quite obvious under their cotton
berms and u can almost see it swinging. Do u know what i mean? My point is although I freeball more nowadays, I still don't dare to go out like
those guys. But i really wanna be one of those guys.
Freeballing is definitely a lifestyle
choice for me. Never felt more liberated. Only thing is how people may view my bulging crotch whenever i get hard.

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Sunbuns wrote back:




I'm surprised nobody has written back to congratulate you on
choosing the freeballing lifestyle. Some of the 'side-effects' you've
mentioned are pretty common and you are NOT be the first guy who gets horny enough in long lectures to rub his cock and fantasizing about something or somebody else. Hey, you don't even have to be freeballing to get that way but I think the initial few weeks of fb only heightens your awareness of your body, your cock and your sense of manhood.
Keep it up and let us know how things are coming along
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really for the msg and the motivation. I've been going without undies
all this while and am really getting the hang of it, haha, pun
intended. The only incident worth mentioning is probably that i kinda
flashed my mum the other day while dozing of on the sofa. I was wearing
those short shorts that they sell at the market and was sure i had a
semi-erection going on. What i wasnt sure was that
my erection had actually gone down my leg hole and the fabric and ride
up while i laid there. I only realise it when my mom just stood there
with her mop in one hand. Worse thing was that i got more and more
aroused when i became conscious that someone was looking. My cock
erected fully and pushed back fabric to literally reveal itself to my
mum in all its glory. And i didnt wana get up at all cause i really had
no idea how to respond. i had to wait and pretend to be dozing the
whole time til she went away before i quietly crept back to my room so
u can kinda say that my mum saw my really hard cock! Luckily she didnt
mention it at all after thatU're from? Singapore? How old are u? when
did u start freeballing?
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As a teen, my Mom discovers evidence of my masturbation


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FB23,
well, I am not sure if you are totally embarrassed by your mom catching
you in a state of erection while freeballing or if you found it
somewhat stimulating. It was bad enough for me when I mom found the
dirty towel I had been using to wipe up cum after I masturbated (when I
was a high school student). She had evidently gone through my drawers
and found it buried at the back where I thought it was hidden. She
brought it to me later, all washed and folded, and said something like
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- "it would be better to use paper tissue." I was mortified.




No,I'm not from Singapore, but like to travel there - although it is more
often a stopping point on the way elsewhere. I often travel and still
have business connections in Japan where I used to live. So I get to
China, Thailand, Malaysia, etc - often via Singapore (or Hong Kong).
You asked about me -- you can find some of my details and also my blog
at: http://www.justusboys.com/members/sunbuns99/ Actually, that is one thing I really like about the http://www.freeballing.com site - it is not generally a cruising zone - guys don't generally ask
about intimate details or look for hook-up (sexual encounters) while
posting on this site. That generally happens elsewhere - such as http://www.dudesnude.com or http://www.manhunt.net or http://www.gay.com




I
do find all types of men attractive - both culturally and physically.
-- I am not simply interested in one type either, but there are
certainly some great looking Asian guys. Yes, I do recognize that there
is as much physical differences between men from various regions of
Asian as there are between Latinos and Scandinavians. I am not really
sure people who haven't spent a lot of time travelling or who don't
live in as ethnically diverse places - -such as a city like Singapore,
Toronto, New York City, Honolulu, or San Francisco, or London, that
they will readily recognize physical difference between individuals
that they broadly classify as white, hispanic or asian, etc. [Look closely at the pic - the 3 guys are clearly freeballing. What's
more - you can see that the middle guy is also peek-a-boo flashing -which I find totally hot!]


This photos (left) is of a real guy and really cute too (a Dudesnude member) - -who is an artist and model living in the US - whose ethnic origin is Vietnamese. From his other pics, I think he must freeball - he is sounds from this his work and his own self-description to be a really cool guy too.


There are a huge number of people of Chinese origin in Singapore, but it is quite a diverse city-state - with many other people too. I always tell my friends -- Singapore is the best place to enjoy "Asia for Beginnners" - it has a very unique mix of cultures. Pic on the right is from Andy Loh's collection on Flickr. Great looking guy into freeballing in jeans.
 
Travel Ssssssssssex

Over the weeks from March 2 - April 5, I had a lot of fun traveling, so I'd like to fill you in by detailing my adventures - some of them sexual (of course).

I spent a week on the Big Island in late February and got to swim with dolphins, see whales and sea turtles, did some diving and camping.

My next longer journey involved trips from Honolulu, Southern California, New York City, Tampa (Florida), Barcelona and Gran Canaria.

So instead of trying to write it all here, I will just link to entries from some of my other blogs: (Note: Not all of them are finished yet -- so I'll be updating them over the next few days (hopefully).






New level of pleasure achieved



  • Sex on the beach

I got to cruise on several gay beaches and seaside cruising spots. Diamond Head beach was hot the very afternoon I arrived back there from a short trip. I met a horny bi guy who liked to show me his str8 porn mag -- I presume to help him get himself (and me too - because he was talking dirty about fucking pussy). He then proceeded to wrap his lips around my engorged cock -- we were nestled away high above the beach but still there were other guys cruising who were trying to get a look at what we were doing.


Later on another guy climbed up to meet me among the trees, he wanted to press his cock into the crack of my ass, but didn't want to insert. It was hot getting buttrubbed - and just made me want the real thing that much more.


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  • Fucked at gay sauna

    One couple of the best anal fucks I have had in a long time was at Club 2200 on University Blvd in San Deigo on March 7th. It was a weekday night but the place was pretty hot. I finally met up with a cute Afro-American guy who felt me up from behind while I was leaning over the back of a couch in the lounge area. He asked if I wanted to play so we went behind the seating in the video backroom, where he covered his 10 inch long, beautiful cock with a rubber and then fucked me crazy. It turned out that he was trying to give me an anal orgasm. He would pull back until the tip of his long hard meat was about to disengage from my anal lips and then we would ram it back in deep. He kept up a rapid plunging rhythm so that I finally screamed in delirium and came without touching my cock.

    Funny, but just a few hours later, after a restful snooze, I got up and found a
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    hot guy in the same room who wanted his ass plowed long and hard. So I was very happy to oblige. We fucked there in the video room for a long while, then he invited me back to his cubicle where we engaged in slow sweet butt-wracking sex with my ever-hard cock for hours.
    I have not been so pleasured -- both ways during such a short period of time in a long while. It was hot!

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  • Apart from my scuba diving on two of the days at Playa del Ingles (actually we dive at El Cabron Bay nature preserve), I spent several days on the dunes at Maspalomas -- nude sunbathing and cruising for sex.



  • One the most interesting times was after I had been kind of mentally 'edging' for 4-5 hours -- seeing guys nude and a lot of sucking/fucking going on the nooks and crannies around the dunes and in the shady brush lined areas. There was a guy who was interested in my ass while I seated on the huge leaning branch of a tree. My butt was spread out over the back edge and he came up and started to massage my sphincter.

    Other guys came up around him and watched. He was not going to insert his dick, but instead, he put his fingers into my butthole and expertly applied a massage to my prostate gland. It was kinky
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    sitting there with my cock bloated -- fully erect and having my asshole rammed with a hot digit. He knew exactly what to do to get me to explode and the lust in the others mens' eyes just made me want to put on a great show. I came without touching my dick -- something that had not happened for several weeks (when I was in San Diego).


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    I realized that I have reached a new level of sexual stimulation -- the anal orgasm.



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I haven't posted a original (new) article to my blogs in while -although I have been busy
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online and off line too. I guess the urge to blog comes and goes. Also, I find that I split my life into segments which don't always overlap. For example, my activities as a gay male don't always seem to fit with some of my other interests. At least, I am not at the point where I can easily mix together blog entries about new pleasures in anal sex (butt fucking) and my latest recipes and travel tips.


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So when somebody ONLY reads this blog, they will certainly get skewed version of what I am as a person versus what I do as an active gay man (the mostly secret sexual side of my nature and activities).


I do spend a lot of time online and -- while some of it is blogging - a lot of it is absorbing other people's work via their responses/writings/postings. Still, a good bit more is consuming erotic images and video. Over the last few weeks, I have discovered (or I should say re-discovered and taken time to explore) various new sites - -many of which are directly connected to homoeroticism.


Below is a list of URLs that I check either daily or weekly:
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I haven't posted a original (new) article to my blogs in while -although I have been busy
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online and off line too. I guess the urge to blog comes and goes. Also, I find that I split my life into segments which don't always overlap. For example, my activities as a gay male don't always seem to fit with some of my other interests. At least, I am not at the point where I can easily mix together blog entries about new pleasures in anal sex (butt fucking) and my latest recipes and travel tips.


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So when somebody ONLY reads this blog, they will certainly get skewed version of what I am as a person versus what I do as an active gay man (the mostly secret sexual side of my nature and activities).


I do spend a lot of time online and -- while some of it is blogging - a lot of it is absorbing other people's work via their responses/writings/postings. Still, a good bit more is consuming erotic images and video. Over the last few weeks, I have discovered (or I should say re-discovered and taken time to explore) various new sites - -many of which are directly connected to homoeroticism.


Below is a list of URLs that I check either daily or weekly:
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[/FONT][FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Comment [/FONT]As posted by [FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]"BudnBos" [/FONT]on Freeballing.com[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]: [/FONT]I did skinnydipping for the first time this summer, and it was awesome... being in the water and at the beach nude. Most everyone else was nude also so it was no big deal.[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif] [/FONT][/FONT]
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It may not be a big deal as far as flashing goes, but it's still a great thing to be nude and enjoying the surf and sand -Skinnydipping at San Onofre (see pic at right) -- that's the whole point of skinnydipping. I try to do that all summer long and whenever I can any time. I love getting out to Black's Beach in San Diego, Baker Beach in San Francisco, Russian River at Guerneville (CA) and San Onofre State Beach (just south of Orange County (CA) on I-5 (one hour north of San Diego). I had fun there in Feb-March and met up with one of my flasher buddies from the Net. (See his photo at left below).

Of course, it's more thrilling to try to get naked (with or without the swimming) at the pool, or jacuzzi, or the beach or anywhere that nudity isn't expected. http://bp3.blogger.com/_DOIL7xJLIqM/RuIo4-OYMhI/AAAAAAAAAGQ/PrmQ-xOr7dI/s1600-h/nfat_Blacks1351a.JPG

I used to teach at a school (K-12) that had a pool. Since I had a key to the locker room (with access to the pool), I would sometimes go late at night and swim naked in the pool. I found out later on that one of male teacher
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had done the same but got caught and in trouble. Eventually, they beefed up security and put a stop to all late night swimming (changed locks).
http://bp3.blogger.com/_DOIL7xJLIqM...MUwWCsGst90/s1600-h/Laupa_sbMarch2007_02a.JPGSometimes, it's possible to get naked in a hotel pool or jacuzzi when not many people are around. At other times, I've tried going completely naked from my tent to the campground toilet / shower - at night of course - while camping. Have stripped and gone skinny dipping at many places - public parks, state and national parks - Yosemite has some (cold water freezes your balls!) great places for that. The Big Island (actually part of all the islands of Hawaii) have many beaches where it's possible to skinnydip without offending others. Waipio Valley - out from Honokaa in the northeastern area of the Big Island has a great place where people frequently (spontaneously - not a regular practice and probably frowned on since there are


Deserted stretch at Waipio Valley (photo)

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tourists (from the US mainland - Bible-belters) but once you descend the steep road down the valley entrance (on foot - of course), you can cross the fresh water river that flows into the ocean, and go to the northern (deserted) stretch of the beach. I've seen many people get naked there (including me and friends) for skinnydipping. People can just see tiny figures bobbing around from their lookout point at the time.





Kehena Black Sand Beach (Puna Coast, Big Island)
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Of course, my all-time favorite place to skinny-dip is Kehena Black Sand's Beach on Hawaii's Puna coast. It's not just about
showing your goodies on a nude beach. It's a marvelous place where nature's splendor​
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There's something definitely spiritual about the attraction for and the effect that the Great Outdoors has on the male psyche and also his libido. There are few men who do not report that they have had had the urge, and are likely to have acted upon it, to abandon their clothes and to commune with the glorious beauty of nature by getting totally nude. For some of us, it acts like an aphrodisiac.
Scenic Boys




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I have previously written an article about Scenic Boys, who are a young gay couple who lead their friends on environmentally-friendly and sometimes naked, excursions in the natural splendor of the great outdoors. The Scenic Boys end of showing off their own nature male beauty as well. You can visit their video blog Scenic Boys and also find them on Facebook.

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I had started out in the early chill of the day, but by noon the sun was out and the air was hot. I was concentrating on soaking up the heat, the sound of my paddle in the water, the aesthetics of the trees hanging over the banks.

One day last year I was paddling solo down a beautiful creek in the Midwest. I was scouting a route for a class I would be bringing there the follow

As I rounded a bend in the river, another canoe approached from behind about six feet off the port side. The person at the bow of the canoe, dressed in an old T-shirt and shorts, was happily paddling forward, completely oblivious to the person at the stern, who was dressed in ... well, nothing but a smile.

"Great day to get naked!" He shouted.

The other person laughed to himself, apparently thinking the guy behind him was joking.

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"It sure is!" I called back.

The person at the bow began to sense there was something amiss. The poor guy looked over his shoulder to see that he was the only clothed person in his canoe. Apparently, a fifteen-foot vessel was not large enough for him to be sitting in front of a naked redneck in the middle of nowhere. He started paddling as though he could make his end of the canoe outrun the back end.

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Every now and then I spy an article in an outdoor magazine that mentions, in brief, the interest people have in nude recreation. People have hiked the Appalachian Trail with nothing but their boots and socks on, rappelled wearing nothing but their harnesses and I've even heard of naked skydiving! It would surprise you some of the things people do naked, but who hasn't gone skinny dipping?

In broaching the subject of nude recreation, I hear people say, "Sorry, but there are some people I don't want to see naked." Come on now. How many of us really look like Leonardo DiCaprio in The Beach or Kate Bosworth in Blue Crush? Why should the
fun be relegated to the beautiful? Goddess or gremlin, we all need some sun. Some more than others.​


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Let me point out that in many areas, recreational or not, nudity is illegal. This is where the American Association for Nude Recreation comes in. I met some representatives of this organization two years ago at a convention in Denver, Colo. They were very cordial, professional, open and dedicated to making nude recreation socially acceptable. They candidly explained that the AANR works to ensure both freedom and access to nature in clothing-optional locations. To this end, they work through educational, professional and political means to promote the validity of nudity as a means of recreation.

In view of a potential fine and the potential reactions of those unexpectedly encountered, why do some people prefer their recreation sans apparel?

I've heard it referred to as a "baptism into nature." Our entire body is one big sensory organ. We never experience anything as much as when we throw our whole selves into it. The person who watches a DVD about Mt. Hood won't know the emotions of the person who climbs it. The person who walks beside Opal Creek won't know the exhilaration of the person who jumps in it. The person who hikes into the Grand Canyon won't feel the same intimacy as doing so without the inhibition of clothing

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I think it's like being on a road trip and turning a corner to see the most spectacular view spread out in front of me. The first thing I do is roll down the window. Then I start looking for a place to pull over, leave the car and stare uninhibited at the beauty before me. Maybe it's also like looking into the face of someone I find truly beautiful, someone I truly want to know. I naturally want to reach out and touch them, to remove the inhibition of silence that separates use.

It's about removing inhibitions. The window glass between me and the view inhibits what I want to see clearly. The distance between you and that person inhibits what you want to hold. So the reaction is to stop and reach out. At this point I am reminded of how many beautiful opportunities we have every day, in the faces of the people we pass.

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We allow too many inhibitions to keep us from reaching out and seeing each other clearly. It seems we are so tightly clothed and constricted by so many things that we maintain a glass of social indifference between us and the lives of others. I am not suggesting that we should all be required to walk around naked, but if we could simply stop and reach past our inhibitions once or twice, we'd find that the next person is just as human as we are. In truth, clothing doesn't make the man, because the human is underneath.

Jamie Lewis Hedges is an outdoor columnist for The Daily Barometer. He can be reached atbaro.sports@studentmedia.orst.edu.




Ready to go get naked in the great outdoors

by Jamie Lewis Hedges


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I had some great CMNM (Clothed Male Naked Male) experiences during my month of vacation travel in August a few years back. They really aren't ones that would have much graphic or explicit content or anything like that... but they were certainly meaningful because I was able to make some great connections with people. For me, it's not enough just to be naked in front of strangers - that's
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easy enough to accomplish at a nudist beach, locker room, or clothing optional resort, etc.


I find it increasingly important to me if I can develop some kind of interaction - social - not even sexual with the guys I am nude with. I realize that this probably says a lot about the nature of my own reasons or motivation for seeking out CMNM situations. I should eventually delve into that - I suppose. For me it not simply whether or not the guy is showing any interest in seeing my nude body or me his. It's much more satisfying when the clothed person and I (or if I'm clothed and he's nude) are engaging in either doing something together or conversing about mutual interests while one of us is nude.


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Here is just a quick glimpse at my summer episodes..

a) I stayed several weeks on the Big Island (Hawaii) so I had a chance to camp, go to a clothing optional resort, and get nude on a couple of beaches

b) I stayed at a hostel (same one as before) and had a wonderful time getting to know my bunkmates and people from adjoining rooms. There were quite a few opportunities to be naked or be clothed with naked during that 5-day stay. One of the most fun things was 6 of us going skinny dipping at Waikiki Beach after midnight (2 women and one guy remained clothed, 3 guys got naked). I had spent the whole time just dying to see those other two hunks in the nude so it was really cool being accepted in the camaraderie of guys being guys and getting to skinny-dip with them in the end.


c) I meet up the next week with one of the guys who stayed in that same hostel dorm room (he didn't
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go skinnydipping) but his bunk was just across from mine, so I had an uninterrupted view of him sleeping and also he had the same of me - I sleep nude every night of course. I loved watching him put his hand down his pants and play with or 'straighten' his cock.

I made sure he got a chance to see me with a woody too several times a night (and at sunrise) - although he never acknowledged noticing. Because we were both returning back to the the Big Island, we ended up going together to the Puna area of the Big Island the following week- so I introduced to the delights of the 'naked Aloha' life. It was his first trip to a nude beach and at first he was reluctant - although he's the one who suggested going - but finally he got up the courage to shed all his clothes and even allowed me to take some photos.

Later we camped out a Kalani so he got another chance to
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be naked on the clothing optional pool that evening. Of course, I slept naked next to him in the 2-man tent and I hardly got any sleep at all. The previous day we went to the natural steam vents (like an outdoor sauna made from lava-heated steam) and we got naked. A guy there was 'pretending 'to sleep and sporting a big hard on so that gave me and Koji a chance to talk later about dicks and erections.

d) I stayed in Manhattan at the West Side Y and had quite a few chances to be naked with strangers. Guests can use the pool, gym and locker rooms just like paid members. On my return trip thru NYC, I stayed at another hostel and also scouted out a few more where I might return on my next trip. I also spent several evenings at the West Side Club.

e) Some nudity at a couple public beaches lead to some sexual encounters -- I met a really nice Russian guy whom I mistook for straight until he keep coming up and trying to get peeks some parts of my anatomy. Eventually, I got more than just a peek at his.

f) One of the times I almost forgot about was really one of the coolest CNMN experiences I had for
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a long while. I stayed over in Waikiki over 6 days (at the hostel I mentioned earlier). On Sundays, there is a catamaran cruise which is mainly reserved for gay and lesbians departing from Waikiki Beach at 1:00pm. It's advertised as clothing optional - although I'd never seen anybody go naked on this cruise before (it was the 2nd time to take the cruise since they have advertised it as 'nude cruise.' It seems that actually boat operator and captain aren't really kept informed (at least they plead ignorance). I asked my hostel roommates if they wanted to come along but the macho-man guy from the Netherlands was negative about it, saying he didn't want to go on any gay cruise - but - of course, it seemed he never missed an opportunity to get naked.

Previously cruises were very tame, but this time I simply was not going to be denied the chance to get naked in public in front of so many people. As we were boarding, I asked some of the guys if they were going to get naked later on. Nobody seemed eager but there were any flat denials either. So .... when we got further out in the bay about 500 yards from shore, I asked the
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captain - a local Hawaiian guy, if it OK if I got naked. He said he was told about that before - but I explained that the cruise was advertised that way and that I wouldn't be obscene or do anything to attract attention from other boats. So he consented. I was the only one to get nude and there were a few women and also a group of 5 young Black doctors from Wash D.C. in town for a medical convention. I sat with a very big local guy but he didn't get naked but seemed to enjoy having me do so. The two young ship's mates on board took furtive looks but they were nonchalant about having a naked haole dude on board. Later on we got back closer to shore nearly the end of the cruise, I pulled on my trunks and then we asked about being able to stop for a swim so the captain agreed. It would have been great to have been naked - all of us jumping off of the boat and then remerging up the gangway between the two large rudder fins of the catamaran. It was a great cruise and being naked made it so much more fun.
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wines from all over the globe.. some people eat to them live or just enjoy, others live to enjoy them. I think you can savor the male 'essenses' in various forms - including across racial/ ethnic / blended human gene pools- or you can just gobble down dick like a horse (or pig) without carrying who's on the other end -- racially.


Myself, I find racially-ethnically mixed guys to be the sexiest. That admittedly is a personal preference -- partly because I no longer have to bridge the racial gap (at least from my point-of-view). I can see racially mixed men as just really cute guys or gorgeous men in NO relation to any racial/physical ideal or category.
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Having raised two biracial, bilingual and bicultural children with their Japanese mother and me as their father - British and Irish white male with some Cherokee and bit of French trapper, I am well aware of the inter-racial mixtures of such movie stars (and other media/ sports/entertainment) as Keanu, Cain and Angelina Jolie, and other racial mixes such as Halle Berry or Tiger Woods, etc and actually there are many others. It's a growing world phenomenon and also interesting to see how these people can sometimes be either not identified with a racial group (Angelina Jolie) or sometimes are (Halle Berry) or beyond any categorization (making up his own - Tiger Woods as Caublasian - I think I got that right).


I have said it before (here on JUB) and elsewhere - this is one of the most amazing benefits about living in a place like Hawaii; and there are many and a growing number of places where the ethnicities/races/cultures/subcultures can mix freely and also retain their cultural identity -- at the same time as being part of a humanity-respecting society of diversity (and cetacean-respecting environment too).


Hey.. I sound just like I'm a new-age religious missionary... what the hell... Oh well, I'll go on..
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Unfortunately, racism still continues to exist! Our so-called enlightened societies have been taking conscious efforts to reduce its negative effects - I can't judge yet if it's been entirely successfully - the clash of civilizations (which is partly racial/ethnic/intercultural has just gone re-started (partly thanks to the GW Bush kind of mentality and mis-leadership. But there are also equally threatening social evils (?) that haven't been clearly recognized as being problems - ethnism (prejudice or discrimination against culture groups or subgroups linked to racial or ethnic identity).

It sort of what was talked about earlier about why some ethnic cultures view white Americans as the top of the heap - it's a form of 'ethnist' thinking that non-whites accept or even adopt without thinking ..


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Raising the human consciousness is a never ending climb up the psycho-evolutionary ladder - - well, at least until cloning and robot intelligence achieve post-scientific levels. I call it x-sci-fi jidai era ('Japanese term' that George Lucas loosely borrowed to name his Jedai knights and 'bushido'-like culture of the Force).


I'm sure I've lost a few people by now because the length of this post alone ... LOL... but I am just talking about the inevitable evolution of human nature and human form and human sexuality ....

In a few years (100 or 200 years from now) there won't be that many racially identifiable individuals anyway...
More will be pan-racial in origin and multi-ethnic, multi-cultural by then.. so how long shall we keep discussing this???

It's very likely too there won't be any more artificial distinctions between straight, gay or bisexual preferences. We won't have much to talk about then, will we?


Absolute and true paradise is as boring as hell.


Duh .. whatdafu** .... I' ll stop here.


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I find the sexual preference for certain races and how gay/bi/str8 men interact sexually across races or before their races/ethnic or mixed origins to be both fascinating and perplexing.


Having lived for many years in Japan - as both a straight married father and, at the same time, often moonlighting
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there and elsewhere in the world as a single gay male MUP (middle-aged urban professional), I have encountered all races and ethnicities of males (and all people) - socially and sexually.


I've also experienced being an absolute racial minority - such as in Japan or Cambodia or Thailand - where whites make up far less than a tiny fraction of a percent of the general population. Of course, tourists are a bit different story.
But I was also, of course, in the once mostly-white racial majority of the US -- growing up in the South -- Georgia, Tennessee, and Kentucky.


I love men of all races. What I mean is that I am attracted to them. But to be honest, that attraction is on a case by case, personal level. Isn't that the real test of the all personal attraction? I can be categorical in defining my likes or preferences, but it does not always bear out in actually meeting a specific person.
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So why even talk about people (men) as racial entities? I don't have answer - just at least I've thought about it some and still think it's worth reflecting on - because it's kind of key to comprehending the human condition and your own part in shaping its continuing evolution.


Think of cetaceans - many people should know what they are but it's a word rarely used in daily conversation and is probably unknown by many when used out of context. We don't ever say - the Chinese, long-nosed saltwater porpoise - we just call them either -whales or dolphins (one single group more specific but not as discriminating as the racial names we give ethnic groups - kind of like grouping all 'humans' into three big categories (African, Asian and European) or Easterners and Westerners -- what about the billions that are somewhere outside those too broad divisions.


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But in our more formal, public discourse with strangers or just work colleagues, family members etc. "Oh I met this Japanese guy who was ..." or "Oh I met this black dude who was like so..." Each of these utterances shows different levels of 'ethnistic' attitudes (I don't call it really racism because there isn't much evidence that the person speaking is a racist or even prejudiced or discriminatory (in a bad sense) - they are just discriminating or differentiating for the sake of the listener and what they 'think' will communicate more effectively or clearly to the person that are talking to.


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Our social register determines somewhat what 'attitudes' we conceal or reveal. The problem with today's online and telecommunication media-based communication environment is that we often don't have a clue what social register to use in such a publicly open style. Sorry if I'm lecturing - you don't have to read this and probably won't even make it this far -- unless you are interested.


If we're talking about comparing physical attractiveness of one ethnic/racial group over another -- it's really a personal preference but so shaped by our own common social values that we really actually don't have much choice in the matter.


That being said, I've come to admire and be physically and pyscho-sexually stimulated not only by all kinds of men because of their ethnicity - not just their skin color or physical traits (features, endowments). Each ethnic group has behavioral (body language, facial expressions, fashion, the way the move and use their bodies/limbs) and rather unique (to that group) social responses in how they move, react, interact that are quite different and also just as appealing -- not exactly in a sexual way. Some might say that's this is fetishism carried to an extreme.

 
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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Somehow I don't think he was not as shocked as he was surprised - maybe even delighted -- that there was somebody in his neighborhood he would do what he's been thinking about so long (his pissing in public was just his way of innocent flashing). So I now I think he might have been getting his own thrills as he 'innocently' pissed in public ever morning.[/FONT]


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I am not really into fundoshi (wearing them myself-- freeballer here), but I certainly enjoy seeing other men wear them. It's the traditional garment (actually undergarment) worn by most Edo era men under their kimono or yukata (before arrival of Perry's black ships circa 1857). For nearly a century, it was still used as underwear and the bathing suit for men, but it's popularity as an everyday article of clothing declined after the American Occupation introduced Western-style underwear for men.

It's now become garment of choice for many 'masturi' - Japanese traditional festivals - many of which celebrate the coming of age of young men and involve some type of virility or fertility ritual or ceremonial tasks. A variation of it, the 'mawashi' is still worn today by sumo wrestlers.

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In 'matsuri', groups of men (old and young) don the fundoshi (with or without happi coat) and parade the streets and shrine grounds carrying the heavy wooden floats (actually portable shrines, 'mikoshi'), heaving it up and forward with their loud chants and boisterous energy. Quite often when ONLY the fundoshi is worn - with nothing else - the festival is frequently referred to as a 'hadaka matsuri' or naked festival.


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still rather a special item that most men wouldn't own. For example, how popular is the thong for underwear or a bathing suit? Still there are a few men who wear kimono on a daily basis (instead of Western suits or pants) so I'm sure that you can find fundoshi at department stores and speciality stores. Even if not don one publically, some men might like the masculine image of the fundoshi and may be wearing them under
their western attire - sort of like men who like to wear a jockstrap instead of boxers or briefs. A lot of men at the age of 20 (for both men and women) celebrate Coming of Age Day (2nd Monday in January) and some of them wear traditional kimono (and may be wearing a fundoshi underneath (although I have my doubts). Summer festivals and firework display bring out hordes of people, particularly young men and women, in the traditional lighter cotton print 'yukata' (cheaper version of the often outrageously expensive kimono). I bet a few men wear a fundoshi (or like I do - nothing) underneath.



Mr. Wada is photographer who specializes in Japanese festivals and seems to capture men in fundoshi at literally hundreds of festivals.


http://wadaphoto.jp/maturi/


A blog by Japanese guy interested in naked and semi-naked men:
http://blog.livedoor.jp/fundoshi/archives/cat_489179.html


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So you can imagine what it's like being where a lot of men are getting dressed in fundoshi. He explains in Japanese that most people can't get a fundoshi tied by themselves (you need a third or fourth arm). So you can see why I think male bonding is one of the functions of Japanese festivals - you have to get naked and up closer and personal with another guy and then groups of men in order to wear a fundoshi and participate.

You can put on a fundoshi by yourself. The same instructor completes his training of the younger fundoshi wearer - and put him to the test.


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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]I realize defining what it really flashing and what is 'virtual flashing' is probably a matter of intent and also has something to do with the will of the audience/ viewer. A 'real' flasher (true exhibitionist fetish) seems to need to be seen by people (whether or not they want to see him). The most extreme fetishist needs to be "seen" doing sexual things (being naked or jerking) in order to get off. Just posting yourself in nude pics or even showing yourself aroused or engaged in masturbation or sexual intercourse in photographs might be exhibitionistic but it doesn't make them (us) a true flasher ... I suppose. Maybe I'm just self-talking (this post or my blog) to try to justify or rationale by own use of virtual flashing. [/FONT]




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Exhibitionism and Public Sex Outdoors

As an ardent would-be exhibitionist, I find that I'm really more like a avid nudist/naturist who would like to be seen by other males. Although true trench coat cock flashing is a rare activity, love to get naked where it's not quite expected and love getting others to be naked with me. I write about this on my blog or at dickflash dot com.



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My most memorable 'flashing' experience was in a public park on Tokyo Bay (at Odaiba) in June a few summer ago. I was sitting nude (there were other people in various states of undress, but none completely naked) in a semi-secluded area (regular pedestrian parks goer couldn't easily see, but anyone who had mind too could get an eyeful.

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I was far enough away from the other people or from the Rainbow Bridge in the distance to not be obviously exposing myself naked. Still, I had a few guys come up and get a glimpse (one even chatted a minute). But the highlight of that afternoon was when a cute Japanese guy about 20 year old who seemed overly curious, arrived and noticed me. He kept getting closer and closer, pretending to be looking out the ocean scenery, but obviously throwing glances at the naked foreigner.

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When I started pulling on my now erect cock, he took the bait and eventually came up and stood nearby. He was just too intrigued and wanted to see my cock and see me jack off, so he stood almost over me - in the end, he stood right over me, spreading my legs wider with his own, and giving me soft verbal commands to beat off until I ejaculated. He didn't get naked himself, but it was one of the hottest exhibitionist experiences I have had - to be [FONT='times new roman', times]approached by a perfect stranger who turned me on and was himself turned on my public sexual behavior.

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It was one of my first CMNM) (clothed male-naked-male) experiences that involved sex (well - I reached ejaculation - although it wasn't mutual). That experience sort of ratcheted up the level for what I expected from flashing and exhibitionism from myself- but since then, I've not really had the same of level of exhibitionist experience. Having sex at a gay nude beach is pretty hot especially while other guys watch - which is definitely why I go to gay baths or public cruising spots (it's being seen nude that is so arousing), but it's almost expected there - meaning it's not that out of the ordinary.

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Recently, taking a new friend to a nude beach - and getting him to go naked with me was a really fun time. But it was about sex, really. I could go on but will stop and continue enjoying other guy's stories.

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A discussion by guys who get off showing off their butts.

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May I flash?

Thanks. Yeah, it has become my thing to do on Fridays after work, I grab a beer and take it in, undress and walk around naked while i drink,
I love to show off for fully clothed men, it is interesting at this place since most of them are respectful and wont grab me unless i let them, i love when they get curious and just examine my bod,
spread my ass cheeks and look inside, or open my peehole, sniff me while i just stand there as others watch, I just stand there patiently.
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Once things get more involved it is hot to be watched and moan and grunt a little to show others how I am
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There is a new place i found on mondays and it has a few folks. I have a huge curved dick so guys always love watching it since it is so different,
but the biggest turn on for me is to have a guy spread my ass cheeks while another watches, once this dude was sniffing and this other dude was asking him what my hole smelled like and the dude was talking about the smell, and sweat, while i was just there spread open silent just letting them examine me.


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That's really cool that you are so turned on by beingnaked and having clothed men watch or examine you. I know that is what takes me back again and again to the gay saunas.
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It's hot too - that although you have a big cock (let's see it sometime LOL).. you really love have your ass observed and explored. But you never mentioned what some guys really love (getting their asses fucked).


I think you are really into CMNM (clothed male / naked male) -- the point of it being an absolute turn-on for you. Evidently, it is for the guys who watch you and sniff your ass or who put their noses or fingers in your hole. This site / board is called 'dick flash' but obviously there is a lot more to it than showing one's penis in public.


I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to keep my tongue out of your butt -- if I found you naked like that in one of those bars/clubs or maybe something more solid (*he he*). I'm sure you have to 'fight off' some penile invaders - every once in a while (LOL). The trouble with me is that I can't fight off the temptation - once my ass gets the 'royal' tongue/finger treatment then -- it seems to ache for something bigger. So it's all over pretty soon after that - especially if a few guys are watching me get fucked (or fucking somebody else) - it puts me over the edge in no time at all.


If you'd allow, I'd like to re-post these specific conversations on my CMNM blog: Guys into CMNM. There are guys into that - who would never consider themselves 'cock flashers' and might not ever visit this site.


Check out one of his vids on my CMNM blog (linked above).
Kelly
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His pals send the rookie to an empty examination room after the Employees' Health staff has left for the afternoon.







A "doctor" arrives, tells the greenhorn to strip, and begins a routine physical.


The "doctor" tells the newbie to sit on the examination table doggie style while he administers a thorough and extensive anal probe. The newbie can't see what's going on behind him, and has no idea of the varied objects the "doctor" is inserting up his butt hole.


Meanwhile, a security camera is recording the exam, and the rookie's pals are cracking up watching the show on closed circuit TV. After the rectal work-up, the "doctor" milks the newbie's dick to get a smear of pre-cum for a slide (or 2 or 3). The "doctor" tells the greenhorn the pre-cum looks suspicious, and says he'll need a semen sample




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As he pumps the newbie's dick, the "doctor" asks the rookie extensive (and embarrassing) questions about his sex life: When did he first masturbate? How often does he masturbate nowadays? Has he ever masturbated with other guys? Ever have oral sex with guys? Ever have anal sex? Ever have sex with a woman? With a hooker? How did he lose his virginity?







The "doctor" keeps pumping away at the newbie's dick. But no matter how many times the greenhorn shoots, the "doctor" says the semen sample isn't adequate for lab tests. Finally, when the rookie is completely drained and














exhausted, and has answered all the doctor's questions about his sex life, the "doctor" says he can get dressed and leave.



By this time, the guys watching the show on closed circuit TV have all jacked off, and got themselves a brand new video to play at stag parties.

 


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Come out Atlanta FLEX, 76 4th Street Northwest Atlanta GA, on August 16 and again on August 23 fro 9:00pm - 2:00 am for some Clothed Male Naked Male fun indoors and outside. No charge for the CMNN Party, but there is an admission fee for FLEX (locker or room charge).




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This seemingly simple posting on a site devoted to exhibitionism is definitely a true example of the basic aspects of CMNM experience and not simply male-to-male flashing. (For those of you just learning what CMNM is and the forms it takes, I decided it was time to re-post some critical or key articles that have helped me define the real nature of CMNM. I insist and offer evidence that it is not simply a sexual fetish.



The story (read at http://kelly-sb.blogspot.jp/2014/08/a-classic-cmnm-experience-and-what-it.html ) is the kind of non self-gratifying erotic or intimate experience (no or little arousal or orgasmic climax - at least not then - maybe later) is exactly what I've been talking about (on this site and others and my new blog) - as the classic CMNM experience.


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I think it comes from a basic need for most (gay or str8 ) males to express intimacy between themselves and other men - - it's not just sexual lust (although it certainly can be and - for some people -- it IS a large part of it - for other (perhaps like Stephen - it is not - it's more social and psychological- emotional)

So, CMNM is using 'nudity' to symbolize and actualize this intimacy. Think about it... what could be MORE intimate than bearing your nude body to another guy (clothed or not) - it's a kind of symbolic act - NOT SUBMISSIVE either -' although for some guys it could be )-- but it's like saying: "Hey, dude. I am me - see me as I am and accept me for what and who I am. I want to be your buddy and for you to be mine."
Often times, it is easier for guys to start to really communicate once one of them has 'bared' his soul and his body to his buddy (or even a new friend or stranger).....
We can see this theme repeated over and over again on the different posts on this board....





CMNM occurs when one male 'needs' to be nude - actually naked - and the other guy(s) are clothed - they are apparently NON-plussed by the fact of the nudity or just oblivious, unconcerned or feigning disinterest. For some the 'clothed' person becomes an object of desire IF he seems to be interested and excited by the sight of the nuditiy - other's seem to get their rocks off by the embarrassment that such causes to the clothed viewer.. all these are simply variations on the basic theme.


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I know somebody is going to say I'm over intellectualizing - I can agree with that... but no matter how much I 'talk' / lecture - or NOT... it doesn't change the fact that male-to-male intimacy and the lack of it is at the core of what drives us to return to this site and these discussion and to tell our stories and experiences...


For more info see my blog (or contribute to it):
Guys into CMNM http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
 
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This seemingly simple posting on a site devoted to exhibitionism is definitely a true example of the basic aspects of CMNM experience and not simply male-to-male flashing. (For those of you just learning what CMNM is and the forms it takes, I decided it was time to re-post some critical or key articles that have helped me define the real nature of CMNM. I insist and offer evidence that it is not simply a sexual fetish.



The story (read at http://kelly-sb.blogspot.jp/2014/08/a-classic-cmnm-experience-and-what-it.html ) is the kind of non self-gratifying erotic or intimate experience (no or little arousal or orgasmic climax - at least not then - maybe later) is exactly what I've been talking about (on this site and others and my new blog) - as the classic CMNM experience.


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I think it comes from a basic need for most (gay or str8 ) males to express intimacy between themselves and other men - - it's not just sexual lust (although it certainly can be and - for some people -- it IS a large part of it - for other (perhaps like Stephen - it is not - it's more social and psychological- emotional)

So, CMNM is using 'nudity' to symbolize and actualize this intimacy. Think about it... what could be MORE intimate than bearing your nude body to another guy (clothed or not) - it's a kind of symbolic act - NOT SUBMISSIVE either -' although for some guys it could be )-- but it's like saying: "Hey, dude. I am me - see me as I am and accept me for what and who I am. I want to be your buddy and for you to be mine."
Often times, it is easier for guys to start to really communicate once one of them has 'bared' his soul and his body to his buddy (or even a new friend or stranger).....
We can see this theme repeated over and over again on the different posts on this board....





CMNM occurs when one male 'needs' to be nude - actually naked - and the other guy(s) are clothed - they are apparently NON-plussed by the fact of the nudity or just oblivious, unconcerned or feigning disinterest. For some the 'clothed' person becomes an object of desire IF he seems to be interested and excited by the sight of the nuditiy - other's seem to get their rocks off by the embarrassment that such causes to the clothed viewer.. all these are simply variations on the basic theme.


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I know somebody is going to say I'm over intellectualizing - I can agree with that... but no matter how much I 'talk' / lecture - or NOT... it doesn't change the fact that male-to-male intimacy and the lack of it is at the core of what drives us to return to this site and these discussion and to tell our stories and experiences...


For more info see my blog (or contribute to it):
Guys into CMNM http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
 

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Loving to be with guys who are naked (or being naked with guys who aren't).... that's the core of what CMNM (clothed male / naked male) situations are all about.


Some (of us) are really in to it.. and seek out such situations whenever possible - of course, it's a gay thing for many of us.


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By the way, it is NOT ONLY about homosexual attraction. I could go on and on... but men need (and enjoy) using nudity between themselves and in groups of men (like sports teams, fraternity, army/military, clics and groups of buddies, while in temporary all male situations, such as camping, scouting, etc) and have done it since the beginning of societies... (I'm not talking physical desire or lust between men) to express friendship, belonging to a group, male affection and camaraderie, and dependence/interdependence, control/authority, loyal, leadership, bravura/machismo, and platonic or brotherly love.




I think almost every guy has some times (or even a lot) when he wants to see them
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naked or be seen naked by his buddies. It's part of identifying with being a man. We've had this discussion in bits and pieces many times on this forum before. When you absolutely 'need' to be naked or be the clothed guy around naked ones (for various reasons - different for every person) then you are said to be into CMNM or have it as a fetish (if you need it to get off).


I've gone forward (evolved?) in exploring CMNM in myself, and also socially. I have set up many online CmNm groups, and have been trying to organize off-line real CMNM events, meet-ups, parties, etc.


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I have a regular blog devoted to the subject: Guys Into CMNM at:


http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com


From the Guys Into CMNM blog, you can find your way to both local and international groups, and several online social networks devoted to CMNM activities and interests.


Find out more at in my JUB blog post just below or at the CMNM Party at FLEX Atlanta, August 16 and again on August 23
See details at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-party-at-flex-atlanta-tickets-12522102947


If there's enough participation (well in advance), we'll be hiring stripper, and
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clothed/costumed performers for parties / CMNM role-playing at a private residence. Some events are public or low cost, others required advance booking.


You can also keep up with updates on the CMNM Twitter:
http://twitter.com/cmnm
or read updates as they are posted/re-posted and tweeted at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-party-at-flex-atlanta-tickets-12522102947


Hope you can 'show' up! But if not, then some day there may be a CMNM Event near you. )


Kelly, organizer (sunbuns / sunbuns99 / sunbunz )
-- You can also read about this and more CMNM posts in my JUB blog or visit:
Guys Into CMNM http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com


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Kelly
http://people.tribe.net/sunbuns


The spirit is willing but the flash is weak-- day and night.
http://sunbuns.blogspot.com




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