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A World of Real (Mostly) Naked Guys (blog) has a recent post showing a Warhol-like video with a the main character naked in bed and sleeping with an erection that grows then fades. There is also a link to that blog on the right hand side bar here (the blogger has also linked back to mine).
http://www.nude-guys-world.net/article-22377559.html

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This brings up another form of male-male homoerotic communication (CMNM experience) that I find to be absolutely spellbinding - especially when it is happening to me: sleeping with another guy - particularly when either I or he is nude.

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I happened to me recently when I was staying in a hostel during August. I had the 'hardest' time getting to sleep because there were mostly unclothed guys (wearing only boxers or boxer-briefs) in the bunk beds around me. I always sleep naked during the summer months, and when I am staying at a hostel - I usually do so, too. In most cases, the sheet keeps me covered but at times, I'm sure my cock - soft or erect - is plainly visible. I have found many guys at the hostels who sleep in the nude.

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How to find a hostel
Google will help (as you must know). It helps to try Google in various languages, especially the spelling of the city is different between specific languages.


Cologne is very different in Germany and French. I found an interesting link (for Germany's hostel/backpackers) ...for example.http://www.backpacker-network.de/home/


This site listed only two hostels (I am sure there are more), but it also has city info (listing straight bar, gay bars, restaurants and tourist spots, along with other helpful hints). If you don't get specific advice from anybody here, then try a more generalized travel site (esp one with travelogs or traveler's recommendations).

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You should take a look at such sites as TravBuddy or Virtual Tourist, or TripAdvisor (heavily commercial), TravBuddy listing for Cologne ( a sample city with a large gay community and Pride festivities)
http://www.travbuddy.com/Cologne-travel-guide-391589


Other sites worth looking at:
http://travbuddy.com
http://www.virtualtourist.com
http://www.TripAdvisor.com

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Also the major hostel listing are at:
http://www.hostels.com


http://www.hihostels.com (Hostelling International chain)
http://www.hostels.net/ (reviews of hostels)
http://www.hostelz.com/
http://www.hostelworld.com/
http://www.hostelbookers.com/

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I rubbed his arm by way of encouragement and so he got a bit braver and lowered his hands to below my waist, softly taking my growing member in his hands. I put my hands over my head, giving him unrestricted access to the whole of my body, which he proceeded to feel all over, moaning with pleasure as he did so.

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I could feel the cool touch of his clothes against my back as he held me close against him and felt quite excited at the fact I was so completely naked and exposed to him.

He was enjoying the total freedom I gave him to play with my naked body, saying how lovely it was. He said we only had a few more minutes before he had to go out so I invited him to have a last good look and feel before I got dressed.


After I got dressed and he saw me out the door he said I’d be very welcome to visit again. I think I will.

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Exhibitionist Coffee


During the summer I had gone to the local nude beach (about 20 miles away) a few times and enjoyed it as people walked past and had a good look at me sunbathing naked. It’s a long beach with the nude section up in the dunes at the far end so anyone at that part of the beach is fully aware it is nude and expects to see people naked. I would find a nice spot, ***** off and settle down to sun myself knowing it wouldn’t be long before some beach walkers would come past. As the dunes undulate up and down you don’t know if there will be someone over the next peak of a dune so sometimes walkers would suddenly appear almost next to me. Some of the walkers were just walking and nothing more. Others were hoping to “stumble” across nude sunbathers to they could get an eyeful. So occasionally someone would suddenly appear close to me and make quite a show of apologizing for disturbing me but at the same time making sure they had a good look. And I’m fairly sure some people came past more than once. Mostly the walkers were dressed, or at least wearing swimmers, and I quite enjoyed the fact that they were seeing me naked while they were clothed. Occasionally some would stop and chat and I really enjoyed it as they stood looking down on me as I lay naked before them. It was the typical British chatter about the weather and very seldom did they comment on the fact I was naked….but some did and that was fun.

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Some weeks later I was fully dressed waiting to meet a friend outside the post office in the town near the beach when this chap walked past, nodded and said hello. I politely nodded back and said hello to him too. He stopped and smiled and said “You don’t recognize me do you?” I replied that I didn’t and he said that he had almost not recognized me with my clothes on but was now sure we had chatted before.


The look of surprise on my face made him laugh and he explained that he had seen me on the nude beach and had made a point of walking past a few times and even stopped to chat once or twice as an excuse to have a good look at me. We chatted a bit and although I couldn’t recall chatting with him he described the towel I was lying on etc. and then said that I was circumcised – which is true – so clearly we must have chatted….or at least he had seen me naked before. He was in his 60’s and called Bill and said he admired my body and had really enjoyed chatting to me on the beach as he looked at me naked. He gave me his number and said if ever I wanted somewhere to ***** off during the winter I could visit him at his house which was nearby. Then my friend arrived and Bill said goodbye but as he went he said I should call him.

A week or so later I met my friend again and I was just about to head for home when I remembered Bill and called him and asked if he was serious about what he had said the last time. He said he hadn’t really expected to hear from me but would love to see me and invited me round for a coffee, although it couldn’t be for very long as he had to go out later.
I wasn’t sure what to expect when I knocked on his door but thought it likely he would ask me to ***** off. He welcomed me in and showed me through to the living room and we sat and chatted a bit. We went over the old ground of how he had enjoyed chatting to me as he admired my naked body during the summer and his surprise when he saw me in town. He seemed to enjoy describing my body to me as if confirming to both of us that we had chatted and he had in fact seen me naked before. I found it quite exciting to hear his description of my body and particularly how he described the parts you would only see if I was naked….the level of detail he had convinced me that he had definitely seen me naked before!





Then he said I should feel free to take my clothes off. I laughed and said I had wondered when that would happen. He said he would love to see me naked again and had hoped that was why I had visited! So, in front of a retired gentleman who I had only just met, but who had clearly seen me naked before, I took all my clothes off. Although I still couldn’t recall chatting to him on the beach his description of my body and the fact that he seemed like a nice guy meant I was happy to do it.

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I was a bit nervous as I hadn’t really ******** off for someone like this before, but his reaction and appreciation soon put me at ease. Being naked for strangers on a beach is very different for being naked for someone specifically because they have asked to see my body. I was now sitting naked on the sofa and nervous over what was going to happen next. He asked if it was ok for him to remain dressed as he was quite shy but loved the fact I was so exhibitionist. I took that as an invitation to show myself off so I stood and paraded about the room before standing in front of him and making sure he had a good look. He watched and clearly enjoyed what he was seeing.



Then he asked if I would like a drink so I followed him into the kitchen where he put the kettle on and made us both a coffee, chatting normally but he was also looking me over and smiling as he did so. We stood chatting with our drinks about the weather, traffic, etc. He showed me round his house and the view from his upstairs bedroom of the beach. I was quite comfortable walking round his house completely naked and every now and again he would stop to have a good look at me – and when he did I would strike some pose that showed myself off to him.

I offered to wash up the coffee cups and as I did I felt him come up behind me and put his arms
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I Love CMNM: Clothed Male Nude Male Scenes


Filming A Mate Take A Shower.

When I was in high school me and some friends went away for a weekend to a filmmaking festival. The idea was to spend the weekend making a funny short film and having a good time away from our parents. The film we had written was a B-grade style horror film spoofing films like Texas Chainsaw Massacre and Psycho. And so, of course, there was a shower scene where one of the characters was murdered...

During the shoot I was behind the camera and one friend was in charge of the special effects (tomato sauce in water pistols). The victim was being played by another one of our friends. He had no shirt on and was just in his shorts. He was young and skinny but had some defined muscles and the beginnings of a six-pack. We discussed how we were going to shoot the scene and had a quick rehearsal. Then he ******** down to his underpants and stepped into the shower ready to shoot.



With the water flowing and soaking his briefs, I could clearly make out the shape of his package. He seemed to be quite aware of this, and in fact, seemed to be enjoying showing off. He kept grabbing at his crotch to try and make his bulge look bigger. We angled the camera so that only his top half could be seen and you couldn't tell that he wasn't completely naked, but take after take the waistband of his briefs kept creeping up into frame and ruining the shot.

My friend asked if it would be easier to film if he really was naked. The thought went through my mind that we probably didn't need him to *****, but honestly I was a little curious and without hesitation he pulled off his briefs.

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He immediately started pulling on his **** to make it grow just a little bigger, he obviously wanted us to see he had a decently sized ****. I tried not to look, or at least look like I was looking, because I didn't want him to get the wrong idea. But he was staring at my eyes, not looking away. It felt like he wanted me to look and he wanted to catch me peeking.

At first I felt very awkward that he was naked while me and the others were fully clothed and I was pointing a camera directly at him. But it became less awkward when I realized that he was quite comfortable and was, in fact, enjoying it. 'It's okay, you can look at my ****' he said, which surprised me. After that I couldn't help but look, he grabbed his **** again which had grown slightly since he pulled it out and he stood proudly with it hanging between his legs. It wasn't awkward anymore but quite a funny situation.We finished shooting the scene and he jumped out of the shower. He hung out in the nude for a while before he got dressed.

It's funny, amongst my current group of friends I have a reputation of being overly comfortable with nudity and stripping off at parties etc. But thinking back to that day, I found it quite impressive seeing someone so eager to ***** off in front of their friends and show everything.

 

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FixUpLookSharp says:
... What's wrong with prancing around naked!?
Posted on 08/18/2008 at 12:20 pm EST



Rye3111 says:




Leonhardtx, i think its meant more in the sense of staring, not just glancing.


I'm agreeing with MH on the staying naked too long, and it does tend to be the older men. Leon, look, comfortable or not, I just don't see a reason to be hanging out naked in the locker room. Nobody is saying that you need to do speed dressing here. But, and I've been seeing this my whole life, there's some older men at my gym who will dry off at their locker, and then walk over to the blow dryer, still naked, and do their hair for 5 minutes, while being naked the whole time. Why not wrap the towel around yourself? Why not toss on your underwear? It seems like a lot of men there just really like to go out of their way to be really naked for a really long time.
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Leonhardtx says:
P.S.: I know the article reflects the thinking of many young guys. I see the fear and defensiveness in them nowadays, and that's why I get steamed about this kind of talk. When I was a kid, a guy felt very comfortable in the locker room. Now you'd think it is one of the most dangerous places a guy can go.
I don't have kids yet, but I don't want my sons to acquire this kind of fear and defensiveness. They will know how to protect themselves from gay or pedophile predators, and otherwise they will be happy to be themselves in masculine environments.

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Posted on 08/18/2008 at 9:58 am EST




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Leonhardtx says:
I disagree with points 1 & 3 because they encourage fear, worry, and unmasculine defensiveness. We are full grown competent men, who can handle anything. But we are supposed to be afraid of other straight men in the locker room? Nuts.


We should be relaxed in a masculine environment. I don't encourage staring, but a glance at a guy's arms, abs, back, legs, or even his crotch isn't something to worry about. We're like dogs, naturally curious, and it's not gay to look at the obvious. It's not masculine to be fearful.


If a guy actually hits on another guy verbally he should be told off real fast. If he touches another guy, stronger action is required. Otherwise don't sweat it. We don't have women around to worry about, so we should be relaxed and natural, the way our fathers are.
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And For God Sake, DO NOT SIT ON THE BENCHES NAKED. PLEASE PLEASE PUT A TOWEL UNDER YOU UGLY BUTT!!!!!!!
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Leonhardtx says:
I agree again, at least in part, with Rye3111's comments. Wandering around naked so much is weird and unnecessary. But I don't want to let myself feel threatened by that, because nothing is actually happening. I'm not going to let the weird behaviour of others control how I feel. In that sense I like T. Oguy's approach. Let's be comfortable and not defensive. But I have no intention of wandering around nude all the time.
If that's what Rye1111 meant too, then I agree with him entirely. Very useful comments, at least for me.

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Posted on 08/18/2008 at 9:08 pm EST

Rye3111 says:
The stuff we're talking about is, getting out of the shower, staying in the common area naked, walking back to your locker naked, getting your toiletries naked, walking back to the mirror/sink naked, taking 15 minutes to shave and do your hair naked and basically doing whatever it is you can to be naked until the very last minute.
I know this may be an exaggeration in a sense, but honestly it really seems that way.


It doesn't bother me in the least with respect to how comfortable I am, I guess I just think its weird. I mean its still a public place and it really seems like these guys just love being all sorts of naked in the locker room around other men
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Rye3111 says:
T.Oguy I think you're missing hte point. In my mind being naked in the locker room shoud have nothing to do with how comfortable you are. Let me use an example. I played varsity lacrosse in college. We were a pretty tight group, and pretty crazy and immature. There were plenty of retarded things going on in the shower like guys pissing on each other when they weren't looking or making jokes/stupid comments about somebody's piece. Yeah I know we were all meatheads.

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Anyway, point being though, once the shower was over, generally guys covered up at their locker. Not fast, just eventually. It wasn't uncommon to walk through our locker room and see a dozen guys naked at their locker, but chances are they all just got out of the shower and they were all in the process of getting dressed.
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T.Oguy says:
Leonhardtx, I agree that guys should be more comfortable in the locker rooms and even myself have often shyed away just keeping my head down and changing as fast as possible to just get out. I think part of it could be atributed to a man's school years. In the past students were told to go "hit the showers" and now a days kids are told to get changed and out as fast as possible not using the facilities.


Reading some of the comments I think when I start going to the gym again this fall I'll try to be less nervous in the locker room because its not meant to be a tense place and if we all would care a bit less it could be a bit more of a comfortable experience.
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someguy says:
If you feel the need to walk around the locker room completely naked, your a moron. Its a public place, just because there are no females in the area doesnt make it ok to run around naked. At my gym, there is always the same guy that I think just likes to be naked. He gets out of the shower and stands in front of the mirror and gets ready for work. Brushes his teeth, shaves, does his hair, etc. Thats just wrong man. Put a towel on for christ sakes and cover up. I dont expect you to get dressed right away but I dont think its to much to ask to cover up while you are at the sink.
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Leonhardtx says:
Thanks Rye3111. Your comments sheds some light on this. You are right -- I personally don't wander around naked after a shower, usually put a towel around me or my boxers on, and then shave.


I know what you mean about really old guys wandering around naked, but it's never bothered me. That's part of the point I was making -- they don't seem to stare or even look, they're just really comfortable with their bodies and aren't fussed about being naked. Looks a lot better to me than the anxiety the younger guys seem to feel.


My guess is the old guys grew up in a time where homosexuality wasn't such an issue, and they have nothing to prove about their sexuality (had their kids, I sometimes hear guys like that talking about their grandkids). We should be so comfortable IMHO.
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Australia : ACT : Canberra
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Follow up: oneiric 11 Sep 2008, 20:07 I was caught by my straight flatmate once. I thought he was at work all day, and I was riding this guy in my bedroom which is right off the entry hall, and I didn't close my bedroom door. so when he came home for lunch he looked in and closed the door for me. I was so embarrassed, but not as much as the guy I was bouncing on ​

 

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Follow up: a1britguy 11 Sep 2008, 18:25 was never actually caught - which is suprising cos when I lived with my parents, it was all I ever seemed to do - wank, wank, wank, lol ​

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Follow up: mikewnnz 11 Sep 2008, 19:57 Was caught by my brother a few times & my mum & dad - Guess i was a chronic masturbator and didn't really care about getting caught ! ​

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Original posting: dick1 10 Sep 2008, 08:48 Have you ever been caught masturbating, or having sex while growing up at home?

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Follow up: sjersey 10 Sep 2008, 11:52 Yes, my brother was entering our bedroom as I was exiting to the bathroom, covered in my own cum, he kept asking me what I was doing. Then I had to jerk off with him to prove him wrong.

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Follow up: Uncle Bob 11 Sep 2008, 00:38 once by my mom

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Germany : Niedersachsen : Hannover
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Follow up: Jax 11 Sep 2008, 18:13 I got caught by my dad once while jerking off and had a few close calls with my brother though he knew exactly what I was doing. Once or twice he actually caught me and kept looking for a couple secs.

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Finally a regular older handsome man spotted me and I really like what he does, just groping me, fondling me and spreading me while others watch. We tried different places and a wide variety of men there saw all they wanted as he touched and groped me while he was fully clothed.

Finally I came in front of him and 4 other guys watching and jerking off along with me.
Also I have been going to the front where the main restrooms are and pass by the older men that work there fully naked letting them watch all they want.
Later on Sat that was another story , a 38 year old married man that met online came over. He was kind of nervous, but we ended up naked in bed jacking off each other, and fingering each other until we came. He really liked it.






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Part 1 A mutual interest in gay incest with one of my online friends whom I visited in March 2016.


Damn.. one of the pics uploaded by a friend (Abe J) to the Daddy-Son Tribe is shown to the left. The photo actually looks a lot like him. Most all of the pics there are really nasty, and and the existence of

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that tribe is really hot! I am a big fan of Hand Jobs magazine - they also publish a monthly collection dad/boy coach/athlete stories - which I really love reading. (See note about Hand Jobs below)


It really cool that one of my friends is attracted to the idea -- I would love being his 'part-time' daddy - some time soon I hope - although I don't really fit the bill as a buff, mustachioed, bear-type daddy.

Actually, Abe and I finally met up this year in Florida, where he now lives. He took me to his favorite public, but deserted, beach, and he fucked me twice while I stayed at his place. It was great finally getting to me him and to have a mutual attraction. While it was not incest - by any means - it sure felt great to be made love to by a guy young enough to be my own son. I'll always treasure that experience and hope that we will be able to meet up again someday.




See the link: Hand Jobs magazine http://www.hjmag.com/handjobs
[Note: Hand Jobs magazine has shut down. So you can no longer enjoy its great content: stories and drawings. ]


One of their favorite publications is the Daddy Bedtime Tales series.

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If you can't buy them in a local bookstore, you can also order then online (or download the PDF version for a fee). I'll be happy to deliver some directly to your doorstep one of these days.. or you can come to visit me on the Big Island and we can read the stories together (smile)... and then we can have fun playing daddy and son (screwing around on the beach and everywhere in between (LOL)..

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That is really so hot.. I'm not really at the point that I ever tell anybody I'm into fantasies about sex between a father and son (or nephew/uncle) but those male sexual/romance scenarios really get me aroused... I think that's one reason that CMNM is so attractive -- that kind of nudity (without it necessarily resulting in any actual overt sexual behavior) is likely to happen when the partners know each other well.. or when there is an authority or control/dominant factor involved.




Part 2 Ass Friday's Adventure

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[This is a posting by Brad] posted previously the DF phpbb on July 29, 2008

So I wanted to head to the regular sex club I go on Friday afternoon and hang naked, while mostly everyone there is clothed and older than I am.

This Friday though before that i went to this guy's house who wanted to video tape me, mainly my ass he gave me a rim job while he was tapping it and his buddy was watching it online.


Then I walked a couple blocks to the sex club, I stripped naked, the guys that work there already know me and check me out too.

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I had three experiences there, the first in the patio, a guy and I were jacking off. He wanted to sniff my ass so I spread my cheeks while he went at it and eventually came.


Later a young dude, very nice looking and muscular, was really taken by seeing me all naked and erect, so he started following me and we ended up upstair. He pulled his pants down and we jacked each other off. He had a great ass so I wanted to rim it and finger it but he was nervous; however, he came a big load.
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Self-Realizations #1 April, 2010 Sun, April 4, 2010 - 4:59 AM





Self-Realizations #1 April, 2010


I can feel myself getting older - but perhaps I'm getting wiser, too. I am starting to fear less that time when I won't be 'attractive' anymore because it is slowly dawning on me that I'll still be attractive to some people because of a couple of simple reasons:


1) As I get older, so do a lot of other people. So their perceptions also change as do their tastes and attractions. So even I fear losing my hairline or getting a droopy chin or sagging neck, there are also a lot of men my age and even younger who are aging even faster (or at least at the same rate).

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2) Real beauty is only skin deeper.


3) Great sexual stimulation does not always involve penetration and cumming in a hole.


4) Good photography can work wonders! (lol) and so does makeup and face-lift, but I'll think I have to do without the latter two.


5) There is a lot to be said about being admired, respected and even adored by a horde of younger men who see me more and more as a father figure-type guy whom they would like to emulate.

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As I sit here and ponder over your great words of truth and wisdom, i realize that as we grow older, we indeed become wiser and even our bodies become more and more sensitized to the sensual pleasures of intimacy, many on entire new levels, which I love so much in my own body. When I turned 40, I felt a wonderful change of a more mellow personality and taking less for granted in my daily life, appreciating the material world less and less has really helped me to grow and deepen my own maturing rite of passage...
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You might take a look at QueerClique.com - it's the social network for **********.com - one of the largest commercial gay porn blogs. Personal blogs entries can also be shared on the QueerClique Magazine (when permission is granted by the admin at the time you create the blog entry).

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By the way, it is almost universal to be able to simply copy and paste. And for most sites, you can also copy the HTML code (switch from Compose to HTML mode in Blogger) and paste the HTML into blog entry editor on another site (You need to open the HTML code window first). That way you don't have to do any re-typing, the original formatting and even photos are retained. You are left simply with the job of tailoring the content to a different audience - in some cases. I guess I am personally intrigued by the 'technical' aspects of the Internet use and blogging (information sharing) so these capabilities also inspire me, too. Reaching a bigger audience can be a boost to a writer's creativity or enthusiasm.

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Finally, I think the initial drive that started you writing this blog may not be the same one that urges you to do so now. You are growing up and likely changing your perspective on things - like your own self-identity, your own confidence ad experience with sex, the nature of the relationships you want or are involved in, and the pattern of your responsibilities, so it's only natural to change. Look what happened to James. It seems to have been somewhat a passing phase for him to be a regular blogger. He's moved on to something else - more likely someone and something else take up most of his time. The same might happen to you -- to some degree. I think we all grow and evolve as writers - perhaps in tandem to the way we do so as human beings.

Of course, we'd all hate to see you give up blogging.

Sounds like a long fatherly
lecture... Answering your request inspired me to respond - which I find may turn into a separate blog entry I might find useful elsewhere. You can see how I am evolving -- mainly, just aging now (ha ha).


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Recently, Jo K. (a fellow blogger who hails from Norway) was asking for ideas to help him get back in the habit of blogging. I took time to respond in detail. So I'd decided to post the ideas here for everyone's benefit who's had trouble keeping up with the task of blogging or who feels at loss of ideas for blog articles. I hope my advice helps when you are looking for an idea or need a little bit of a jog to get your writing started.
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As for me, I don't think every post has to be about some great sex adventure - although that's probably been one reason your blog has become popular. However, I'd love to hear the everyday things too. I don't just mean the 'everyday sex', but how life unfolds - its simple pleasure and sometimes, its frustrations, and disappointment. I know that it might seem like you're letting us down by not writing a hot 'His Story of Sex' entry, but who's going to complain.

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It's a lot better than hearing nothing for weeks or months at a time.
So maybe you can designate some entries as just "Jo's Update for Saturday" etc..., and put the mundane stuff there.


Surely, during the months between August 30 and now when there were only a couple of entries, you must have been doing something that was fun, funny, or noteworthy for some reason - even if it had really nothing to do with sexuality.

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I know what you mean about having to be in the mood to blog, especially about sexual topics. Actually, that is one thing that differentiates between blog writers and blog readers. It's really about the writing and how we are inspired to tell a story or speak our minds on some topic or issue, or the drive to inform ourselves and others.


In reality, most blogs don't last very long - much less than a year. Blog writers are actually a fairly rare breed - even to just keep one going.

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It's not all that easy to write or to do so on a consistent basis - so don't be too hard on yourself. I get around that writer's block and those gaps in inspiration by posting naked photos -- admittedly a cheap way to instantly produce as 'blog entry'. I think you are too be applauded for never having resorted to keeping up your blog with photo entries, or populating it with abundantly available porn. [Of course, I'm trying to keep up 7 or 8 blogs at once so I can make up that excuse - I guess.]


I do sometimes re-post other people's stories. At times, I have had volunteer contributors to one or more of my blogs. I tend to add representative photos to them so 'spice up' the already provocative story. I also follow discussions on various gay forums so that often provides me with some issue that I find I can get worked up enough to write about. I often include the portion of the discussion from the other participants that has generated my desire to speak up.
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Kelly 'Sunbuns' said...
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One thing that helps me is to do cross-posting - putting the same blog entry on several locations. It helps inspire me a bit to have a lot of people read it (at least, my imagining that they do - even if I don't actually know that for a fact or even if there are no comments).


I belong to quite a few online gay groups and sites and so a 'good' entry gets posted in a variety of places.



It will help you get re-inspired to take some of your older entries from previous years, and post them to places such as Facebook, JustUsBoys, GayWatch, Xtube (yes, each member has a blog space), Tribe.net, QueerClique, etc. Often you can make use of RSS feeds to put the content from Blogger directly into your profile/blogs on other sites.





I know you're no longer a member, but Facebook has had to change the way it administers its policy on sexual content. Nude photos are not allowed - normally in public, but there is a lot that can be done with text and cleverly cutting photos.)

 

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Follow up: hottrodd7 15 Jun 2009, 18:28 Hanging out naked is the best! Even better with buds! The whole hard-on thing soon goes away as it just starts to be so natural to be naked. Pretty soon---you aren't even thinking about it. Be careful though---it's addictive! The more you're naked the more you WANT to be naked!!! LOL ​

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Follow up: dogguy§ 10 Aug 2009, 06:19 Love hanging out at the beach nude, nude holiday resorts are great. Like camping/hiking nude. Just walking in the door and dropping the clothes is a natural thing unless I "have" to put clothes on for company/guests....

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Follow up: eseone§ 19 Aug 2009, 14:36 Love being Naked and around other Guys it's Great. There seems to be a barrier between people that is dropped. Luv it I just don't get to do it enough. ​

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Follow up: Nakedmatt 20 Aug 2009, 04:48 Love being naked as much as possible! Especially outside, and if other guys are involved even better! ​

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Follow up: hottrodd7 20 Aug 2009, 17:18 I agree with Nakedmatt--being naked outdoors is the best--and with other naked guys is awesome. Doesn't have to be a sexual thing (can be if you want), but just a bonding thing. I'm going to Hillside campgrounds next weekend--I plan on being naked all weekend long! Can't wait!

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Follow up: oakley 20 Aug 2009, 23:23 love hanging naked with guy or guys. NOTE from editor: This last respondant, Oakley, is one of the guys who told me about the Naked Disco event that happens at a London gay club the 3rd Friday of every month. ​

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Follow up: NewdInFl 11 Jun 2009, 09:53 "Male bonding is best done nude." - Gay Naturist International Nudists in general are a very friendly community. Being naked with others breaks down so many barriers. ​

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Follow up: briefs6335 11 Jun 2009, 20:54 It has been a while since I've had a chance to hang out naked and I miss it. too bad we are so hung up on nudity in the US and there are not more nude beaches. ​

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Follow up: Bklynplay 12 Jun 2009, 08:41 never had the real opportunity...use to go to a gay campground that was clothing optional but was too shy to walk around naked

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Follow up: tomcanx 12 Jun 2009, 08:54 I would love to try it out..but the truth of the matter is I am to conscious of my body...I think that is the problem a lot of people have with being generally nude in a non-sexual environment. But I would love to hang out and just be naked and not care. ​

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Follow up: nakedinma 12 Jun 2009, 09:58 I host a naked movie nite in the winter, and go out to naked swimming holes in the summer. ​ Love to just hang out naked.

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Follow up: Dic 12 Jun 2009, 11:11 I used to hang out with about 10 guys and just get some sun. Some would have on swim trunks and the rest of us would be buck ass naked. ​

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Follow up: RonnieG 13 Jun 2009, 14:06 Nude pool parties are cool and nude beaches. It is not always sexual, even if I get a little aroused from time to time.

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Follow up: flashguy 14 Jun 2009, 05:51 Yep i just love being naked. As soon as i get home from work i'm naked for the rest of the evening.. On my days off work i'm naked all day. unless i have to go shopping. I do enjoy being naked . ​

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Original posting: lexington3 11 Jun 2009, 04:16 Hanging naked is fun. You don't have to be a nudist to enjoy. Anyone feel the same way? It's a pretty low stress way to meet up. ​

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Follow up: TKNAKED1 11 Jun 2009, 08:09 Love just kiking back naked. Used to hit a beach / campground near Santa Cruz many times till is closed a couple years ago. This pic, I believe, is from one of our last trips. Man that was a GREAT trip. I'll be naked at home and if my buddy drops by he either sheds his clothes or it's no big deal for me to stay naked. ​

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Follow up: nyce2awl 11 Jun 2009, 08:09 I think hanging out naked is so damn great. So freeing and liberating (same thing?!). Wish I could do it all the time. My problem is that I'm turned on by being naked and almost always have a hard-on...is that REALLY a problem? ​

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Follow up: lexington3 11 Jun 2009, 09:25 ​ nyce2awl, Everybody thinks that and its natural and shouldn't be anything to worry about. As you get used to doing it (hanging naked non-solo) you'll become more comfortable and it will not be the problem or issue you think. If you meet guys into it randomly on-line the experience is apt to be more sexual so.. I resisted going to naked things for the same reasons. Guess what it really wasn't an issue. (notice I didn't say a "big deal") LOL, Enjoy! ​

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C. Facebook changed it's privacy policy about a few years ago.

1. Now it's possible to upload photos that can only be seen by the specific people you allow. However, at this point, I do not trust Facebook to keep its word about this policy.

So far, I have not uploaded many naked photos of myself in Facebook.

But I really enjoy using it to stay in touch.

http://www.facebook.com/sunbuns

(of course, I also have another Facebook account for my 'real self' - the married college professor father)

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2. Facebook Pages:
It is also possible to create a Facebook Page, which is managed separately from your FB profile. It can be private or public, and it seems that some level of nudity is allowable (No erect cocks or sex acts in any photos - but simple aesthetic nudity seems acceptable. )

https://www.facebook.com/guysn2cmnm
(It only appears if you are logged into Facebook).

D. There are plenty of gay sites and also quite a few iPhone applications where you can create a profile and have public and private pictures.
1. One of favorites is Dudenude.
http://www.dudesnude.com

http://www.dudesnude.com/members/9156/

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You can see all my PUBLIC photos but not the ones I have made 'private.' There is a password that is needed in order to view those. There is a limit (about 25 I think) to the total number of photos you can upload on your DN (dudesnude) profile.

You can choose whether or not to allow this profile to be published or not, and which photos will be private or public. There are ten of thousands of members of Dudesnude.com from all over the world. So it's popular with the gay population.

2. Manjam is another site:
http://www.manjam.com/sunbuns

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(You can't see all the photos until you log in).

F. Iphone Apps (and probably for Android, too).

Gay.com A4A Radar Manhunt Krave U2nite
GayVox buddy Hanky Atraf Hookd
Ottr HardlineChat SilverDaddies Just Men
Wapo Zank Teaze Outlife Circle
Dicky andG Coolio Cruising Seed
Gay Connect Bro Maleforce Grrr Men of Men
Kiki MeetMe MeetMarket Popp (fastr)
Twoo GayNow Digsso ManCrush Mamba
Luster HeyGay Guys Hickey WhosGay
Lollipop Dandy NoPicNoChat datingGay Pink
Jack'd 9Monsters Getmale Recon Hatten
Annex Moovz Fridae Tyte Musclr
JockZone Grunt Gaydar Daddyhunt Romeo
Mr X BoyAhoy Scruff Hornet GuySpy
Grindr VGL jokr Surge Randy
Shuggr Cruzr Menchd Deepr FitGorillas
Nearox Cybermen Stunr Twinkle Frenlizt
blobox Blendr NoName GayXchange WhoQ
GayChat LocalSinGay BoxBor G Strangers

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OK.. that was MUCH more information that you probably needed or wanted to know.

Let me know your other (or bisexual/gay) 'email' address, then I can send you some invitations to view my hidden sites or photos.

Kelly

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2) Goggle also has a similar site: Picasa (Google Photos for saving and sharing photos).


The photos you uploaded into your 'Out here' blog were uploaded also into a folder in the same Blogger account - but since you may have deleted it completely they might not be there anymore.
You can make each folder public or private. You can send invitations to people (like me) who will be able to view you private pics (but no one else can).

3). One site I enjoy is Tribe.net (Currently Tribe is down, but it should be up and running in a few days May 20, 2016).

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It's not for just gay people - but there are all kinds of people from countries all over - but there are also a lot of men who are gay. In Tribe, you can create your own profile and add photos, a blog, and other stuff (pretty simple); you can also join (or create) your own tribe group - where members can share photos and have discussions privately. Only people you admit as 'friends' will be able to see your private photos (or the photos in a private group). There are many tribes that are related to sexual interests but NOT only those kind.

I will also send you an invitation to join Tribe.net (after I know what email address of yours I should use to invite you.) You can see my Tribe.net profile here (but you can cannot see my own 'private' naked photos - until I make you my 'friend' on Tribe.

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http://people.tribe.net/sunbuns

4) Inside some sites, you can upload some private photos and then only your 'friends' can view them.

There are both gay and non-sexual sites .. such as

A. Tumblr is another site where you can upload photos (or yourself or others) although there is not way to let only friends to see them. Still, if your Tumblr blog remains 'unknown' then few people can actually find it - except those whom you invite to view it.

I've had dozens of different Tumblr blogs over the years and the vast majority have been deleted -- supposedly because of some posting infringement. I'm not sure exactly why but all of my Tumblr blogs have just disappeared (been deleted and m.y account suspended by the Tumblr company). Currently, I have started a few more -- and am happily posting my own nudes as well as some of the ubiquitous gay porn.

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My current Tumblr blogs are listed below:

http://bumboiz.tumblr.com
http://seefallus.tumblr.com
http://anextraleg.tumblr.com
http://cmnmguys.tumblr.com
http://gayhorizons.tumblr.com

B. LiveJournal http://www.livejournal.com

If you want to post a blog (which includes nude photos of yourself), you can also do so at Live Journal. Creating a free account is quick and easy. Your blog should be 'protected' from young or the unsuspecting by listing it as 'Mature Audiences Only' when you set it up. Each post can be designated as 'protected' or as complete open.

I have two blogs on Livejournal:

http://sunbunz.livejournal.com/
http://nudewithclothed.livejournal.com/

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