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Hey Guys.
I was just wondering, if you are with a guy (who is clean of STI's and healthy) is it okay to swallow his cum/ pre-cum after giving a blowjob, or during sex? Is swallowing your own cum a safe practice? Just curious... Thanks in advance.
 
Your own is safest, sure---how do you know the other guy is free of std's?
 
It's a hypothetical question... I'm just 19 and I just came out... I'm looking at starting a relationship some time in the future and this is just information I was curious about.
 
If it's a monog- situation and been together for a while, yeah should be fine. But I would NEVER --EVER with someone new. Maybe after 6mo or so.
If your nineteen, I think you want to live a long time, so if you come up to that situation, just taken a few seconds and really think about it.

remember your only talking about your own life-- right, Think 1st is it really worth it.


How do you know he is STD Free-------------because he just told you he was. And you would bet your life on it.

Please be carefull.
 
Thanks for the advice. I'm so glad you posted because that really puts it into perspective. Thanks! :-) Just one more question... what do you do about pre-cum? Isn't is always coming out of your penis while you give a blowjob? Thanks again.
 
yay for internet advice!! NOT!

The risk in relation to swallowing cum relates only to HIV.

For all other STIs the risk relates simply to sucking. Cum or no cum.
 
Sex expert Sue Johanson said something that I took notice of.
What if you brush your teeth and you get a 'micro cut' that you dont realise. Then you give a guy a blowjob. You could catch it that way
 
The STD/STI with the biggest increase among gay men? It's syphilis.

Last year, about 65% of the cases of syphilis in the US were in gay or bisexual men. Ten years ago, gay men accounted for only 5% of the cases in the US.

Everyone focuses on HIV but the highest risks for oral sex in gay men is syphilis and gonorrhea. And I suspect some of the research around oral cancers is going to conclude that HPV is responsible for the recent increases in oral and throat cancers.
 
What about if they use drugs? What kind of risks are involved then? My current seems to be using coke again and i'm wondering if I should cut him off?
 
the risk of swallowing semen or precum is a VALID factor for std's
and that accounts for HIV as well the risk is estimated to be 1/50000 to as high as 1/2500 so its is down as LOW risk but NOT no risk as per this paper from oz
http://gateway.nlm.nih.gov/MeetingAbstracts/102243351.html

so if ur gonna be fooling around with someone unless its a longterm thing and an EXCLUSIVE thing and u have both gone together to get checked and ur both clean and free of all sorts of delightfull little surprises is a NOOOOOOOOO
 
What about if they use drugs? What kind of risks are involved then? My current seems to be using coke again and i'm wondering if I should cut him off?

That's a tough call. Drug use definitely increases your risks for STDs. That's two reasons (imo). One, is the needle sharing (although coke generally is snorted so not an issue, but who's to say it stops at coke). The other is the fact that being high on drugs lowers your inhibition and you're more likely to do things (unprotected sex with strangers) that you wouldn't do without the drugs.

Personally, I think I would cut him off. I've had multiple friends over the years use drugs, quit, reuse etc. When they're using, I generally make it clear that I'm not ditching them b/c I don't like them, but rather b/c it's too hard for me to watch them throw their life away. And that I'll be there for them if they ever decide to change that behavior. But it's not easy, so I can't say what to do for you. I wish you the best.
 
Things happen and guys cheat.

How would you feel if you found out your partner cheated (even if it was a moment of stupidity on his part)? He gets infected and then you do. Its not worth it
 
no the only time to swallow is when your in a long trustwothy relationship but when you get there believe me its good
 
It's a hypothetical question... I'm just 19 and I just came out... I'm looking at starting a relationship some time in the future and this is just information I was curious about.

Where do you live? I had sex ed in 8th grade and we talked about oral sex and STDs. The same thing was taught in highschool.

I apologize if my answer is rude, but the answer to your question is common sense (although if you're from the south (U.S.) I would understand why you have no knowledge of this).
 
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