Taking the next step ... Advice me pls

[rareboy]

Oh fuck him crazy and just enjoy it for what it is.

 

[lifeisamazing]

I praise what 02 had to say....its some good stuff.

I would add....be plain and simple, ask him on a date. 3 months is long enough to allow most shallow and deep wounds to heal.

I would confront him, bit the nervous tounge, and ask him on a date whether to dinner and movie or just something that you feel totally comfortable with. However, no matter what you do, I am sure you're going to be amazing!


Keep us posted!

 

[skaterboi]

if you're too nervous to make a move or do soemthing, go on a night out get totally wasted (make sure hes drunk as well) and just go for it, you'll be necking on in no time

 

[3nipples]

You already know that he's gay. Why do you think he would freak out if you told him you were interested in him?

The various seduction advice in some of the earlier posts sound lame to me. IMO the means corrupt the end. Stay honest and respectful.

 

[Ninja108]

Be honest and ask for maybe a night where the two of you can hang out. Get to know him better and at some point, tell him how you feel. Maybe he'll feel the same way

 

[skaterboi]

Baaaaaaaaaad idea.

why is it?

 

[confusedboy23]

3 months is long enough to allow most shallow and deep wounds to heal.

Well, I'm really not sure if this is accurate all the time. It took me far longer than 3 months and I guess it will always be each to their own. I'd be more keen on spending more time with him in person and just hanging out, doing stuff - just so that both could get to know each other better. Letting him know that you 'like' isn't too bad an idea anyway.