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Talking about gaydar

I just observe people. In most cases, there's always something a guy will eventually do (body language, things said, the way he talks, things he likes, etc.) that will give him away. To me, anyway. Most everyday people don't pay attention or keep an eye out, but I think gay guys are always paying attention to other guys to see if they can spot their 'own kind', for lack of a better way to put it. But we know what to look for most of the time.

However, not all guys are obvious. I have a gay friend who's kinda the 'macho cowboy' type. He's gorgeous, has poor women flocking around his feet (which, of course, he never pays attention to except to be nice) and when he tells people he's gay, it floors them. They're like, "Dude, no way."

So even guys that don't appear to be gay can be.

Just look for signs. That's about all I do. I'm never brave enough to just walk up to somebody. But then I'm not out looking for it every weekend, either. If it lands in my lap, it lands in my lap. I don't go scouting, mostly because I don't WANT a relationship right now. But sometimes the best relationships are the ones you never expect to happen.
 
jetsonboy said:
Ask him if he likes Madonna.
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hahaha...

How about asking him when he has a dick in his mouth??

Anyway, my gaydar failed me. Someone I knew for weeks, and I did not catch on all the signs.. although I did wonder.

Not actual indicators -

But I realised I was looking at a metrosexual - really dressed up guy.
Hang around girls, but never to date them.
 
There is no real way to tell. It's a myth.

When he puts your cock in his mouth, THEN you'll know for sure.

Oh, wait, I forgot some people here think you can mess around with a guy and still be straight.:rolleyes:
 
What are these so called "signs" to look out for? I'm just curious to know. I have this one friend who acts very gay sometimes (the limp wrist thing, the calling everybody dear thing etc..) I confronted him and asked him and he said that he's totally straight but he acts gay to get girls. He's 18 and in the last year of high school and says this is the new trend and that chicks find it hot!

anybody care to comment on this cause it has me baffled!!
 
Guys, Gals, Guys, Its ALL in the EYES. Watch his eyes... where they go to? ..When I saw this I read down to see how soon someone had said it. But no mention. Really if his eyes go for the basket/crotch/bulge then there is a 80 to 90 percent chance right there. They function subconsciously and usually a guy can harness his mannerisms and "act" straight and fool everyone but his eyes cant hide anything.
I love eyes...they are the all seeing, all doing part of what makes being gay so wonderful. The looks, glances, winks; are my favorite,stolen glints and flashes the eye candy and so so much more. Its all in the eyes!!! There! I hope you learn how to enjoy them as much as I do. It takes a while to learn how to observe. But the eyes are so powerful.
 
Gaydar is NOT a particular thing that you can tell a person, it's just a feeling you have..........sure, you can watch for the stereo-typical stuff like how he crosses his legs, how he holds a coffee cup, or even if he watches you when you go at a public restroom!!

People can give you signs to watch out for; but trust me, many of us have been hidden in the closet for so long that we developed traits that straights had; so that we could NOT be detected by our employers!

Military or former military people are most difficult to detect, I think, because of this hidden traits!

Use common sense, if you do NOT know if a person is Gay or NOT.....Do NOT "OUT" yourself by dis-closing your sexuality; because if he's NOT, you done made a BOO BOO!

Best thing I've found to do is to be a good listener, while also being a good talker as well.........IF you are careful enough, the other person will feel more comfortable with you enough to tell you and then the relationship or friendship will go on......

Be patient and the full-fillment will occur!(*8*) (*8*) :kiss: :kiss:
 
Make fun of him how gay he looks or acts. If he reacts angrily or denies it by laughing about it, he's straight, if he lowers his head and is ashamed, he's gay.
 
There IS actually some research out there that suggests that gay men will maintain eye contact with other men longer than straight men.

So, it isn't so much the "wandering eyes" that tell you, it's the sustained eye contact with you that suggest that there's a possibility.

That said, I'm not suggesting staring into another man's eyes just because he's hot and hoping he'll glance at you. But, if he glances and then sustains eye contact with you, it MAY be an invitation to explore.

Or, you may have an eye-ball bugger that he's just grossed out by.

A4A
 
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