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Talking to your parents about gay bars/clubs..

Now I have kind of the opposite viewpoint as many of you....

When I was first coming out I went to Omega, which has a clientele that is older (although I always left with younger hotties!) lol! I was always told how my kids would probably abandon me; how I should get used to living without them and not talking to them. I was terrified about coming out.

Fast forward nad a year ago I was at the gay club watching a drag show with my son, his wife, my daughter and her boyfriend, and my former step-son. They all had a blast; my step son and I later went to another gay bar. My daughter and "daughter #2" will be arriving tomorrow and we'll go to Apex tomorrow night along with the Washington Gay Men's Chorus on Sunday of "Nutcracker -- Men in Tights."

I haven't told them about bathhouses...and probably never will! lol!
 
thewiz said:
Now I have kind of the opposite viewpoint as many of you....

When I was first coming out I went to Omega, which has a clientele that is older (although I always left with younger hotties!) lol! I was always told how my kids would probably abandon me; how I should get used to living without them and not talking to them. I was terrified about coming out.

Fast forward nad a year ago I was at the gay club watching a drag show with my son, his wife, my daughter and her boyfriend, and my former step-son. They all had a blast; my step son and I later went to another gay bar. My daughter and "daughter #2" will be arriving tomorrow and we'll go to Apex tomorrow night along with the Washington Gay Men's Chorus on Sunday of "Nutcracker -- Men in Tights."

I haven't told them about bathhouses...and probably never will! lol!
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Woohoo!! (!) It's great aint it, Wiz. I love being able to do it, without feeling awkward or ashamed about it. Life is gooood. ..|
I don't think I'd let on about the bathhouses either, hahaha. There's one about 3 minutes walking distance from our house lol.
 
Everything my parents need to know about gay bars/clubs they learned while watching QaF with me every week. ;)
 
Sorry to hear you put them through such a painful experience! :badgrin: ^
 
I'm still recovering after taking my daughter and her best friend (my daughter #2) out while they were here.

We started out going to happy hour at Cobalt and having dinner at Level One. Ran into a bunch of my friends and others who I have played on sports teams (it was a fundraiser for gay DC Sports). The bartender -- Dave -- amused the girls and then other friends began buying shots.

From there we were off to a closing party and seeing a DJ friend at MOVA Lounge (it's moving and a new bar is coming in that caters to the gay crowd). My friend Timur introduced them to the shotboys (one of whom I have "seen" in the past) and they were in love with their abs. I chuckled as they kept running their fingers up and down the guys abs! Fortunately the Smirnoff Rep was straight and he seemed to very much enjoy the girls!

We finished the night at Town dancing away. The girls looked around at one point and asked, "Are all of these guys gay?" They had such sad looks on their face when I told them most probably were! They kept remarking how gorgeous the guys were and how nice the bartenders were to me (so I know most...)

We went ot the Gay Mens Chorus of Washington presentation and had dinner at Annie's and Mr. Henry's. Needless to say they loved DC and want to move here; I did tell them next time we'll go to some straight clubs (we did go to Mixtape at Rock and Roll Hotel so it was mixed).
 
From the sounds of things- gay bars are much more tame here in New Brunswick than the rest of the world. No fear of seeing someone getting spitroasted at our gay bars.

In Moncton, city bylaws state you can not even take your shirt off in a drinking establishment.
 
Why do I feel like I just read an advertisement for XXL in London?
 
ibill1 said:
Same here. Although I sometimes felt they adored my Steve more than me, but I liked it that way, although I know it wasn't really true. It always made me feel something special watching them gushing over him all the time.
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same, i haven't officially come out to them, but my dad knows. he makes jokes all the time. they used to love my BF back in HS. but we were just "friends"

haha i still remember the day my dad didn't knock!!! he slammed my door shut, then stood out side the door and was like "is he staying for pizza?"
we didn't look each other in eye for like a month after that

i don't think i could talk to them about gay bars, if i tried i can just see my dad making it into a big joke or something. and my step mom just making faces and pounding down glasses of wine. i haven't really been to many to even know what i'm talking about anyway
 
kevbo said:
This is nothing compared to "You remember my best friend from high school? Yeah, he's a drag queen now..."
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Better than "he's a tranny now".

LilBit said:
I've been known to ask my parents for advice about the best BDSM clubs.
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Better than "being known to have my parents ask me for advice about the best BDSM clubs".
 
loki81 said:
if my parents were divorced and single, I'd want to know as little as possible about where they go to get laid. I can only assume that the feeling is mutual.
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Indeed,while my parents have always been 100% of me,they have no interest in hearing about my hubby and I sex lives. The same goes for my straight siblings. Bedroom and hookup spots are not to be brought up at any time.
 
loki81 said:
if my parents were divorced and single, I'd want to know as little as possible about where they go to get laid. I can only assume that the feeling is mutual.
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Ninja108 said:
Indeed,while my parents have always been 100% of me,they have no interest in hearing about my hubby and I sex lives. The same goes for my straight siblings. Bedroom and hookup spots are not to be brought up at any time.
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Why must a club or bar be a hook-up/sex event!? For a start, I've got a boyfriend to go with.. Some people go to those places just to socialise and drink, have fun, etc.. I think you're both going the extra mile on assumption when you don't really need to, and kind of missing the point of my thread. It's not about hook-ups and whoring around venues, but simply myself wondering if people interact and talk with parents about your lives, and so forth. It's a light-hearted topic, sheeshh!
 
loki81 said:
what exactly does your mom think about the fact that guys get spit-roasted and hang out with cum on their face where you go to socialize and drink? ;)

I don't know what the straight equivalent of that would be, but I can't imagine a world in which I'd want to associate it with either of my parents.
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I can see I must go to the wrong gay bars and clubs....
 
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