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On Topic Discussion Taralen's 2018 Random Musings About Life...

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Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Nealm1 said:
Everyone should be free to chose their destiny.. be it a bathhouse or doing porn and whether straight or gay
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Nobody choses their destiny: everybody IS their own destiny.


Sheesh, that we still have to remind people about that.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

belamo said:
Nobody choses their destiny: everybody IS their own destiny.


Sheesh, that we still have to remind people about that.
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Haha - oh the philosophy!!!
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Taralen said:
In the same time, I don't want to be punished for not getting involved with that.
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how are you being punished and who is punishing you?
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

BuckyD said:
Are bath houses even a thing anymore? Most guys hookup on Grindr or find guys at the their local gym. Or at a gay resort or on a gay cruise if they have the money.
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They aren't, they are becoming quite rare actually between the health issues and that there are so many other ways to meet people now that Homosexuality is not forced to hide in the closet.
 
Re: Do you think Ex Gay/conversion therapy is okay?

Taralen said:
I suppose you're right. I would like to find love, and hope that there is a guy out there for me.

As I think most of me hating gay, is hating the fact I'm alone and not having a companion that loves me.

I feel ugly and unwanted.
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Been there, done that. You can either move on and get better or wallow in it and go nowhere. It can and does get better. I don't know how helpful it would be to you but one of the things that help me move through the times I feel down on myself is that no matter how bad things get for me there are others who are far worse off and if they can struggle through it so can I. You think being a lonely gay man is bad where you are, try being one in ISIS controlled territory.
 
Re: Is having a racial/body/personality preference preference okay?

Nealm1 said:
I never used to like beards - but the guy I'm with now has a beard :o)
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To me it wasn't being aware of it.

I used to always watch bear porn when I was in my Freshmen year of college, not thinking anything of it. Knowing I just prefer bigger men like that. I like opposite.
 
Re: Would you date someone much older/younger than you?

luckynumbah7 said:
I ain't getting anywhere nearer your unbalanced ass than font permits. No video, audio or otherwise.

As for the question, the one before you started whining about the lack of a boyfriend yet again; I generally go for my age or older.
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You don't have to emotionally be supportive/like me, in order to do something like that. It was just a suggestion, because everyone calls me this chronic lying android that doens't exist.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Stardreamer said:
They aren't, they are becoming quite rare actually between the health issues and that there are so many other ways to meet people now that Homosexuality is not forced to hide in the closet.
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I have to disagree. At least as far as Los Angeles is concerned, they are very much popular and booming with a handful of locations all run by separate management.

I think there was an episode of the gay drama/serial show called Noah's Arc (oh I hate that show ugh), where Daryl Stephens character is walking through one fully clothed for some reason lol. I remember that's when I first came into contact with something like that.

They are called gay nude saunas, and they have private rooms. Rules are that every guy has to be only wearing a towel. Bathhouse is kinda a more old fashioned term really.

They also have dark mazes and dark rooms as well in some clubs with gloryholes and stuff.

But at least here, they are still active.

Especially when I used to pass by one on a work commute I took at this job I had, I always saw guys of different types walking in and out.
 
Re: Do you think Ex Gay/conversion therapy is okay?

Stardreamer said:
I don't know how helpful it would be to you but one of the things that help me move through the times I feel down on myself is that no matter how bad things get for me there are others who are far worse off and if they can struggle through it so can I. You think being a lonely gay man is bad where you are, try being one in ISIS controlled territory.
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That's easy for you to say, as you are in a relationship.

That shit doesn't help at all. What the fuck.

I hope those guys that are also struggling hit me the fuck up. Lord knows I hit them up, and they don't want me. I want a boyfriend.

There are people worse? Like my situation isn't? You don't know my fucking story.

Especially being autistic myself, and open to date other gay men with or without mental disabilities. What the fuck? Being gay is tough, and being gay and alone is tough.

That third world country and their rules with homosexuality shit doesn't help. So I'm supposed to be better than them. That's supposed to make me feel happy? That my LGBT brothers and sisters in Africa and other places are being killed for being gay? What?

It's not any better here. At least in that case there is no getting your hopes up. Homosexuality is punishable by death, so don't it.

Here, it's out and be proud, but it's more bullshit added onto that, with the effects leading on this romance influenced west

What the fuck? Are you serious?

Why the fuck isn't gay conversion making more sense at this point?

I want a fucking boyfriend or gay conversion. I made my mind up.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

mikey3000 said:
Porn, any porn, is fantasy.
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Thats just how I see it. fantasy. Nothing more.
(note IMO you could also effectively replace the word "fantasy" with "video" .. same effect of 'not reality' )


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And as far as "gay for pay" ... if there's money to be made, there's someone out there, no matter what it is.
 
Re: Love spells/Voodoo Magic

Rickrock said:
Generally, I don't believe in that and don't believe that they work. At times I have wondered if sometimes a spell can be done by evil forces, like the devil, and does temporarily work, but in the end it has a bad ending.

I think I'll just go with no they don't work and never do one.
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I just think it's impossible to think magical things can't happen.
 
Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

How there are different events and media separating queer men based on their race as well.

Like how many of you guys know there is a black gay social media as well? Like why the fuck do we need that shit?
 
Re: Should LGBT/queer teachers be open to their students?

jjonn3 said:
No. A teachers sexuality, no matter what it is, does not belong in school.

They are there to provide information and learning and that should be the extent of it. If a teacher is gay or straight is something that should have no bearing on the class or the subject matter.
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I just had different experiences. All the teachers I had, gave hints to their personal lives. It just happens.

I remember one of my grade school teachers brought her youngest son to the class sometimes who incidentally happened to be the same age as us, as she wanted us to be more involved in her relationships and family life.
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Because if you have nobody to turn to for support, then what?
 
Re: Do you believe there is tension between masculine and feminine gay guys?

I think people should just respect people for who they are. I hate all this judgmental shit.
 
Re: Can gay and straight men be friends?

It's hard to find that connection with some straight guys, so therefore that's where is issues come up from.
 
Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

So that point that people make is invalid. It's no excuse for them to be straight up rude to you.
 
Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

That's also saying money is more important than being gay. Maybe to some people it is, that's okay. But in this age where we are told to be open and gay proud, that shit is a big ass contradiction if you ask me.
 
Re: Why is the gay community not accepting of alternative lifestyles/personalities?

Everyone has to act and be the same, I just don't get it. At all, I really don't.
 
Re: Why is mental illness taboo in the gay community?

Why is there no information about this?
 
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