On Topic Discussion Taralen's 2018 Random Musings About Life...

[Taralen]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

This is just so confusing to me.

 

[Taralen]

Re: How to handle rejection or disappointment in the gay community?

I really don't know the answer to that.


Basically just give up and let it go?

I wish it were that simple.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you think the gay community is ageist?

Do you think the gay community is ageist?

 

[Taralen]

Re: How you deal with a crush?

It's just so hard and depressing being in a situation like this.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Gift Givers/Bug Chasers

I don't think bug chasers really exist. Just silly teens who think they are invincible. It's the same age group that joins the army.

Now gift givers, these sickos are for real.

But aren't gift givers only giving the gift to people who want it though?

Where is the blame placed at?

 

[gsdx]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

It's also very rude to keep bumping up your threads over and over and filling the topics page with your threads.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Have you ever attempted suicide from being gay?

It's just sad how you go to those measures because the depression is that bad.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why is drug use so common in the gay community?

I love smoking weed and baking edibles.

Back when I was single, I actually hard a hard time finding other gay guys who smoked weed. Most were actually turned off when I asked them if they liked weed.

I actually can't stand alcohol at all.

I love liquor so much. It's so romantic. Especially Highballs, Martini's and Margaritas. Oh I wish I had a boyfriend to drink them with.

But tonight I'm gonna keep it hood because that's how I do, and go with some Malt Liquor. Yes.

But yes I love weed as well.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you think opposites can attract for love?

It just seems difficult to, based on the points I gave above.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Is there racism/discrimination in the gay male community?

Is there racism in the gay community in America? Well in any group of hundreds of thousands of people the answer if probably gonna be yes at least among a few but compared to most other groups in society gays are probably among the least racist because most gays have probably experienced some form of discrimination themselves. The problem is that people experience racism differently. Someone who is part of a visible minority may think that if he is rejected sexually it is because of his race whereas the person rejecting him may just not be that into him for reasons unrelated to race. I think it would be really really hard being an effeminate black male. Most gay guys I know are into black guys, I am personally in a long term relationship with a wonderful black guy and we know two other interracial gay couples, But an awful lot of gay guys are NOT into effeminate guys (weird I know but there it is.) If you are being rejected by a lot of other gays it probably has more to do with where you are on the feminine - masculine spectrum than your race.

But I think it's more of a racial issue as well. As I see many feminine white guys be accepted. I don't see many gay black men idolized in that sense. It's more being the worst out of everything. Being black, being gay, and being feminine.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Would you have a relationship with a guy in jail?

But I appreciate everyone's opinions on this though.

 

[seven2go]

Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Porn, any porn, is fantasy..............It's all fantasy.

Of course it's fantasy.
IF gay-for-pay didn't SELL nobody would be making it.
MONEY is the bottom line.

 

[Taralen]

Re: If you could take a pill to no longer be gay, would you take it?

That's the thing, I"m very much so romantic as well...but simple fact is also that I'm unfriendable (which by default also means unloveable), so they're polar opposites!
Being bi, I already have some attraction towards women (though I will also admit more strongly towards guys)
Going straight wouldn't fix the unfriendable/unloveable thing.

Getting rid of all feelings of love/attraction/romantic would basically make the 'unloveable' issue null and void.

Yeah, I mean I'd rather be straight, and take a pill to be straight/no longer gay.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

It's also very rude to keep bumping up your threads over and over and filling the topics page with your threads.

I wasn't done with the discussion.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

My only issue is, if a straight couple that's married with kids and truly in love with each other, and pleasuring each other. Like if it's an S&M theme or something. They both are into that stuff. The guy is performing S&M on the girl. Yet they are selling that shit online (so therefore it is technically porn.)

That can't be fantasy though right? Because it's not.

That's just them having sex and taping it.

 

[Taralen]

Why is the downlow/discreet thing so common?

This is a list of several topics I wanted to discuss that I feel people aren't really discussing in the queer/gay male community which are.

Why is the downlow/discreet thing so common?
Why is ghosting so common in the gay community?
Can you be gay and religious?

Just as an introduction as I know we all come from different backgrounds and situations and experiences, I am a gay African/Black American feminine man.

So in this topic, I'm asking why is the downlow/discreet thing so common in the gay community.

I ran into this gay documentary called on the DL. Here's the first part of it. The other parts are online as well.

I just want to know why is the downlow culture so common, especially with black men. I just don't understand that crap.

 

[Taralen]

Why is ghosting so common in the gay community?

This is a list of several topics I wanted to discuss that I feel people aren't really discussing in the queer/gay male community which are.

Why is the downlow/discreet thing so common?
Why is ghosting so common in the gay community?
Can you be gay and religious?

Just as an introduction as I know we all come from different backgrounds and situations and experiences, I am a gay African/Black American feminine man.

So in this topic, I'm asking why is ghosting so common in the gay community.

For those that don't know or are aware, ghosting, means when you are in the process of dating a guy, yet everything ends before it even starts.

This could be on a gay dating site to where the guy out of the blue for no reason stops talking to you, or blocks you.

Or you guys agree to go for a date, and he stands you up.

Or after what you feel was a good first impression, things just become radio silence, and you're left in the dark.

This does happen in the straight world, but not to this extent.

Why does this happen more in the gay community though?

I'm just so confused.

 

[G-Lexington]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

If you're the only one talking, it's not a discussion. It's a blog.

Lex

 

[HoodedRat]

Re: Why is the downlow/discreet thing so common?

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[HoodedRat]

Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

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