Teach me how to flirt or give that "I want you sign"?..

[Lewis1]

you know what ive found that appropriate touching works wonders

such as
putting your arm around them briefly

when sitting close to them resting your arm on their chair

the assured shoulder grabs
(usually when someone is sitting down walking up and putting your hands on their shoulders)

patting on the back

and there are times where you get the vibe they dont like or wouldnt be the type to be touched

find reasons to touch like complmenting on their clothing ppul are usually accepting of this

liek hey where you get these pants and tug on em or shirt or hat or whatever it is

offering to help them with something

thats all i can think of lol

 

[Lewis1]

oh and asking to hang out with him
kindof like a (i am up for whatever you up for) type of thing

and forcing commonalities
lying about what you have in common to mess with their brain such as viewpoints, a real brain twister for some is arguin about something and then agreing with them completly and telling them they were right
this makes them feel like leaders lmao


if you have real stuff in common thats awsome if not fake till you make it

 

[Lewis1]

OK, one time he had his hand on my desk and I put mine against his and it lasted a while.

I'm slow, so does it mean he might be interested? Would a straight guy move his hand away fast in that situation?

What should be the next step after?

it is hard to say

guys who are homophobic or confused about their sexuality will most likely pull away really fast

and guys who are secure with their sexuality it may not bother them but it could also mean that they are open to suggestions

you have to figure out which tier group he falls in

you have to become a private eye lmao iam kidding but yeah

 

[Lewis1]

sorry iam responding spraticly thoughts is just now coming lol

you really have to test him to the point where he may blatanly ask you are you gay lmao

using alot of subtle gestures of course DO NO SIT ON HIS LAP AND SAY SCREW ME rotf

 

[hotcbr]

I'd say the casual glances work...once you catch eyes, suck up your fear and continue by staring then smiling. If he's interested, he'll hold the stare and smile back. Good luck!

 

[Lewis1]

thats wack ^^ he is just going to get dubbed as having a staring problem and making the guy more uncomfortable and him pulling away lmao

 

[puka-pride]

eye contact and smiling

 

[G-Lexington]

I think you may be asking the impossible (but if it's any consolation, many people ask this same thing). Something along the lines of "I want the guy to know I'm interested in him IF AND ONLY IF he's also interested in me, but if he's not interested, he won't be weirded out by what I'm doing."

Sorry - no such thing.

Instead, just talk to him. Converse. Occasionally put a compliment in. "Where'd you get that shirt? You always dress really nice." If he compliments you back, you're on the right track.

Lex

 

[thermodynamics]

To me, the best way is to make eye contact, hold it for a while, then give him a warm smile while still holding eye contact. It's as good as you're going to get.

 

[rareboy]

and forcing commonalities
lying about what you have in common to mess with their brain such as viewpoints, a real brain twister for some is arguin about something and then agreing with them completly and telling them they were right
this makes them feel like leaders lmao [/QUOTE

This is the worst advice you could get.

Don't fuck with people's heads. It only makes you look like you're stupid or psycho child.

Thermo and the others have it right....and then see where it goes.

 

[SFMusic]

Go up and talk to him! Ask him questions and get him to talk about himself. If he is interested in you, he'll take the next step. If he doesn't take that next step, then he's probably not into you. I always say, it's better to know this sooner rather than later.