Techniques for Tops

[Kensei]

Well, this thread has got me going so I'll tell you the situation I'm in at the moment with a potential hook up who is apparently a "power bottom."

First off, I'm a virgin. 23 years old almost. I only had 1 boyfriend and that was very brief and sex was so awkward those 4 years ago I won't even call it sex. I was uncut until I received a partial circumcision 2 months ago where I had some foreskin removed from the tip of my penis. This was one of the best decisions of my life.

You see, when I was uncut, I couldn't pull the skin back at all when I was erect. Because of this, I was self-conscious and could never ejaculate with another guy because I felt zero sensation, thus, I avoided sex because I could never feel a blow job at all. I was so horny I was jerking off 4 times a day because of this (which is my average now.)

Fast forward to today, and my problem is the opposite. I own a flesh jack, and with my newly partially cut cock, I can't last more then 2 minutes! I know this is because its the first time my head is exposed and I'm feeling sensation and not just pressure, but damn, my eyes rolled back and I exploded into my flesh jack.

Now, this is my dilemma. This guy is experienced. What if I don't last more than 5 minutes with this hot power bottom? He's so cute, blond, about 5'10, slim, smooth, while I'm 6'0, 200 pounds, average build, more hair, Greek background, and horny as hell. The night I met him at the bar he works at (he wasn't working that night) he invited me back to his place, but I couldn't go because I was with a friend.

I'll pop a nut so fast for sure with him, not to mention I'm a virgin so I have no techniques. Although, I don't believe it'll be an issue because my sex drive will kick in. My buddy said to just take it real slow for the first few minutes, go in and out to loosen him while I adjust.

It's funny, because before I would feel so much pressure during sex to hurry up and cum. Now it's the opposite and try and last. Now,he's expecting a phone call from me within the next few days... don't know what to do, but damn, I do want to slam him so hard!

 

[trouvé]

We sure do

Hey BTW have you ever tried squating and holding him up in your arms? basicly fucking him while standing. My dude im fucking is 210lbs and 5'9 Im 180 5'11 So its pretty easy for me but
Then you just drop him on his neck with his legs still around ur waist with u still standing and just go for it..make sure u pound it good
I love recording it and watching myself do my thang hahaha...

I agree! I wanna see this recording, can you hook a brother up?

 

[Kyle3000]

yay! i'm going to try these

 

[7inchuncutguy]

i love to spread my cheaks with my hands so can get the bois cock in every little bit! and do the same to him!

 

[asianstudlover]

Yeah, ckryde - a good top knows how to take charge with his bottom buddy. It's a matter of using your whole body along with your dick to provide him with the pleasure of a good fuck. These two vids below demonstrate two tops taking charge:

The second is the perfect example!! its something about his athleticscim.

 

[breathe]

And the best part:
Those balls slapping the bottom's ass. Such a good feeling for both bottom and top.

 

[jmadaf]

I agree too, ball-slapping is a turn-on. In the first pic I don't like the hair pulling.

 

[wolfypdx]

I love it when my top slowly pushes his dick all the way, and then slowly pulls out completely, then repeat stroke after stroke. The sensation of having his cock first penetrate my ass, then go all the way in, and then pop out is delicious, and can be repeated over and over again. This works best early on during a fuck session - before my asshole has completely relaxed.

I'd love to have somebody fuck me, then leave it in for an extended period, and perhaps trying rubbing one out while he's in me.

 

[gaystorm]

You all are forgetting something very important. It is not just about sliding the cock in and out of the ass. The best is swivling hips to really hit the anus walls. Speed changes often help keep the bottom going and not knowing what to expect. Listen to his moans for what he needs. Tells of needing a pounding. In doggy, pull his hips back into you to push you length up in there. I can turn tops to bottoms.

 

[wolfypdx]

I love it when I get yanked backwards like that. Each time feels like a little orgasm.

 

[boombappa]

Those pictures are so hot Superboy69!

I love being a top and being in charge, and I like it when a bottom is active with me when I fuck him. I love it when bottoms push back when I fuck, so that my cock can get as deep in their butt as possible

I fuck for a good long time - no quickies, and I make sure that he cums first

Wow! Do you make him cum just from fucking him, or do you masturbate him? I wish I could make a bottom cum without touching his cock

 

[rickdboy]

The best way for my bf to satisfy me it to fuck me so that he feels good!

I agree with that. More than half my enjoyment is being there to take his cock and his cum. I feel so satisfied to have his cum in me and my partner often says , looking at my satisfied face. "the cat's got the cream then!". And I have.

 

[trojan80]

Many guys love to feel the balls of the top slapping into his ass, so I agree that it's good to switch up positions throughout the session and sometimes do doggystyle. It's also really animalistic when you sort of crouch behind his ass and hump him doggystyle like that. And that really gets the balls slappin'

I also like to flex my cock inside him when I first slowly ease in, to help him adjust as well as to feel the power of my dick inside him heh heh

"OMG" I wish U could do me 24/7. SLAP ON!

 

[sodeepithurts]

As a bottom one of my favorite things is the first penetration.. I love when he bends me over a couch or bed and lays his whole weight on me as starts to penetrate me.. that whole "oh my god its too much" panic goes threw my mind as he continues to push deeper till he bottoms out with that first push... that initial freakout just gets me soo twisted up thinking about it.. I love some big strong men getting what they want..

 

[paulo999]

Okay- I think that I have found a gif that demonstrates what Gaystorm is describing. Either way I find this Super hot! Click on the pic to see this top dude in action.

I agree - great fucking!

 

[texpatriot]

A question for my top bros- How long can your cock stay hard inside your buddy?

Like I said before, I don't like quickies - they just don't let me savor the act of fucking a guy. I'll share this one experience with you - let me know what you think:

Years ago, an old boyfriend (Gerry) and I used to spend a lot of time fucking. I would usually top him, but I also bottomed for him a couple of times. I remember one afternoon- in particular. We had finished fucking and cleaning up. I was still super horny and my dick was fully erect. We jumped back in bed, played around a bit, and ended up cuddled in a "spoon" position. Then, I asked him if I could insert my dick back into him, but without really "fucking". He agreed. So, I applied a small amount of lube and slowly maneuvered my dick in. But, I didn't pump or thrust. I just stayed hard inside him for a good long time: three - four hours! During that time, I played with his balls, foreskin, and nipples. And, I kissed and licked the back of his neck, his cheeks, and around his ears. We rested at times, talked, played, and just fucking had a great sensual time. When we were done, I just withdrew my dick which was still rock hard!

Anything similar, guys?

My best bud and I met up in New Orleans for a long weekend. We spent the afternoon making out in a bar in the French Quarter, then he looked me in the eyes and said, "I want you to fuck me."

While we we 69ing each other I gently took my fingers and began loosening him up.

At first he acted like he was in a lot of pain, but as soon as he was comfortable he rolled over doggy style and put his hot ass up for penetration.

I inserted and he asked if I had put on a condom. I told him "Of course." Which was true.

With my cock halfway in his tight hole I dropped some spit onto the shaft of my cock then slowly penetrated him in and out until he was sufficiently lubed.

He arched his back and I leaned into him so that I could put my arms under his shoulders as if I were going to start massaging his chest. He grabbed my arms and began hugging me, and I hugged him back as I kiss the back of his neck, and licked his shoulders.

I fucked him slow and deep for hours.

At one point I actually thought that maybe he had fallen asleep, or had passed out. That's when I asked him if he was "okay."

With his eyes closed he smiled and said, "I'm in heaven having you up inside me."

At that point my dick was so hard I could drive nails with it!

He flexed his tight hole to acknowledge how much more hard that I had become, and said "Don't pull out until I feel the condom fill up with cum."

OMG! I had been fucking my bud for HOURS at this point.

I whispered in his ear, "I"m going to give you a few hard deep thrusts, and my condom is going to fill up your ass."

He got that little shit eating grin that he gets and quietly said, "Go for it."

I had to grab the base of my cock and pull the condom out for fear that I'd spill five pounds of cum into his ass and all over the bed!

Once I took care of that he rolled over exposing his beautiful cock, and sucked him off as I knuckled the area between his ball bag and his hole. I left just enough of his nut in my mouth so that he could taste his own cum inside my mouth, and then we held and gently kissed each other until we fell asleep in each others arms.

*sigh*

Good times.

 

[jub20001]

This is a really hot thread.

I'm versatile and respond to whomever I'm with. I like to fuck smaller and younger guys and get fucked by older and larger guys. In either case -- and I'm sure I'm a minority with this -- I like for the bottom to be in some discomfort. I like for a top to be selfish and aggressive. His goal is to take a small, tight hole and to drill fuck it open so that when he's done, the hole is gaping wide. I love to watch porn where a bottom is struggling to take it and the top just keeps on going for his own pleasure. I also like seeing ass-to-mouth, where a bottom either sucks the tops cock clean after or between fuckings or when the bottom is spit roasted by two or more tops who take turns using his hole and mouth. Power bottoms actually turn me off. I hate it when the bottom demands that the top fuck him.

 

[breathe]

Fucked a guy last night... it had been awhile so it was so great. I also had a few days of cum saved up in me so that made it extra nice, even after the first round.

I love looking down at a guy's hole when he's in the missionary position... it gives such a hot view of my fat cock sliding in and stretching him out. I love that angle/view so much.

 

[jaybuoy]

As a bottom, here are a few tips for you tops.

Go slow and use plenty of lube even if they are experienced bottoms, theres nothing worse than when my boyfreind decides to just shove his dick in there, its painfull and can completly ruin the experience for me.

Mix it up but dont rush, theres no use staying in one position, it can get boring, as well as this dont just smash away, you have to make it interesting, try slow movements in and out then maybe pick up the speed a bit, then maybe try pulling your cock out and teasing the hole, and then putting it back in etc.

Work with the bottom, try and work out what they enjoy, when being bent over I love having my cheeks pulled apart, or my boyfreinds hands on my shoulders pulling me back and forward. Dont be scared to touch them, get as close as you can, hold each other, kiss each other.

Although putting all the above into practice may be more difficult. Its took me ages to get my chap well trained lol.

 

[handyman76]

I want to seduce a new guy and get him so horned-up that he's just going to give in to my lust to fuck a dude.

This was super hot. I'm ready!