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Tell or not to tell about your first time

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Hey guys,
I need your suggestion about first date.
I'm 28, had been dating for a while
but never had "sexual intercourse"](*,)
In case, I'll have sex with my bf
Should I tell him that I never been penetrate before? lol
Is that gonna turn him off?
And what I should do to make sex really good for both of us? :sex:lol

plz give me any idea
 
Insung said:
Hey guys,
I need your suggestion about first date.
I'm 28, had been dating for a while
but never had "sexual intercourse"](*,)
In case, I'll have sex with my bf
Should I tell him that I never been penetrate before? lol
Is that gonna turn him off?
And what I should do to make sex really good for both of us? :sex:lol

plz give me any idea
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Maybe I'm old fashioned but I usually don't reveal my entire sexual history on a first date. Or are you going to maybe sleep with him on the first date?
 
You don't have to perform any silly human tricks.
Do stuff that feels good. [back rub?]
If that's a weird concept, well, there's no rush.

Are you sure you're 28?
Don't sweat it, kids!
 
If you end up in the bedroom, sure, I'd tell him. "This is kind of embarrassing, but I've never actually had sex yet." I can't imagine he'll up and leave at that point. :)

Lex
 
I think he will figure out pretty quickly that it is your first time being penetrated..... I'd also wait till you were in the bedroom before telling him.
 
I agree. He will know u have not been penetrated before. I think he will be understanding since you like each other very much. Try to just relax and enjoy the time.
 
Probably actual penetration is not the best for the first "sexual intercourse" in your life. My first time was only about kissing, sucking, hugging etc and it was more than enough. I would tell my partner that he is the first because he will know it anyway. Although I had a lot of sex in the past years, including bottoming, usually I wait with anal sex until I'm comfortable with my partner. Sometimes I let me fucked during one night stands but not very often.
 
If you've been dating this guy for a while and you know you're going to have sex soon you should tell him. You don't want him to think that your lack of experience is a lack of skill, no offense. I don't know why he'd be turned off by you being a virgin, I know a lot of guys get a thrill out of taking someone's virginity.
 
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