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So i met this guy off of craigslist. and by met, i haven't actually met him in person. he was looking for a friend, so i e-mailed, and he e-mailed me back and now we've been texting back and forth to each other for the past few days.

i feel like i've gotten to know him. however, it's really weird because even though i haven't met him, i really think i actually like him. but i don't think he gets that impression and i don't know if he even feels the same way. i tried to see if we could hang out but i don't know if he really wants to. i'm not sure if i'm too old for him or what. we're only like 2 years apart. i don't want to just stop texting him, but i don't know how i can continue getting my hopes up that maybe we could meet up or something. i would love to just say "i like you" but would i just seem crazy?

i mean, we've exchanged pics and stuff and we talked about doing stuff but now i don't know if he's even interested or what.

thanks guys.
 
At this point, I would think it's just light flirting. Just take is slow and as it comes. If you two are going to get together, you will. Just take it nice, slow, and safe.
 
the only problem is that he is kinda depressed over a guy he met on CL and hooked up w/ that he got attached to but the guy left town. so i've been trying to help him feel better when he texts me. but i really, really, really want to meet him but i don't know if that's what he wants. i think i might just ask him.
 
then tell him you really really really want to meet him. if he refuses, stop texting him. no point holding out for a pseudo boyfriend right?
 
Exactly what Slickery said. Just say you want to meet him. Even if he isn't interested in a relationships you two can be friends right?
 
i e-mailed him and told him that i wanted to meet and if he didn't wanted to, i still wanted to be text buddies. i texted him and told him about the e-mail so hopefully when he reads it he'll respond. i feel so sick about this whole situation and i know i shouldn't let it get the best of me.
 
no! don't still be his text buddy. it's pointless. you can be email buddies, but not text buddies, that's just creepy.
 
so you wrote him a email, then sent him a text letting him know you wrote him a email?

WHAT HAPPENED TO CALLING?

you like this guy, or like what texts you have sent back/forth. have you talked to him on the phone? pick up the phone call him and say "hey man, i think youre cool, and wanted to know if you wanted to grab coffee some time". if he says "no" then its over, and you dont have to have the whole "he didnt return a text/email, what should i do" after most of these situations
 
well we never talked on the phone before and i don't know if he really wants to. maybe i should try calling him. haven't heard anything yet back from him today so i shall see.

thanks guys. i really appreciate all ur help.
 
yeah he's completely ignoring me. idk why and i wish he would just text back and say something even if it is that he doesn't want to chat w/ me anymore. at least i would have closure.

ugh. i don't know why i have let this stupid situation take over my life.
 
more often then not, most guys you meet online, even in real life. will ignore you when they dont want to talk to you any more. they think it is easier to just not return a call/txt/email then to pick up the phone and tell the person "i dont wish to talk to you any more" or "this isnt working out". people will avoid confrontation and phase you out rather then tell you the truth.
 
ok he texted back lol. his texting wasn't working and he didn't get my email either which is probably a good thing. i kinda warned him about it lol. we'll see what happens.
 
Oh for fuck's sake, drop him. Your "relationship" with him is not healthy and it's causing you to act foolish!
 
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