Had a membership for a while to a pretty exclusive club...over time more and more events become less frequent and "Card Holding Members Only"...Membership consisted of immediate family so if you had a spouse and two kids your membership was technically a party of four but if you were single you only got one card even through you paid the same.
After confronting administration trying to defend the inequality it was let slipped that being single was a "lifestyle choice"...while not at all intended to be anti LGBTQ you can imagine that went over like a pile of bricks with the Priest and the widow also in the group who just lost her husband...her response was "It is a 'lifestyle choice' that I lost my husband????"
That was the tipping point finally relenting and for single members permitted Member and a guest of their choice for future offerings but it was pretty fucked up for a while.
After confronting administration trying to defend the inequality it was let slipped that being single was a "lifestyle choice"...while not at all intended to be anti LGBTQ you can imagine that went over like a pile of bricks with the Priest and the widow also in the group who just lost her husband...her response was "It is a 'lifestyle choice' that I lost my husband????"
That was the tipping point finally relenting and for single members permitted Member and a guest of their choice for future offerings but it was pretty fucked up for a while.

