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Blewboi101

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Hi Guys,

I thought that it would be interesting for all, if each of you share, how you use your gaydar on curious straight/Bi guys. what are some of the key signs to look at when approaching them. what signs do they usually give off, to hint at the fact that they want to fool around? especially in the "best friend department"
be specific:
music they listen to, things they would hint, things they usually like, that could be an indication...

Thought this could help some guys, seeing as though some of us got gaydars without batteries.](*,)

thanks guys.
 
Blewboi101 said:
Hi Guys,

I thought that it would be interesting for all, if each of you share, how you use your gaydar on curious straight/Bi guys. what are some of the key signs to look at when approaching them. what signs do they usually give off, to hint at the fact that they want to fool around? especially in the "best friend department"
be specific:
music they listen to, things they would hint, things they usually like, that could be an indication...

Thought this could help some guys, seeing as though some of us got gaydars without batteries.](*,)

thanks guys.
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OMG! You're saying you got a broken gaydar! I'm totally gonna have to go have some words w/ the guys down in tech cause they're obviously messing something up! Next thing you'll be telling me you got a regular leather bound day timer instead of a gay agenda.

seriously though...

umm mostly eye contact?
 
"The GayDar User Manual"

1. The way the inspected shift his body weight while standing or walking. Hard to explain, but straight guys move in a linear sort of way, while not-so-straight men move in an more orchestrated way... not to be confused with fems. Easier to understand if you go to a gay bar and spend some time trying to visualize people's weight been moved around the body.

2. The voice tone.

3. Eye contact, measured in miliseconds.

4. Body language (not to be confused with #1).

5. Conversation subjects and gender-neutral conversations.
 
Apollux said:
"The GayDar User Manual"

1. The way the inspected shift his body weight while standing or walking. Hard to explain, but straight guys move in a linear sort of way, while not-so-straight men move in an more orchestrated way... not to be confused with fems. Easier to understand if you go to a gay bar and spend some time trying to visualize people's weight been moved around the body.

2. The voice tone.

3. Eye contact, measured in miliseconds.

4. Body language (not to be confused with #1).

5. Conversation subjects and gender-neutral conversations.
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Voice tone? Shift in weight? Those are a little funny. Seriously, there is no sure way to tell that works for each and every guy as every guy is different. Even when guys are interested, they have different ways of showing interest or may lack the ability to show interest the way they would intend.

Generally, without being stereotypical, the best indicators would be:

1) Body Language

2) Eye Contact

3) How he treats you compared to other people.

4) Does he show interest in you.
 
i'm 27 and over the years i've leared that If they " want to hang out " that's a sign. If your not really friends and they want to hang out That's it. that's the sign .


had a ex co-worker i met in a store parking lot we chatted for a while, and then he's like we shoudl really hang out. and he wanted my # so i gave it to him, a few nights later he called me and he was having a drinking party . so i came over and Got plastard , Was so drunk he had to help me to the bathroom so i could pee. And then he took me to his bed. and i feel asleep. Well in the middle of the night i heard him come into the room and he crawled into bed and unzipped my pants and sucked me off lol , i let he do it. But i was still drunk. it wasn't too bad. But then he stopped and left. so i went back to sleep.
 
If you grabs your crotch, he might be interested.

Yeah, my gaydar doesn't work too well...
 
I was a bit confused at first on this thread - thinking it was about the chat site "Gaydar". Seeing anyone there will certainly turn my gaydar on, especially in the muscle room.
 
I have very, very strong Gaydar for guys.

I also good with the Women who appear more masculine, but I am not good with the Women who appear Feminine and are still Lesbian. They're my only weakness.

But for guys, it has a lot to do with voice tone, speech pattern and fluctuation, their body language, etc.

For me, it comes natural, but for others, not so much I realize.
 
james04 said:
Voice tone? Shift in weight? Those are a little funny. Seriously, there is no sure way to tell that works for each and every guy as every guy is different. Even when guys are interested, they have different ways of showing interest or may lack the ability to show interest the way they would intend.

Generally, without being stereotypical, the best indicators would be:

1) Body Language

2) Eye Contact

3) How he treats you compared to other people.

4) Does he show interest in you.
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there is this guy at work and he always stares but never says anything and when i catch him he turns away but when i stare back i do not turn away what do you guys think
 
slynch15 said:
there is this guy at work and he always stares but never says anything and when i catch him he turns away but when i stare back i do not turn away what do you guys think
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Either he is interested in you or he finds you interesting for some reason. Does he stare at anyone else or is it just you? Do you guys talk to each other at all?
 
james04 said:
Either he is interested in you or he finds you interesting for some reason. Does he stare at anyone else or is it just you? Do you guys talk to each other at all?
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we have never said a word and when i am around i see he stares at no but me i was thinking about just introducing myself and see what happens
 
slynch15 said:
we have never said a word and when i am around i see he stares at no but me i was thinking about just introducing myself and see what happens
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Well, I don't know if it is a habit, he finds something unique about you, or he is interested in you, but you should follow your instinct and introduce yourself.
 
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