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SixpackSimonGermany

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hey,

my best buddy drives me crazy. We started working out together when we were 14, so now we are both in good shape, but his body is much hotter than mine. I enjoy working out with him so much and take any opportunity to undress with him, like in the locker room or something. Really hard not to stare at his body all the time.

Last week we spent a day in my backyard, tanning. I helped him with sunscreen, only his back though and I did it quickly, cos I did want him to notice that I like touching his body. Would have loved to put sunscreen everywhere, especially on his arms, pecs and abs. Fuck he is hot. I got hard touching him but he did not notice, luckily, cos we were only in speedos.

We also flex and pose sometimes after the gym to talk about our progress.

He doesn't know I am into muscular guys or guys at all, so this is really becoming a problem for me because I keep thinking about him, naturally because I see him almost every day when we hit the gym or go running (often shirtless, now that it is warm and he is just as much of a showoff as I am).

Have you ever had a similar "problem" because I don't know how to deal with the situation. I have always enjoyed his company, cos he is funny and handsome and we are good friends, but now that he is a ripped stud, I cannot stop thinking about what I wanna do with him. You think I should come out in front of him? Only guys I did it with know that I am gay (not that many yet).

My gaydar doesn't work on him. We openly discuss what other guys have a good physique and also watch flexing and workout videos together but I would be surprised if he was gay, he fucks another pussy every two weeks, haha.

I know, sounds like I am 15, but he actually makes me feel like back then when I was horny all the time, hehe. Whenever I jack off in the showe I have to think of him.

So, would be cool if you guys can give me your thought on that or maybe somebody is going through the same trouble?

Thanks,

Simon
 
What's preventing you from coming out to him? You know about his sex life and he knows nothing of yours? Don't you think he might know you aren't seeing women?
 
SixpackSimonGermany said:
...I cannot stop thinking about what I wanna do with him. You think I should come out in front of him? Only guys I did it with know that I am gay (not that many yet)...
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It depends on your relationships with him. If he's just a workout buddy, then there's little to be gained by coming out to him. If he's a close friend that you see outside of the gym, then being out removes the worry about having to constantly cover up details about your life.

It sounds like there's a hope that coming out to him might somehow lead to the two of you having sex. That's probably not going to happen and it's not a good reason to come out to him.

Having fantasies about friends is not unusual- whether it's gay guys having fantasies about male friends or straight guys having fantasies about female friends.

The solution for this situation where you're focusing upon a friend and it's not healthy? Get a boyfriend. While it sounds too simple, you'll find that having someone to focus your attention upon and to let off some of that sexual frustration with will allow you put your friendship back into perspective.
 
Have found many straight male friends attractive in my lifetime. It sounds like you've had plenty time around him when he's thinking you're straight, but you'll maybe find the friendship more fulfilling if he knows the truth about your sexuality. I always thought it was cool that when I came out to my friends they were still just as comfortable getting changed in front of me or whatever. Makes me feel less guilty overall.
 
We've all been in that situation. It's the most common experience we all share.

What do you hope to achieve in this relationship? If you want to have him - well he's going to have to know isn't he? If you've known him since you were 14, maybe he does know, and probably if he was interested there'd be some sign of it by now.
 
BTW, if you are going to be in intimate quarters with this guy, you probably should just tell him anyway, because if he's been getting naked around you and letting you rub him with oil, maybe he's waiting for you to push the boundaries, and maybe he'll freak the fuck out when he does find out.
 
I feel the same way about my best friend. He's so handsome, funny and friendly. I told him I was a gay from the beginning. You should tell your friend about you. He may not be interested in anything with you but you should still tell him.
 
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