The HOTTEST Guy with the UGLIEST Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[trydegrau]

Looks and personality are two verrry different things
I know a few girls who aren't exactly pretty, and have nasty personalities to match their bad self-image, some girls I won't hang with at all because they point out every pretty girl and say "oh she must be one prissy little anorexic bitch"...without realizing that SHE is being the prissy one.

It boils down to how you feel about yourself, guys are no exception

 

[belamy]

Well you did rant on me for 3 posts. Oh well, I'm not one to hold a grudge so all is forgiven.

I didn´t rant on you, poor thing, but on a particular habit you seemed to share with other people.

 

[spreadeagle]

When two people with a very marked difference in looks date the more handsome one appears even more good looking by contrast while at the same time gaining brownie points for his (her) compassion, humility, depth and sensitivity. Besides earning the gratitude of the ugly date.

Physically unattractive people have often cultivated other aspects of their personality by way of compensation, and her charm, wit, intelligence and conversation may well make her a more stimulating companion than your average bimbette.

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

xyboyms how could you call Cameron Diaz ugly? I'm so shocked.

Personally, surge. I think you should split them up!

 

[chrisdobro]

some insight as in to "why"

a similar story as told by my counselor ...
one of the hottest girls in HS came to his office and she was in tears -- Prom was near and no one asked her out ! That was most likely due to all the boys not feeling adequate enough to ask the hottest girl out. Finally an average geeky dude asked her out and now they are married and have kids. What the heck ? The geeky dude was girl's lab partner. He saw the girl as the lab partner, not the "hottest girl I can't even dare to ask out". May not be exactly the reason, but may give you an idea of "why" this happens.

 

[Luminox]

(Ey, Cameron ain't ugly !! C'mon!)

...Um...Maybe he's had his share of beautiful airheads/bitches and wants to go for less attractive but more beautiful on the inside ?? I don't know ... I also get REALLY angry when I see that ! I'm a little petty when it comes to that. I'm jealous but I aknowledge it !

I don't wanna be biased or anything but there was this girl a few years ago that I had a crush on, and she was SOOOO beautiful it drove everybody nuts. LITERALLY all the boys at school were drooling after her cos she was so pretty. But guess what ?? She wasn't that great as a character! She wasn't your typical hot bitch, no, no. But she was extremely spoilt cos being so pretty she never had to try for anything or make any kind of effort cos there was always somebody around willing to help her or do things for her. So she was this spoilt lil baby-girl who always had other people taking care of her and couldn't do anything on her own, and even though she was quite nice and not bitchy or anything, she really got on my nerves cos she was really whiny and a crybaby and hurt WAY TOO easily !! She just couldn't take no for an answer and almost cracked whenever I spoke to her just a liiitle bit harsher than normal.

So maybe your guy had experiences like this or worse (cos as I said she wasn't a bitch...just an over-sized baby) and decided gorgeous girls are not for him ?? Or maybe you just have COMPLETELY different tastes ? For example, millions of women (and men) find George Clooney over-the-top-sexy while I find him BUTT UGLY. So...tastes can differ !

OR maybe he doesn't have a healthy self esteem ? Maybe he goes for ugly girls cos he's afraid the gorgeous ones are gonna turn him down ? Maybe he doesn't know how good he looks ?! The guy I am going crazy over used to be in love with this girl who WAS pretty, but not SUPERHUMAN beautiful like him. So maybe he actually likes her ?

Dunno...so many possible scenarios !

 

[NameTaken]

The fact that he apparently doesn't care about looks should be a reason for your crush for him to grow even larger, IMO.

 

[Kulindahr]

Yeah I get your point. LOL

I'm holding off my main point to comment on this:

to me, none of the guys in those pics is particularly good looking. The chick in the middle pic is awesome, tho!


Main point:

In college, back before I even considered myself sexual, guys and gals both hit on me (though in my mindset I didn't recognize it for what it was [idiot]). But the ones who really wanted me were chicks who were built like tubes. People told me I was incredibly attractive -- something I thought a curse, then -- but I didn't seem to attract anyone attractive.
For what it's worth.

 

[Cinilcjim]

I don't think Cameron is ugly and I think her and Justin are cute together. But, I do think, there are others, such as Jon Bon Jovi, Peter Reckal (Days, Bo), ect. who are married to ugly women.

 

[xyboyms]

Oh wow I had no idea my pic would cause this reaction so I sincerely apologize for this. Love you Cammy!

(I won't ever apologize for Bridget Moynahan's fugly ass! How dare she trap my Tom.......I mean......get "pregnant" with his kid.....yeah.....totally planned my ass!)

 

[woaini]

I don't like that either!!!!!!~

 

[slobone]

This really handsome guy who works at the grocery store was in the paper announcing his engagement to some fat pig. But it's hard to know what else he could do, all the women around here are fat.

 

[NineOfClubs]

Besides personality, etc. maybe she just gives him the best, mind-numbing sex ever.

 

[Luminox]

Speaking of beauty, my best friend and I often argue about this subject :

SHE always goes after ugly guys, or at best VERY mediocre. Whenever I ask her WHY the heck she wants to hook up with a ...err...not particularly good-looking guy, her answer is always the same : "Cos if I date a hot guy, all women are gonna be running after him and I'll have to fight them off !" .

WHAT THE .....????! So, you just wanna date/be with an ugly guy just so you can be sure no-one will try to steal him from you ??! What kinda logic is that ?!

Seriously, her logic is driving me nuts ! Everytime she says "Oh, look, there's a gorgeous guy !" she just means he's not butt-ugly . As long as he'sot 5 ft tall, 800 pounds and has five legs and on eye, she's gonna say he's good looking !!!! Like there is no in-between ? If he's not fugly he's "hot" ???! You know, he can be neither-nor ! He doesn't have to be either, he can just be plain normal. She's brought everything down to black or white, she has !

Or another time when her other best (female) friend and I were trying to talk to her about her weird logic, she just kept saying "Good-looking guys are all either in love with themselves and complete snobs, or have too high expectations. If I hook up with a good-looking guy he won't let me eat anything so I don't get fat, he won't let me get out of the house without make-up " etc...

She just somehow thinks that looks always have to balance out somebody's inner qualitites. So when she sees someone good-looking, she immediately thinks because they're good-looking, something has to be wrong with them on the inside ! Is that reasonable ??? There are plenty good-looking AND nice guys out there ! From my experience, at least ! She thinks it's gonna be either looks or character, and she opts for character .

Don't get me wrong, I think the inner qualities are important too, but (at least for me) they're equally important to good looks. Not MORE . I can't possibly fall in love with someone who I find unattractive just because they're nice, funny etc.

What do you guys think ? Is she crazy or am I shallow ??? I know when you say you like good-looking people everybody calls you shallow, but I think they're hypocrites ! Everybody likes good looks !! Or else, noboy would look after themselves and just be like "Oh, I don't care how I look, my TRUE LOVE will love me even if I'm unattractive "...

 

[Luminox]

Yeahhh, but the guys she goes for are not just average, they're really unattractive. They're average at best....

And why wouldn't you go for a good-looking guy just to avoid competition ?? That's...ok, maybe it has SOME sense to it, in a very weird way...but then she could just hook up with the ugliest guy around here just to make absolutely sure nobosy tries to steal him from her !!!

But I get what you mean, that average-looking guys will try harder to be nice, funny, generous etc to compemsate for their looks ...That's not necessary though...A lot of average/less-than-average guys around here think they're THE shit, so they won't make any particular effort cos they think their "looks" will do their job for them !!

Still, I stay by my point of view : you gotta wanna fuck'em, as somebody wisely stated somewhere on this page (not in this thread I think, but on a similar one)...If I'm not attracted to them on a physical level as well, screw the witty humour and all ! And I'd never go for a guy who looks like hell just cos that'll mean I'll have him to myself.

Maybe it's just me...? But I don't really 'get' this kind of logic.