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The "I have a gay friend that you have to meet" convo

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So I was at a party yesterday and I was talking to this girl that I thought was pretty cool. Lets just say I partyed for awhile before the conversation and she said that she has "A gay friend that you have to meet" and of course being all wasted I said yes. Ouch these things never work well and I dont know what I have gotten myself into
 
RyzeAbove said:
So I was at a party yesterday and I was talking to this girl that I thought was pretty cool. Lets just say I partyed for awhile before the conversation and she said that she has "A gay friend that you have to meet" and of course being all wasted I said yes. Ouch these things never work well and I dont know what I have gotten myself into
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No harm in meeting him.....Who knows where it might lead.
 
one can always use friends - don't expect more, it should be enough - if more happens, you are both lucky
 
Yeah, just meet him and if neither of you is attracted to the other, just be polite acquaintences or freinds. No harm done.
 
You never know! This could be the very first day of the rest of your life.
 
RyzeAbove said:
So I was at a party yesterday and I was talking to this girl that I thought was pretty cool. Lets just say I partyed for awhile before the conversation and she said that she has "A gay friend that you have to meet" and of course being all wasted I said yes. Ouch these things never work well and I dont know what I have gotten myself into
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Dude, I know. This feels so totally lame. Like you need a female intermediary to meet up with other cute gay dudes or that dude is kinda so lame that he needs one too... It sounds and feels as lame as it could be...

BUT, NOT ALWAYS. In other words, in most such cases, it is awkward and lame and you want to tell the dude that you have got something urgent coming up, so you escape with your life ASAP. So, if you want to escape, do so. You owe nothing to anybody.

Several years ago, a friend of mine kept on pestering me about meeting up with his GAY friend, please, please, please, 'he is so lonely, and so misunderstood and his family is giving him hard times and yadda, yadda, yadda.'

So unlike myself, I agreed. Probably just to stop him. Wow. The cutest little blonde dude showed up. We fell for each other there and then and stayed together for almost two years. Awesome little dude.

So, ya never know...

SC
 
Give it a shot...there's no harm in at least meeting him. See what happens. However, don't let yourself get trapped in a situation you know you don't want to be in. Have an escape route planned just in case the guy's not your type or whatever.
Good luck - and let us know how things go!

**hugs**
 
I tend to try to avoid those conversations, I learned my lesson from that once already.
 
At least she didn't say "I know this other guy who's just like you -- you've GOT to meet him." If you hear that one, run as fast as you can in the opposite direction.
 
I like meeting new people. Especially if they are gay....
 
Could be good, or could be very bad. Why don't you take a chance, and if its really bad remember never to trust that friend dating advice again :P
 
At least it was friends who did it...My mother tried to set me up with her hairdresser. Fuck no.
 
SilverRRCloud said:
Dude, I know. This feels so totally lame. Like you need a female intermediary to meet up with other cute gay dudes or that dude is kinda so lame that he needs one too... It sounds and feels as lame as it could be...

BUT, NOT ALWAYS. In other words, in most such cases, it is awkward and lame and you want to tell the dude that you have got something urgent coming up, so you escape with your life ASAP. So, if you want to escape, do so. You owe nothing to anybody.

Several years ago, a friend of mine kept on pestering me about meeting up with his GAY friend, please, please, please, 'he is so lonely, and so misunderstood and his family is giving him hard times and yadda, yadda, yadda.'

So unlike myself, I agreed. Probably just to stop him. Wow. The cutest little blonde dude showed up. We fell for each other there and then and stayed together for almost two years. Awesome little dude.

So, ya never know...

SC
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Where have you been all my life LOL You totally understand what I am trying to say. Everytime someone has done this for me it never goes well. I can appreciate the effort but I always meet guys with drug problems, missing teeth, mental problems, and prison records etc. My luck. I'll give it a try though. And I will let you boys know how it goes. Thanks for the advice.
 
I don't know if they work...But I'm still waiting for someone to set me up...Beats waiting for someone to just ask me out already...
 
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