the l word....

[JSRD]

hey boys.

how long did everyone wait to say the love word in their relationship? we are hitting up the 3 month mark next week and it has not been said. i think about it sometime. but it hasn't been said yet.

 

[purina]

I thought this was going to be something about using the first person singular.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I thought the other L word...

 

[luckynumbah7]

I suggest waiting till it comes out naturally.

 

[purina]

^That would be an interesting answer to guess the question to.

 

[dpnice]

I always thought the first time for people was whilst having sex when the pleasure was so intense one was unable to control oneself.

 

[JPGhost]

say that atsm (at the special moment) just thinking when you gonna give him permanent ring- the same as that, pick the right moment when his attention all over you. It must be special/memorable for the first time.

 

[medic1]

For me, the first time i told my 1st partner was around the 3 month mark. My partner now, was a close friend for over ten years. We always were close, though not in a sexual way.
After my 1st partners death, he kept me sane, i could not give you an exact time when i realised i was falling in love with him, in fact i was really surprised when he told me about his changing feelings towards me.
When he asked if he could be my lover, my initial reaction was no, i thought that would spoil the close friendship we already had.
Thank God, for reflection, after we became lovers, it was apparent within weeks that this was my fella. That was when i told him.

 

[ibill1]

For me, the first time i told my 1st partner was around the 3 month mark. My partner now, was a close friend for over ten years. We always were close, though not in a sexual way.
After my 1st partners death, he kept me sane, i could not give you an exact time when i realised i was falling in love with him, in fact i was really surprised when he told me about his changing feelings towards me.
When he asked if he could be my lover, my initial reaction was no, i thought that would spoil the close friendship we already had.
Thank God, for reflection, after we became lovers, it was apparent within weeks that this was my fella. That was when i told him.

It is wonderful you guys were friends first. Mine was the opposite. I feel in love with him the moment I laid eyes on him. We were only 17 and to this day I don't know how or why I knew I wanted to be with him the rest of my life at such a young age but I did. Two weeks after we met, hanging out exclusively with each other when we were not in class, it happened. We were in my dorm room returning from the dining hall and he spun me around and planted one on my lips. Looking shocked he said "I knew you were in love with me since the night we met". I was and he was for the next 34 years. So, it took 2 weeks.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

I don't know how long it took, don't know if that might be a good or bad thing by some peoples standards. What I do know is I knew I loved him before I told him I did, so I meant it when I said it. And I can say for sure that I don't see myself spending time with anyone else but him.

 

[HunterM]

how long did everyone wait to say the love word in their relationship?

I suggest waiting till it comes out naturally.

Yes, this is so true. Naturally for me, it is every time I see a cock I like.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

not a wall ten or firin squads day out

anyway

happy fa ya

neva afriad type luv specials ins 21st century
_noone use mouth now?_
only if ya no get plugin or ya battary run out
_._
ooh

ha

 

[Gentleheart]

My partner said it to me much earlier than I did to him. It was within a few months, and while I admit I was skeptical...his actions substantiated his words. I believe I said it about six months in or so?

For some reason, people get really "crazy" when that word comes up...so people (these days) tend to be extremely careful about bringing it up. It makes them vulnerable, and people hate to feel vulnerable.

 

[sixthson]

Early on I was aware of some powerful feelings for him, something I had never felt towards anyone else. I kept reminding myself that nothing would come from this and it was just "feelings". I knew that love was much for than that. The more I got to know him, the more powerful it became, but not only did I not know if he felt the same, I didn't even know if he was gay. About two months in, I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I loved him. I used to tell him that under my breath, . So when the day came, just under three months into knowing each other, it was the most natural thing in the world to speak the words that my heart already owned. He said it first and while I have heard it a million times since, the sound of those words are still deep within me when he said "I love you, Danny".

I realize some people don't think it's necessary to say those words or they believe they become less meaningful if said too often, but I don't think you can speak those words often enough.

 

[IamNoah]

I said it to my husband the first time we met. I meant it; but it wasn't true yet, I was mistaken. I was dazzled and really ready to love someone. Actually loving him took time. Maybe it was six months or so, before my being in awe of how beautiful he is/amazed at the fact that he found me desirable turned into real live love. But yeah I said it quick. I also stalked him. We are an anomaly.

 

[The Fly]

I wasn't the one to say it first in our relationship, I felt it, just couldn’t say it. When Brian told me he loved me....... I was lounging on the couch eating an orange, and out of the blue he just says "I Love You"............my response was..."I know", then I realized what I said He busted out laughing.......for weeks after he would just look at me and say "I Know"..and start laughing again.

The first time I said "I love You" to him was when we were watching a deer eating a bush....and it just felt right, I didn't think about it, it just came out.

I don't say it alot, he knows.