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Obama has a moderately pro gay voting record, and doesn't support marriage. McCain has a moderately anti gay record but NOT nearly as bad as many republicans. he is opposed to a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, sees it left to the states. also he supports some rights for gay couples in terms of insurance and economics. there is disparity, but it aint polar.
Bottom line: If we sit around waiting for Government to validate or celebrate our lives (and our lifestyle choices, for that matter) we get nowhere. Do what you want, according to your own values and choices. Don't "inflict" it on others and don't expect to have your choices celebrated by others. That's why I'm a conservative Republican. I need neither Government confirmation nor interference with my life.
Some gay republicans like myself do want said rights. But taxes, foreign policy, crime and punishment just happens to be more important.
How would I enjoy my gay civil rights if I was a blown up in a terrorist attack?
Many gay Republicans are just Republican about it. Some one else achieved their existing civil rights for them, they're happy with what they have and fuck the gay couple who want to adopt kids.
Some gay Republicans agree with Republicans on other issues and think they can work within the party to get change on gay issues. It's the abused wife syndrome. While it's true that the more educated Republicans don't care about gays and are sympathic to them, nothing's going to change while the religious right is such a large source of votes.
Many gay Republicans think other issues have a higher priority and see voting for someone because they support gay civil rights as a single issue decision. That's a slightly more benign version of the I'm-OK-And-You're-On-Your-Own attitude. Plus it doesn't factor in that how candidates respond to gay civil rights tells you a lot about how they are going to act in other area. No surprise that McCain shares Bush's punch-first-bring-'en-on foreign policy and will be equally happy to tap your phone.
Many gay Republicans are simply in denial. They keep themselves ignorant of the specifics of the Republican opposition to gays and the Democrats support for them. It's surprising how many gay Republicans have no or little idea of the impact of having an anti-gay majority on the Supreme Court.
Also, on gay issues, many gay Republicans just vote against their own interestes. The Republican party is still great at getting people to do that. Look at all the folk who voted for George W. because, if they were ever rich, they wanted to maximize the tax breaks on the wealth they don't have, or because they thought Republicans are still about self-reponsibility, small government or whatever or because George W. was good guy to have drink with.
History just may see Bush going down as a great president. Notice we haven't had any terrorist attacks since 9/11, due to his controversial but effective homeland security policies. The Iraq war is now a success - the bumps in the road are gone (we were all so quick to condemn and give up), the surge worked, Iraq is stabilized, hardly any terrorism there, and more US troops are dying in Afghanistan, a far smaller country. it worked.
I understand what you're saying, but there will be no partner and no bed if we are blown up in an attack. The point is, I'm willing to take a partner being denied access to my hospital bedroom in exchange for not getting blown up by Obama's chit chat with Ahmadinejad.
Have hardly any US troops died there?
B) However gay republicans fascinate me because their clashing ideals. I'd like to understand them better.
Still getting better compared to 2005 and 2006. The situation ain't perfect but it's improving. Can't deny that. And by 2011/2012, I think it will be over.
Why should we feel guilty about anything? Democrats don't do shit on our behalf compared to what they COULD be doing.
