The Mind Of The Straight Man

[Danugh]

I may have talked about this before but i dont remember so...anyways.


I know most of you are happy being gay/bi and wouldn't change a thing if a straight pill existed, but have you ever just wondered what your life would be like if you were the same person but with heterosexual orientation.

I think about that sometimes how different my life might be. I don't know how different but i think about it sometimes do you?


I also really would like to know, how a straight man processes other men. In that when he sees a naked man, i guess in the locker room or just shirtless men walking around, how does he process it?


I guess it would kind of be like if i were to see a woman naked. It doesn't interest me and i don't want to see it, as it would do nothing for me, but i dont know, id still like to see a naked man from a straight guys perspective.

I for one find guys hot, and the male physique is hot so how can a straight guy see another guy and not notice his hotness LOL.

I just wanna know what its like on the other side. Ofcourse thats not gonna happen but i do think about it.


How does he process porn? What about straight porn is turning him on? Isnt he getting turned on by the man hard penis penetrating the vagina?

How does he process two men kissing?

Id want to be straight for a week just to see how different i would view things.

I just find it so interesting.


As a straight man who dislikes gay people, where does the dislike come from. What makes me not tolerant of the gay life?

If a friend came and told me he was gay, how would i feel about it?

What kind of straight man would i be? Would i be violent towards gay people and if i would, why would i? What would drive me to that point?


Would it be based on how i grew up? My religious background?



Ah well am i the only one who thinks about stuff like this?


This is a newboy12 post; but could we try and keep the snide remarks to a minimum and focus on the topic.

 

[Ramindra]

No! It's a hypothetical situation which ain't aboput to happen any time soon. I have more joyful and positive things to think about.

 

[neruda]

Cant get too many straight answers from most of us
Wonder if the ladies can help?

 

[nitish]

I never thought about how life would be if i was straight. That's because i don't like to day dream about nightmares. I also couldn't care less about what straight men think about, or how they perceive naked guys. It's common knowledge that most guys check out other guys, not because they fancy them, no, it is just natural. If you have eyes, you look. I bet you check out hot women.

 

[waves]

newboy12, you're not the only one who thinks about this kinda stuff. This subject kinda fascinates me because we are who we are today because of our backgrounds. If something of our background were to change, would we completely be somebody else if we were to have a change? I guess it's a mystery that no one will ever know

I've always wondered at one point how different I would be if I were straight. However, I don't think I can really do it because guys are so damn attractive!!

 

[Circe Infuria]

Wonder if the ladies can help?

Lady JUBer here....

Wow...there's so many questions there I'm not really sure where to begin. I'll just pick one question/theme to answer so I'm not writing a novel:

I also really would like to know, how a straight man processes other men. In that when he sees a naked man, i guess in the locker room or just shirtless men walking around, how does he process it?

Well as a straight woman, I can give you a perspective on this question as how a straight woman processes other women (or I should say...how **I** process other women...someone else might not give the same answer).

I hope that's okay...and I hope it gives you the insight you're looking for...

As I said, I'm a straight woman. But that doesn't mean I don't think women are beautiful or that a woman's body isn't sexy. I have an appreciation for women's bodies, but I have no desire to be sexual with a woman. That has not kept me from telling a fellow woman that I think she is sexy/has a sexy body/is gorgeous/etc.

I do go to the gym and I have seen other women naked/half-naked. I think I'm like anyone else, I do check them out....not as a "ooooh I wanna jump on that" more out of admiration or just meer curiosity.

I don't go out of my way to look at naked pictures and I've never watched porn (and I don't have a desire to), but when I do see naked pics of a man or woman, I simply admire them for the beauty they possess.

Hope I've helped....

 

[Human1]

The only difference that there would be are your attractions to the female sex. Thats it. Everything else will happen with time.

 

[Danugh]

It'd just be a quick experiment for a day of boredom.

^ Yea, for a day, just to see what straight is. I have a friend who believes that one some level every man is gay.

newboy12, you're not the only one who thinks about this kinda stuff. This subject kinda fascinates me because we are who we are today because of our backgrounds. If something of our background were to change, would we completely be somebody else if we were to have a change? I guess it's a mystery that no one will ever know

I've always wondered at one point how different I would be if I were straight. However, I don't think I can really do it because guys are so damn attractive!!

LOL , i know guys are so HOT.


Even if i was straight i really feel i would be one of those straight guys that would be seduced by newboy12 LOL i mean seriously because, guys are just so hot. Thats why i cannot understand how a straight man cannot see how hot a guy is?

Thats why i wanna know what it is that blinds the straight man to the hotness that is man LOL.


I am not stressing it but sometimes it really just makes me wonder.


Well its good to know i am not alone

Hope I've helped

A little, but no offense, guys are hotter than girls, im sure you would agree, so i want know from the straight man perspective how he views hot guys.

And in any event there is a double standard with men and women. Women are just different with each and can talk about things in a way that two straight men don't. Given that they would view things differently.

A girl can say to another girl, "nice breasts" but i guy can;t say, "nice dick", i think i am straying from the initial post.


I just want a day as a straight and see how i process other men. If only to prove that straight men really do exist to disprove my friends theory.

 

[Circe Infuria]

Thats why i cannot understand how a straight man cannot see how hot a guy is?

Thats why i wanna know what it is that blinds the straight man to the hotness that is man LOL.

I am not stressing it but sometimes it really just makes me wonder.

It's quite simple. Straight guys wonder how it is that gay guys don't see the hotness of women.

It's not a matter of being "blinded," it's what you're naturally attracted to based on your sexual orientation.

What's to wonder???

 

[Danugh]

Straight guys wonder how it is that gay guys don't see the hotness of women.

Well, yes that is true. I have heard many men say about gays, "how can you see a sexy, voluptuous woman and leave her to go and have sex with a man, i just dont get it. Look how sexy women are? I just dont understand how you can be attracted to another man."


But thats what i am talking about. And in any event some of those men are closeted but thats another.


We all wonder about different things and this is one of them for me. I just would like to experience the straight mind for a day or so just to see how things are and how i would process things. As a straight man i would want to be with women , but women arent the only ones in the world. So even though id be attracted to women , how would i process the hot men of he world? Thats all i wanna know.


I think guys are hot, so i just wanna know as a straight man how would i process the obvious hotness LOL.

 

[tonysw]

The question of how does a straight man process another man is a great one. I have had on my mind for the past week or so a similar question "where is the boundary between men?". That is individual so it seems and hard to pick which straight guy would go further with you.

I do know of some gay guys who see an outstanding woman and want to "do her". Again an individual response.

 

[Shepherd 2]

A mind is a precious thing to waste.
Mechanically, the gay and heterosexual mind process information
in very much the same way. Visual processing is a scientific
process studied by neurologists and opthamologists.
Your body may interpret and act on the same informaiton
in a different way.
You see a man you may spring a woody.

Would you be violent to gay men?
Are you a person who gets violent thoughts
or plans violent actions towards other now?
Psychologists study aggression.
Abusers can be both gay and straight.

But why do you want to be straight for a whole week?
What else do you have planned?
Shep+

 

[herenthere]

As a gay/bi man it seems you spend a great deal of time carving notches in your belt for seducing and bedding the straight men...

Maybe if you were straight...you would be seducing and bedding that gay/bi men.

Just a thought

 

[Danugh]

The question of how does a straight man process another man is a great one. I have had on my mind for the past week or so a similar question "where is the boundary between men?". That is individual so it seems and hard to pick which straight guy would go further with you.

I do know of some gay guys who see an outstanding woman and want to "do her". Again an individual response.

Yes it is so interesting to me. And you are right, it is individual and i image would vary from one man to another. There really are different levels of heterosexuality, and every man really is different.


I have had straight firends tell me that, if they were gay they would be my boyfriend? What the hell does that mean? LOL


OR when a straight guy compliments you on something, he has to automatically follow it up with, No Homo.

Maybe if you were straight...you would be seducing and bedding that gay/bi men.

Just a thought

No, if i was straight, people like newboy12 would easily be able to seduce and bed me. I just know it.

But why do you want to be straight for a whole week?
What else do you have planned?
Shep+

Well because what if i get to be straight on a Tuesday? I dont go to the gym or pool on Tuesdays so i wouldnt get to see any naked men to be able to process them.

So i figure id need at least a week to fully access all types of men to make a full and accurate report.


Its almost like wanting to be a girl for a week so i can have sex with all the sexy men i want but then i couldn't be a girl for a week because i am bound to get pregnant so i would have to be a girl for at least 10 months so i can bring the baby to term and breast feed it for a month before i give it up to a loving infertile couple to raise.

 

[1st love ron]

Its almost like wanting to be a girl for a week so i can have sex with all the sexy men i want but then i couldn't be a girl for a week because i am bound to get pregnant so i would have to be a girl for at least 10 months so i can bring the baby to term and breast feed it for a month before i give it up to a loving infertile couple to raise

WTF...no becasue the "girl" (gay guy) would be all about giving blowjobs.

 

[Xenrai]

As I get older, I find myself appreciating the beauty of women more often. The only thing is, there is just no sexual energy there. But honestly, sex is not very important to me. I can't imagine being really sexually attracted to any one person for very long anyway