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The nerve of some people

Providence

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So I met this guy on manhunt. We both seemed interested to we messaged each other back and forth. He lives in Toronto and I live in London (Ontario) and he ended up coming down to visit his friend over here. So I gave him my phone number and email address and he ended up calling me and asking if I wanted to meet up. Mind you it was late at night and I was over at a friend about to head home, plus I had an appointment to donate blood the next day (today) in the morning so I told him I couldn't meet him yesterday. So anyways, I'm a pretty slim guy and I hardly have enough blood in me to donate but I still do it anyways but it ends up leaving me in a very weak and drowsy state. So I've been home all day in bed, and I go on msn and he pops up and the first thing he does is ask me for a picture (I have 1 facepic up on manhunt). I assumed he probably wanted a naughty picture like so many other people on manhunt want so I told him I don't have any naughty pics. He responded in saying he wanted a facepic. So I asked him if he had facebook cuz I have tons of pictures up on facebook if he wanted to see and he just responded saying: "No, I don't. I don't have time for games, kid. Have a good life." and blocked me. The nerve of some people. I was just about to send him my pictures too.

Ugh... just needed to vent.
 
aww I share your sentiments. I just went through some intense Manhunt drama last week (actually I posted it briefly in another thread). I actually met the guy in person and he just led me on for a week then removed me. Ironically he had "direct, to the point, no games, no bullshit" in his profile... I'm not going into details but it just goes to show guys would say or do anything to get in your pants, if not pants, they just play you for the sake of it... your guy probably is a player himself, he just happened to be too horny to have an actual conversation with you, or he's just negative all around. So, dont sweat it, you just have to search through a bunch of guys to find someone for you and have better judgment each time (note to self).

Off topic, I wish had come out earlier when I was going to UWO in London, how time flies...
 
No way. I'm going to UWO right now. Aww... if only you were still here.

Update:
So I sent him an email asking him what his deal is so he ended up unblocking me and he kept wanting to come over. I told him he can't because I have 4 other roommates and I'm not out and then he asked why I'd give him my address if I wasn't intending on having him over so I explained that I thought he wanted to pick me. Anyways, so he kept saying how he wants to kiss me, suck me and rim me and we can do it in his car. I kept telling him I'm not a slut and I thought he wanted to go for coffee or something so he said he's going back to Toronto tomorrow and he'll be back next week. He said we can use the time in between to know each other and then kiss, suck and rim. So, I decided to block him.

Oh and he lied about his age, it says something different on manhunt and he looked a lot older in his pics so I asked him how old he was and he said 37. I'm not even 22 for another month!!!! Good riddance.
 
I graduated from UWO in 2006, good ol' times...

What you said in the update... happened to me in different shapes and forms over the last couple years... the games guys play even before they met you... actually the guy I met from Manhunt deleted me on msn first then just a day later he tried to add me back again, I dunno what his deal is but I blocked him... I pretty much came to the conclusion that the internet is either for sex or friendship, no relationship is going to happen to me... and the age thing, you can have a 22 year old more mature than a 40 year old... it's hard.
 
On the positive side, I received a message from somebody else on manhunt as well. He's pretty hot and we added each other on facebook and msn and chatted for quite a while and seem to be getting along great. We've decided to meet up on Sunday or Monday for coffee or go watch a movie. And neither of us are in it just for the sex. We want to get to know each other and see how things work out.

Goes to show not everybody on manhunt is a jerk and there are some likeminded people out there. :)
 
marleyisalegend said:
There isn't anything he can offer you that you can't do for yourself.
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What about the rimjob? Wait, can you rim yourself? If so, we demand videos!

@Providence: I agree with the posters above. A very wise person has told me a little while ago that I'm fishing in the wrong pond... perhaps so are you. Manhunt's not really a good place to make 'just friends'. Friends with benefits, maybe. Yes, there are others like you on Manhunt, but it's primarily a place for hooking up. I'd say: make it clear what you're looking for and take the 'let's fuck' messages as they come. Or find a different pond to fish in. :)
 
The thing is I've sort of been falling for my straight best friend who is a friend with benefits at time and I know I'm just walking down the road to heartbreak. So I decided it wasn't healthy and I'm fishing in any pond I can find.

I just don't see too many other options in a small town like London.
 
Providence said:
I just don't see too many other options in a small town like London.
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The next time you might want to add ', Ontario' to that. I thought you were being facetious before I checked your Location. ;)

What about other online ponds? There have to be websites that are less sex-oriented than Manhunt.
 
Providence said:
The thing is I've sort of been falling for my straight best friend who is a friend with benefits at time and I know I'm just walking down the road to heartbreak. So I decided it wasn't healthy and I'm fishing in any pond I can find.

I just don't see too many other options in a small town like London.
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Sounds like a wise move to find someone else. BTW, if your best friend is a guy, I wouldn't exactly call him straight if he has sex with you on a regular basis (lol). You are still better off to find someone who is available for a relationship.
 
Providence said:
I just don't see too many other options in a small town like London.
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Have you tried the pride club at Western? The first gay event I ever went to was a Pride Western party at Tantra on Richmond, that was 3 years ago, my last year at Western. I found it pretty cliquey back then, but if I had given it a few more tries I probably would have been more into it, I did meet a couple nice gay guys there tho.
 
backpacker said:
I wouldn't exactly call him straight if he has sex with you on a regular basis
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We don't have sex. I just offer him my oral services and that's as far as we go. He's not entirely straight though, he's admitted to being bicurious.

Yeehaw said:
Have you tried the pride club at Western? The first gay event I ever went to was a Pride Western party at Tantra on Richmond, that was 3 years ago, my last year at Western. I found it pretty cliquey back then, but if I had given it a few more tries I probably would have been more into it, I did meet a couple nice gay guys there tho.
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PrideWestern disbanded last year. They are no more. Even when they were around, their events were pretty stupid. Coffee houses in the Spoke. THE SPOKE!?!?! The place most of western hangs out??? Didn't they realize some people might be in the closet and don't want to be seen next to a BIG rainbow flag? Oh well, that's what kept me away from their events the last 3 years.
 
so there's no gay function at Western anymore? haha I went a pride movie night at The Spoke once, a waste of my time. There's something very uneasy about being with a group of obvious pride members with a large rainbow flag. It's not even I'm afraid of coming out to straight friends, but more like I dont feel relatable with lots of them.
 
I agree. I'm not out myself so internet's the single place on earth I get to openly discuss about these things or search for a friend or two who understands me.

If guys ask for picture the first thing, just know that their intentions are not pure.

I myself am still a virgin, and I just turned 23. Some guys I've met online, within the first few sentences pop the question, 'let's meet at my place, we'll do so on and so forth'. I just don't bother with such people. I'm totally not interested in one night stand no matter how horny I might get.

I refuse to settle for anything less.
 
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