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The Official "Crushes Are Evil" Thread.

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Having a crush is a good thing especially if it's mutual, such a wonderful feeling
 
No, I don't. I'm quite emotionally incapable at this point, and that suits me just fine.

Which, as a romantic, I find to be a disgusting thing to admit. But fuck it, i'm nothing if not flawed.
 
I currently have an admittedly minor crush on a colleague. And I don't even know if he's gay! !oops!

I normally hate crushing, 'cause that's what they are. But this one isn't so bad.
 
I think crushes are fine as soon as your heart is not crushed in the process...

NightArousal, if he still wants to keep in touch, then do, and try to make it work between you guys, why wouldnt it work out?

Idk, I'm a dreamer, so I dream that I will fin the right person to me and that ends up in having several crushes a year ....

Which is not that bad sometimes...

;)
 
NaughtyArousal said:
To all the single folk: Do you have a crush right now?
Click to expand...

yeah. yeah i do.

this summer i was without a team for my gay bowling league's summer session. a new guy joined up and since he was solo he was matched up along with me and another guy.

lord... he's ridiculously handsome.

anyhow we got to chatting and seemed to hit it off. since he's joined the league we've gone out three times. dinner, movie... what surprised me is that he's asked me out each time. but i'm convinced he's really only looking for a friend. in fact i'm thinking he doesn't have too many gay friends. i know he's not out at work and his employment is such that being out could be troublesome.

the weird thing is that although i find him to be very attractive i kinda don't want a one night hook up sort of thing. i'm actually ok with being friends. i've been there before, liking a guy then making the mistake of hooking up only to never hear from him again. this guy is special.

now if something else were to develop? i'd be down with that.

oh and i don't think this particular crush is evil.
 
I was smitten hard the first time I saw Tomas. As we got to know each other, I just assumed that he didn't feel the same way about me, afterall, guys didn't feel that way about other guys. The more we got to know each other, the harder I fell for him. I just kept telling myself it was a stupid crush. One night we were at our favorite coffee shop with some friends and they had live jazz music and the singer sang: "He don't love me like I love him, nobody could. I got it bad and that ain't good". I looked at Tomas and my heart was so full of love and passion and desire for him. And pain. It physically hurt. I knew I had it bad and that definitely was not good. Fortunately, I was wrong.

Gershwin:

I've got a crush on you, sweetie pie.
All the day and nighttime, hear me sigh.
I never had the least notion
That I could fall with such emotion.

Cause I have got a crush on you, my baby, on you.
 
Read my blog :( I don't need to brag loudly about my sad condition.

Well, I'll move on.

At least it will take more things to drag me into being a member of "I'm Through With Love" group or any similar self-and-community hating self-wound-licking groups.
 
Yes, kinda have one now. We've been talking for about a month now. He pretty much initiates most of our conversations. We've gone on two dates, just some touching and cuddling, no sex. I kind of like it that way. I really like him as a person so far...he's smart, funny, and really adorable. As much as I wanna tear the clothes off him at times, I'm resisting because this is one I wanna get to know.

(What is happening to me? I was doing so well for over a year not having feelings for anyone!)
 
Yes I do, It's more so beyond a crush in that we've done things...It's sorta painful and I fucking hate it! I've never had it before and It hurts because I foresee something forth coming.
 
I feel you on this one.

Luckily, though, right now, I'm not crushing on anybody. Whew.

Crushes are exhausting for me. I expend so much energy trying to reconcile the conflict between my euphoria about liking somebody and my apprehension about being hurt. Also, I struggle to concentrate, 'cause all I want to do is be with the guy, or think about being with him.

I hate unrequited crushes, though. That shit stinks! I prefer to like somebody who also likes me, 'cause then, suddenly, so many of my impossibilities seem quite possible.

I'm sure I'll meet a new crush soon. I only hope that he'll like me too. Sigh...


P.S. Move to London! Go! Now!
 
Crushes are shallow, you usually don't know much about the person and he's probably completely different than what your fantasy of him is.

Now crushes can be good when you actually make it a point to get to know the person, and fall in love with them etc. :)
 
I have a "safe" crush right now. He's a friend who is happily partnered, so that's why it's safe. I know nothing will ever come of it, and I prefer it that way. I'm also friends with his partner, and his partner has let me on that my crush thinks highly of me. Who knows? Maybe this is a mutual "safe" crush.

I like having this crush because I know no one's feelings will ever get hurt, but it makes my day brighter to know that I'm going to see him on the days that I do.
 
I am pathetic. Here is why:

I have had a small "crush" (more of an attraction) to a guy I used to pass by daily for about a year and a half now. When I got around to telling him about four months ago (we no longer see each other daily) he kind of played like he was interested, then stopped. Few months pass, he shows interest in meeting up, then stops texting me. Month passes, same thing happens, and now he doesn't talk to me. I don't think it's really a crush because I don't know him on a personal level, but it's still hard to get him out of my head, but I'm doing good for now, haven't thought of texting him but still think about him.
 
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