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The post here when you want peace and tranquility thread.

 
It's amazes me after all these months of Philip breaking up with me he still haunts my thoughts.

It's gotten better but today he had me all fucked up in my thoughts. So much easier to hate him instead.
(*8*):therethere:
 
I’m having a rough time myself lately, having a really hard time coping. Nature and exercise have helped but it’s hard to even motivate myself to leave the house.
 
I keep trying but it keeps coming back. :(
You will succeed. The glaring absence of another from our lives should indeed be something we feel. But, what it makes us feel will change. You will stop blaming yourself, or searching for your own guilt or his, and you'll accept having had what you had while you had it together.

And your life will move forward. That it is taking this long is but an artifact of the depth of your bond. But, I believe what Grandmother said when she studied psychology. She said that happily married people go on to be married again, as they are happy bonded, and know how to share life with a mate. At the same time, she chuckled at her own long widowhood, as she had never thought about dating ever again after Granddad died of a stroke. But, she was a hoarder, a fat old woman, and a poor woman with a very high education for her society, so she would not have found a mate. She was devoted to him, too, as women of her generation were, regardless of their differences and even of his affairs, of which there had been many, and painful. I still marvel at her loyalty. She never spoke a bad word about him in all the decades I knew her.

You're none of those things. I've seen your wit and talent and good looks on this forum. Whether you choose to be bonded again or not, I know the world is your oyster, and it's just a matter of time for you to feel strong again.

Big hug.
 
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