The swipe across the shoulder

[biguy562]

I am going out with this guy this weekend to go see a movie. Today after class (I'm 24, he's 22) we were talking about this weekend and when we said bye he gave me a "light" swipe/pat over my shoulder. I do not know for sure if he gay or not. I have seen a lot of signs that he could be gay. We actually seemed to "lock" eyes today in class for a couple of seconds. The swipe/pat he gave me today though was the biggest sign yet!

What do yall think???

 

[bokan800]

ask him directly... signs means nothing.

 

[breathe]

Sorry buddy, but that's not a sign of ANYTHING.

 

[HunterM]

The next time you say goodbye to him, do the same thing to him...the swipe across the shoulder.

 

[Seasoned]

There may be more signs sitting next to each at the movies. In any case, have fun and I hope you guys go out afterwards and talk about the movie and each other. Sounds like a fun evening.

 

[anchihiro]

Yeah that's not a sign of anything, everybody does that.

 

[maxpowr9]

I have straight friends that hug me. Does that mean they're gay also because they hug me?

 

[pat grimshaw]

was that "light" swipe over your shoulder light or what?

did he reach round your body to swipe you?

 

[chance1]

might be something ......

might be nothing .......

you can ask him (not about the pat)

or you can wait

whatever you're more comfortable with

 

[collegeguy89]

I think it's a little direct to just ask him if he's gay or not; let's say if he isn't gay, then you look like a homophobe and you hurt his manly ego.

I say, when your sitting down in the theatres, rub against his leg, or do something give him a sign and see if he responds to it. I'm not saying when the lights go out put your hand to his crotch.