The things you can't stand about your partner.

[oliver1990]

My bf is 69 and I absolutely cannot stand his impatience. He expects me to know everything, we yell at each other a lot but at night when we go to bed, he will be fine and come and cuddle me but I always feel awkward and think to myself "How could he forget what just happened so quickly?"

Talk about yours.

 

[rareboy]

^ Sounds like senile dementia.

 

[seanystarr]

you are 19 and your parner is 69....thats some age gap....no wonder he wants to cuddle you in bed

 

[oliver1990]

^ We both enjoy the huge age difference.

^ Sounds like senile dementia.

Doesn't look like it though LOL

 

[Mehdilicious]

well at 69 of age, people start going crazy and ballistic ... don't you know old people enjoy bickering with every living thing ?! dump your grand-pa and find yourself a younger guy !

 

[G-Lexington]

Pubert's not on here enough.

Lex

 

[milboy]

I'm half Greek/half American, 11 years younger than my American boyfriend, and I'm uncut. He's cut. He really avoided giving me any head or paying attention to my cock for that matter for a couple years. He's a top, I'm the bottom. One day hw said he would suck me off more if I got cut (keep in mind my uncut cock is always clean!). He also said it'd look better. I was really hurt about it. How could someone be so ignorant over a normal cock??? Now I get head here & there, and he says I don't have to get cut anymore and that he likes uncut dick, but how do I know he's telling the truth?!? Anyone else been in this unfortunate situation?

 

[G-Lexington]

You HAVE told him how disgusting his mutilated cock is, right?

Lex

 

[bankside]

After 12 years it still surprises me how uncomfortable he can be with spontaneity.

I knew that going in, and it doesn't usually stop us from doing anything, but it means i have to remember to think ahead. and actually plan things, and then share the plans with him. In advance. That gets old real fast. It is unnecessary, and actually exhausting sometimes.

 

[sabot3ur]

his drinking problem.

 

[USEDCAR]

i thought yall was 69ing in bed 69 is old does he still get hard on his own?

 

[The_Reaper]

Wow, my problem seems insignificant...My b/f just tends to push me against the wall when we sleep together because he always gets closer to me if I seem to roll away at any point during the night.

Then of course there's the problem of staying in bed for hours after I'm already awake and ready to start the day, but he wants to stay in bed and cuddle and maybe nod off again for a bit.

Yes, I know, I have it easy.

 

[oliver1990]

i thought yall was 69ing in bed 69 is old does he still get hard on his own?

Yes he does, I do give him blowjob sometimes.

 

[terps420]

An ex of mine used to randomly say spontaneous things completely out of the blue and repeat them over and over again; sortof like the way a child does if you know what I mean. At first I was indifferent to it but as we became more involved, he became more comfortable with me and would do it all the time, several times a day, over the phone, over webcam, in public, while being intimate. It irritated the living shit out of me.

 

[TX-Beau]

An ex of mine had this habit of sort of clicking his fork against his teeth when he was eating, every bite, every time, over and over and over.

 

[milboy]

Lex, lol yes I have. Although I like pretty cut dick second, I prefer uncut dick first, but out of defense I have told him how I didn't like his mutilated butchered insensitive cock... But only after he told me I needed to get cut cause uncut is ugly.

 

[milboy]

My partner has a daughter who isn't doing so well in school and is behind in her grade level. I am concerned about it, and when I tell my partner that he needs to enforce homework time and get involved and check her homework and make her study, he gets pissed off at me & doesn't do a thing to help her. Not a thing.

 

[oliver1990]

My partner has a daughter who isn't doing so well in school and is behind in her grade level. I am concerned about it, and when I tell my partner that he needs to enforce homework time and get involved and check her homework and make her study, he gets pissed off at me & doesn't do a thing to help her. Not a thing.

That is so not good, for his daughter.

 

[Deandbn]

My bf is 69 and I absolutely cannot stand his impatience. He expects me to know everything, we yell at each other a lot but at night when we go to bed, he will be fine and come and cuddle me but I always feel awkward and think to myself "How could he forget what just happened so quickly?"

Talk about yours.

Oliver I think you need to tell your boyfriend that not even your best friends shout/yell at you, and ask him who the hell he thinks he is that he be so priviledged as to think he has the right to shout at you. And mean it!

If he does it again, dont say a word, just get up from what you are doing and walk out. Go back after a couple of hours and if he has anything to say, ask him if he missed you and tell him he needs to have a lot more respect for you and that you will no longer tolerate being shouted at.

Repeat the above every time he shouts at you.

 

[UC3543]

After 12 years it still surprises me how uncomfortable he can be with spontaneity.

I knew that going in, and it doesn't usually stop us from doing anything, but it means i have to remember to think ahead. and actually plan things, and then share the plans with him. In advance. That gets old real fast. It is unnecessary, and actually exhausting sometimes.

Sounds like me, I like to have things planned out. I don't know why it bothers me. But when people come over without me knowing about it before hand, I get into a really bad mood. I'm very easy going, and if my boyfriend asks me or tells me in advance someone is coming over, or this weekend we need to help his mom, I'm more than willing, but if he springs it on me it drives me crazy. Part of it is a control issue I think. The good thing my boyfriend is a little like me.

Throw your boyfriend a bone and plan things out, he'll love you for it