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Hey ho hey!! Asian, Hispanic, Black and other minorities
please dont be too eager over white guys and hold your dignity, this is the truth:
DON'T HATE ME FOR SAYING THIS BUT:
I know being different in the gay community is very very difficult if your not white and don't look like an Abercrombie & Fitch model but you MUST learn to STOP giving white gay people all the power and options.
White gay men ARE NOT the "prize" or the "best" a gay Asian or black, Latino can hope to date or , they are simply another option...NOT THE ONLY OPTION !
All of you black and Asian guys who keep begging to date or a white guy will come to an ugly reality very soon... MOST WHITE GAY MEN DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU...some may want to experiment, just or use you to boost their ego by enjoying all the attention you give them but NOT DATE.
THE ONE'S WHO LOOK LIKE AF MODELS WILL NEVER EVER DATE OR MARRY YOU. ... or get ed by you ... yes.. but not date or marry. the social stigma and curse or racial stereotypes is simply too much for this type of gay white man
Its NOT because WHITE GAY MEN ARE RACIST, its because they, just like you have been basically brainwashed about what is hot and what is beautiful. Its easier.. not easy...just easier for them because they have been born white. If your born white, then they already fulfill 90% of what gay society says is hot or beautiful. The other 10% is wardrobe and going to the gym. Its in that 10% that you.. the Asian and blacks work so hard to compensate for the fact that you are not white but it never succeeds... and white people know this.
To be fair, you'll find a few white guys on here eager to write "yea, Asian are hot, or I would date an Asian" but they do this because they in part believe they are doing you a favor. Some of them may seriously be interested in dating or ing an Asian or black person but the truth is... those white guys who do, are really NOT the type of white guy that you are looking for.. are they? be honest....plain Jane's, older(15 years older than you), average looking, over weight, or too skinny... trust me, they know their not an AF model... in fact, they couldn't get a "really hot" white guy either... which is why their so willing to date or you... they don't fit the social standard of beauty either... even though their white.
What is so SAD is that every guy who starts these pathetic thread about "white people not being attracted to black or Asians or whatever" you are young... very young ( like under 25) which means your still trying to figure a lot of out.
As racial minorities you face levels of self hatred and rejection that most white gay men will never understand, your attraction to white guys or more fittingly your need to have one of them want you is based on your need for social approval... not necessarily attraction or lust to white guys. Asian men are beautiful, hot and able for a lot of reasons.
So relax, go easy on yourself.
please dont be too eager over white guys and hold your dignity, this is the truth:
DON'T HATE ME FOR SAYING THIS BUT:
I know being different in the gay community is very very difficult if your not white and don't look like an Abercrombie & Fitch model but you MUST learn to STOP giving white gay people all the power and options.
White gay men ARE NOT the "prize" or the "best" a gay Asian or black, Latino can hope to date or , they are simply another option...NOT THE ONLY OPTION !
All of you black and Asian guys who keep begging to date or a white guy will come to an ugly reality very soon... MOST WHITE GAY MEN DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU...some may want to experiment, just or use you to boost their ego by enjoying all the attention you give them but NOT DATE.
THE ONE'S WHO LOOK LIKE AF MODELS WILL NEVER EVER DATE OR MARRY YOU. ... or get ed by you ... yes.. but not date or marry. the social stigma and curse or racial stereotypes is simply too much for this type of gay white man
Its NOT because WHITE GAY MEN ARE RACIST, its because they, just like you have been basically brainwashed about what is hot and what is beautiful. Its easier.. not easy...just easier for them because they have been born white. If your born white, then they already fulfill 90% of what gay society says is hot or beautiful. The other 10% is wardrobe and going to the gym. Its in that 10% that you.. the Asian and blacks work so hard to compensate for the fact that you are not white but it never succeeds... and white people know this.
To be fair, you'll find a few white guys on here eager to write "yea, Asian are hot, or I would date an Asian" but they do this because they in part believe they are doing you a favor. Some of them may seriously be interested in dating or ing an Asian or black person but the truth is... those white guys who do, are really NOT the type of white guy that you are looking for.. are they? be honest....plain Jane's, older(15 years older than you), average looking, over weight, or too skinny... trust me, they know their not an AF model... in fact, they couldn't get a "really hot" white guy either... which is why their so willing to date or you... they don't fit the social standard of beauty either... even though their white.
What is so SAD is that every guy who starts these pathetic thread about "white people not being attracted to black or Asians or whatever" you are young... very young ( like under 25) which means your still trying to figure a lot of out.
As racial minorities you face levels of self hatred and rejection that most white gay men will never understand, your attraction to white guys or more fittingly your need to have one of them want you is based on your need for social approval... not necessarily attraction or lust to white guys. Asian men are beautiful, hot and able for a lot of reasons.
So relax, go easy on yourself.
somewhere else!