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Theory About Straight People's Theory on Gays

looseliam said:
^ I don't know about you, but I'm still waiting for my copy of the 'gay agenda'.
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We're not handing those out yet.

Apparently we all can't get on the same fucking page about - of all things - feather boas, and how they should be worn, and by whom. It's a very touchy argument.
 
gaystorm said:
I had a discussion with a straight woman today arguing if being gay is a choice or something you are born with. Well, she, of course was saying that being gay was a lifestyle choice and got into this whole thing about race not being the same as being gay as far as being born with something. Anyway, it got me thinking. People who think it is a choice must have made a choice. Perhaps those people have struggled with their sexuality and do think they have chosen to be straight. Or they truly cannot believe someone is actually attracted to the same sex; rather, they are looking for attention.
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I am not surprised to hear that, although if people starts to use their brains they would realize there is a definition for a person that can choose who to have relationships/sex with.
A bisex person is the only category of people who can make choices.
I am bisex and I could choose to be only with men or only with women, but I chose to enjoy both.
A gay person or a straight one, can't make this choice.

On another note I believe that there are more closeted bisex men among the "straight" population than genuine straight ones.
But of course that's a personal theory I came up with due to personal experience, since I tend to have sex mainly with married guys or blokes with girlfriends.
But that's another discussion.
 
And by the time we agree on everything, the guy who we finally agree is hot...has been pushed aside by somebody hotter. And we don't want to be caught wearing last month's outfit, now, do we?

Lex
 
Everybody is fundamentally attracted to same sex. Little boys are never attracted to girls and have to undergo enormous drill and training to get attracted to girls. As soon as they think they are attracted to girls, it needs daily battle to remain attracted giving rise to the most absurdistic str8 theories on their own M2M attraction. Peer pressure is enormous as str8s can only keep their appeal to peers through miming heterosexuality as they are trained into homophobia all youth long and are trained to associate M2M attraction with someting they are not attracted to at all, viz. feminity. They are only attracted to MASCULINITY.
 
Some people understand we can't help who we are attracted to, but believe we can choose to ignore being gay. That's how my mon sees it. She thinks I want to be gay and am not trying to be straight.

Ridiculous. Why is so hard ask yourself "could I choose to ignore being straight?" But because homosexuality is the "defect," people don't believe they should even have to think twice
 
MoufOfKhaos said:
We're not handing those out yet.

Apparently we all can't get on the same fucking page about - of all things - feather boas, and how they should be worn, and by whom. It's a very touchy argument.
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Will they have the new cover sheets?
 
I don't know whether or not it is/was choice. After being actively bisex is college and grad school found myslf gay after graduation.
 
i personally believe that it is both a choice and/or you can be born with it. ive met people who have told me that they just feel "naturally" connected with the same gender and there are others that i have met that told me they decided to swing the other way because they were fed up with the opposite sex

again, its nature vs. nurture
 
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