G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
I guess the point, if there has to be one, is that any given straight guy can be compelled to have sex with another guy, given the right time and conditions.
The real question becomes, even if this is accurate, what can you do with that statement? If that's true, if you see a straight guy you're interested in, should you go for it? Should you work on the setting to try to get him at that time and situation where he's ready for some guy-on-guy action? Is it worth the time and effort (and strained- or ended friendship)?
There are those who say "Hell, yes, it's worth it." I've met guys who only have sex with straight (or "straight" guys). To them, sex is like a video game. Going to bed with a gay guy would be (to them) like entering a cheat code to "save the princess" and roll the closing credits. The entire point of it is the "thrill of the hunt", making subtle moves, looking for openings, nudging things along. And if they endure some hard feelings (or black eyes) along the way, that's part of the game.
Frankly, I've never been interested in that. Yeah, the opening "feeling each other out" stuff can be erotic and exciting. But not as exciting as the actual sex. To flip metaphors, THEIR way of having sex, to ME, is like putting a long obstacle course in front of a pizza. I'm not interested in obstacle courses. If I want a pizza, I'll just go order one.
Lex
The real question becomes, even if this is accurate, what can you do with that statement? If that's true, if you see a straight guy you're interested in, should you go for it? Should you work on the setting to try to get him at that time and situation where he's ready for some guy-on-guy action? Is it worth the time and effort (and strained- or ended friendship)?
There are those who say "Hell, yes, it's worth it." I've met guys who only have sex with straight (or "straight" guys). To them, sex is like a video game. Going to bed with a gay guy would be (to them) like entering a cheat code to "save the princess" and roll the closing credits. The entire point of it is the "thrill of the hunt", making subtle moves, looking for openings, nudging things along. And if they endure some hard feelings (or black eyes) along the way, that's part of the game.
Frankly, I've never been interested in that. Yeah, the opening "feeling each other out" stuff can be erotic and exciting. But not as exciting as the actual sex. To flip metaphors, THEIR way of having sex, to ME, is like putting a long obstacle course in front of a pizza. I'm not interested in obstacle courses. If I want a pizza, I'll just go order one.
Lex
