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Things you love that have gone (or are going) extinct.

dpnice said:
My youth! Never again will I experience that excitement when going out cruising and seeing a guy as interested in me as I am in him.

Plus with the passing years I would presume that any chance of falling in love is long gone. Those moments when your heart beats faster when you know you are going to see him again; that choked up feeling when you watch him sleeping knowing that he is the most important person in your life; those moments when you both collapse laughing over some silly insignificant thing; those moments of blissful calm just holding him in your arms.

One can easily replace all those tangible things now obsolete or disappeared with other things just as short lived, but human warmth once it is gone can never be truly replaced.
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I'm trying to wrap my head around this post, but my first impression is I'm sorry you have this despondent outlook. I was going to post something bubbly and idealistic to boost your spirits but I realize that it probably would have been incredibly naive.

Honestly I have no idea how much more likely it is to find passion and warmth with age, though picking up hot young guys understandably gets harder. It has been difficult enough for me at least and I'm 26. Hookups have never gone easily. Most guys do not want it even though they are looking, or the ones at your level think themselves better than you. Those types are probably just as lonely. Then there is dating. Of all the many dates I've had, only three became relationships that lasted a year or more. So, my impression is it actually gets easier, and my taste in men is getting older as I do as well. I am happy in my relationship now after having a tumultuous early 20s and my bf is far from model type.

Anyway if I had a piece of useful insight it would be...

 
^^^ You're still young and invulnerable.

For some of us, once you reach a certain age life takes away more than it gives.
That's not to say life isn't precious... it just means we realistically realize we have more days behind us than in front of us.
 
borg69unimatrix said:
^^^ You're still young and invulnerable.

For some of us, once you reach a certain age life takes away more than it gives.
That's not to say life isn't precious... it just means we realistically realize we have more days behind us than in front of us.
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There are so many "surprises" that come with age...one can never truly understand it until it happens. It is one of my favorite sources of humor now because I thought I was "prepared"...I have realized here is no way to prepare for so many things.
 
Sorry didn't mean to derail this thread into a discussion of the benefits and possibilities linked to old age.

I was just thinking of the fun and excitement I had in my 20s and early 30s going out cruising. At 63yrs I still expect some fun and excitement but realise that it won't consist of chasing men across rocks and through bushes terminating with a breath-taking sexual encounter. :D
 
But at 63 chasing men across rocks and through bushes can still be breath-taking.
 
The grocery store closest to me used to carry this take-n-bake pizza. It was the best tasting pizza I've ever had. But they stopped carrying it a couple of years ago, and I haven't been able to find it since. :(

Low gas prices.

Good video games *puts on nostalgia goggles*


borg69unimatrix said:
Star Trek
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That too.


borg69unimatrix said:
I miss ... Gas stations that cleaned Windows
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What gas stations are you going to? I can't think of a visit to a station where they haven't cleaned my windows.
 
Axxess said:
What gas stations are you going to? I can't think of a visit to a station where they haven't cleaned my windows.
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Must be a regional/state thing. I have never been to a gas station that did this.
 
xbuzzerx said:
Must be a regional/state thing. I have never been to a gas station that did this.
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Hell, even finding a full-service gas station is impossible in MA. The only time an attendant will come out to the pump is if you have a handicap placard.
 
Axxess said:
What gas stations are you going to? I can't think of a visit to a station where they haven't cleaned my windows.
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They used to ALL do it down here... back in the day. Now none of them do it - at least in my part of the State.

If they still do it for you, I'm surprised and amazed. I haven't seen it done in forever.
 
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Lex
 
Milky Way ice cream bars and Dove ice cream pints... :(
 
An old PC game called Soldier Of Fortune 2. The multiplayer is pretty much dead now. Damn that game was fun back in the 2000's.
 
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