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Thinking of changing things up..

casual sex is like casual exercise...good for both body and mind.

intimate sex is for when you are ready to and have found your special someone.

you gotta crack a lot of eggs before you can make perfect omelets and in the physical relationship world casual sex is the equivalent of culinary school or taking driving lessons (learners permit) before you get your license and then pile up on the highway due to lack of knowledge and inexperience.

well, that's how it worked for me anyway.:gogirl:
 
spencer said:
that's worse than I thought. You cuddled and made out and still waited for two years? why even cuddle and make out if you didn't want to be in a relationship with him at all? you alreadly knew he wasn't dating material (which means not sex material for you) and now that you've officially done more than making out, you have to repost that you confirmed that you dont' want to be with the guy? that's messed up. My point is 2 years is a long time to make a revelation that you already knew.

good thing he's into casual sex cause if he waited for you, that would have been bad.

anyway, you're doing the right thing by putting yourself out more. you gotta be pretty choosy if you've been dating people and held off for as long as you did.
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I cuddled and made out with him because well...I wanted some affection, and so did he. As much as I would like to be in a relationship, it's not like I can just wave a magic wand and have someone I'd want to have as a boyfriend just fall info my lap. Especially if you're a kind of plain, not neccasarily super exciting guy like I am, it takes a bit more legwork. Why so not enjoy so kisses and cuddles in the interim if you can get them?

Before we did it of course I wondered if I would end up feeling differently about him afterward or if there would possibly be some weird emotional things. Probably not, but you never know right? THere weren't. He's still my friend and I don't feel any differently towards him just because we did stuff. And that is why I say that the experience made it clear there wasn't anything romantic there. I would imagine sharing that experience with someone I was dating (or at least interested in dating) would be a bit different.
 
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