Third date and still no kiss?

[hairyhorny1989]

So I have been on three dates with this guy who i'm pretty into, and i think his into me, we both want more than just fun, but does that mean his not into me??

Like he dropped me home and I think it was clear what i wanted but he just said bye?? I know he doesn't have to be the one to make the move, but find it difficult to read him

 

[Delphi124]

Are you both perfectly clear that these are dates and not just hanging out to "get to know each other?" If you are in fact dating, I don't think you need to worry, the fact that he is still going out with you means had is interested in spending time with you. Not wanting to kiss right away may just be a sign that he wants to take things slow. I tend to be of the opinion that it is better to wait till there is some verbalization of mutual interest in a deeper relationship before starting anything physical at all, but that is just me.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

I'm reminded of a Golden Girls episode(shut UP) where a guy that Blanche was dating didn't want to maul her - he wanted each move to be that much more special.

Maybe that's the kind of guy you're seeing now - and if so, just ride it out.

 

[KaraBulut]

After 3 dates, it's time to ask "Are these dates or are we just hanging out as friends?". And if the two of you decide you're dating and you want a kiss goodnight, then ask for one.

 

[ben9651]

Maybe he`s shy . Just jump him

 

[Nice Boy]

I think the same as Delphi124...

 

[mbamike]

Do you guys text or talk on the phone to one another when you are not together? Somewhere you need to establish if you two are dating or just hanging out.

If you are dating, then you can make the first move.

 

[chrisw87]

In the last 5 'dates' I've gone on, they have always been so eager to kiss on the first date. I am more of a 3rd-4th date kind of person, it really has to be the right time.

It puts me off alot when people desire just to eat your face when they hardly know you :S

 

[Seasoned]

I haven't dated in almost 29 years so I'm just weighing in to wish you good luck and I hope you'll post follow ups.

 

[HunterM]

In the last 5 'dates' I've gone on, they have always been so eager to kiss on the first date. I am more of a 3rd-4th date kind of person, it really has to be the right time.

It puts me off alot when people desire just to eat your face when they hardly know you :S

Stop being so damn attractive! Or glue a fake pimple on your upper lip. It's very effective to wart off potential kissers.

 

[hotb0d]

were you the one asking him out on these 3 dates or were they mutual?

if you think he's interested in you, just give a nudge the next time. It doesn't hurt to be straightforward and forceful to push it in the right direction

 

[Just_Believe18]

After 3 dates, it's time to ask "Are these dates or are we just hanging out as friends?". And if the two of you decide you're dating and you want a kiss goodnight, then ask for one.

Good advice by KaraBulut. Try that.

 

[chrisw87]

Stop being so damn attractive! Or glue a fake pimple on your upper lip. It's very effective to wart off potential kissers.

Hah! I wish I was attractive enough to need this. I am merely stuck in the drama of being in my mid to young 20's and have a habit of dating horny 18-22 year old peeps.

Give me a 25-40 year old that is a bit tamer and has a taste for good food and good experiences any day.

Quite difficult to find someone of that caliber that wants anything to do with me unless they know me in person first without knowing my age.