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This Dude Gay?

He could be gay or curious. Or, maybe he keeps looking at you because he's caught you checking him out and is wondering if you are currently checking him out.
 
He could be a completely straight guy that just thinks you're a little bit more interesting than most guys and wouldn't mind getting to know you as a friend.
Ask if he plays pool.
 
If he's got a girlfriend, I'd keep away from him. Just because he notices you, is not enough reason to assume he's gay. He's just a handsome, friendly guy.
 
You obviously are infatuated with this guy and your mind is letting on more than what is actually happening. You WANT him to be staring at you and thinking sexual thoughts when in reality he probably only glances every now and then and might find you annoying. Sorry to be such a negative fuck but thats usually the case. Ive had it happen to me a few times where I might be day dreaming and staring at someone and they would be like "You always stare at me, you must like me." Or i might be staring at someone because I hate them and want them to shut up. LOL. i dunno.

BUT you never know, he just might be into you.
 
He's probably "bi-curious". Or a creepy stalker.
 
I say try and start a conversation with him, that's the only way you will be able to probe him deeper. Ask him a random question, even if you know the answer.
 
give him a note with the url for JUB and say "thought this might interest you"
 
Has happened to me often. The fact that he has a girlfriend could mean nil. He could be bi curious. Did you get a long look/stare eye to eye, any crotch gazing/looking. I would explore this, play along a bit, more looking staring etc. Its fun.
 
I don't know the protocol in your classroom - do you have allocated seating? Cos what I would do would be sit in a different place and then see what happens.

And if you're studying the same class together then it's a classic opportunity to start a conversation - borrow a text-book, study for a test together, ask him which assignment he's doing...

Are you the only one who dares to speak out or respond in class?
 
TALK TO HIM!!!! Its pointless to assume things and let your mind create things that may or may not be there. Either before or after class start a conversation with him. Bout sports or a movie or something. You might find that you guys have something in common and then you can maybe hang out sometime and then you see what happens. But nothing will if you don't talk to him. And PLEASE don't just come out and ask him if he's gay or something. Cause even if he's curious chances are he'll deny it and then ruin your life. Just play it cool.
 
It could just be that he looks at you when you speak, and when somebody else speaks he looks at them but you don't notice that because you are looking at the other speaker as well. It's a fairly normal reaction to look at a person when they are speaking, in fact it is difficult not to. Even if this is the case there's no harm in talking to him, he may be a great guy who could become a good friend, but if you can't cope with the fact that he may be straight and you might never have a sexual relationship, then best stay well away.
 
^ No, what I said was do you look at other people when they speak? If you do, you won't notice that he does too because you won't be looking at him but at the speaker. It was only a thought and an observation of how people normally react.
 
maybe he just thinks youre weird.

or maybe he thinks that you're his friend.

or maybe you're just funny looking and he takes whatever chance he can to stare at you.
 
eddielee said:
If he's got a girlfriend, I'd keep away from him. Just because he notices you, is not enough reason to assume he's gay. He's just a handsome, friendly guy.
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Negative. Girlfriend's do not mean anything, so I wouldn't assume girlfriend automatically = straight. (Okay, chances are he is straight, but that's CHANCE, not fact).

Things are not that mathmatical in the real world, I'm living proof. I had a pretty hot girlfriend before I came out. In fact, she WAS the reason I came out, the longer I waited, the harder it would have been for both of us, yeah?

I asked 3 straight guys out when I first came out, yeah it sucked when I found out, but I would have always wondered if I didn't...

So yeah, my two cents. Can I get a refund?

- DMC
 
He's looking for someone to bully.
 
First of all, I think he envies you, he likes your answers and your input in the class...

That could be all; but one does NOT know until you start up a conversation with him after class sometime...

Just break the ice by saying something to him about the discussion in class and let it go from there......you might invite him to the canteen for coffee or something and if he accepts, see what happens...

I know you are smarter than openly saying something about his sexuality, so just let it pan out and you will see...

Good luck!(*8*) (*8*) :kiss: :kiss:
 
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