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So I want to make friends with this guy from school. we've had two classes together and have spoken a few times (pretty much just about the class work though). he's in a frat and is a year above me and I doubt we'll have any other classes together. I also doubt he's even curious, but I just want to be good acquaintances.

would it be weird to add him on facebook at least? we only have one mutual friend so I don't want to make it look like I specifically searched for him. would he think that I just saw his profile randomly on the mutual friend's page?

btw it's not one of those 'he doesn't even know I exist' situations haha. he's pretty friendly when he greets me with the typical "sup dude" so I think he at least knows who I am (if not my name)...advice please?
 
Instead of worrying about the facebook, why don't you try actually hanging out with the guy. It hasn't been so long out of college for me, that I don't remember there were all kinds of parties every weekend. Pick one you and your friends are going to, and ask him is he wants to tag along.

Go to a game of some kind, hell, go get a beer.
 
BTW, it does kind of sound like you're interested in him. Your post reads like a guy wanting to ask another guy out on a date.
 
TX-Beau said:
BTW, it does kind of sound like you're interested in him. Your post reads like a guy wanting to ask another guy out on a date.
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was kinda thinking the same thing. as was said why not ask him to hang out some time or just approach him and say "hey, would it be ok if I added you on fb?" sounds like he's a friendly guy and wouldn't mind. if you'd like to get to know him more your going to have to take the initiative. the worst he can say is "no".

take a chance.

Steven
 
Georgiadude said:
was kinda thinking the same thing. as was said why not ask him to hang out some time or just approach him and say "hey, would it be ok if I added you on fb?" sounds like he's a friendly guy and wouldn't mind. if you'd like to get to know him more your going to have to take the initiative. the worst he can say is "no".

take a chance.

Steven
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That's an idea, but that could come off kinda creepy in my opinion. Since he's in a frat ask about their parties (if they have any). This way you could hang out with him and learn more about him since you will be around his friends.
 
Just add him on facebook.

Seriously, unless he's someone who only has 10 FB friends because he only adds his real-life friends, you two are certainly close enough acquaintances to be friends on facebook.

Just add him.
 
bhandsome said:
That's an idea, but that could come off kinda creepy in my opinion. Since he's in a frat ask about their parties (if they have any). This way you could hang out with him and learn more about him since you will be around his friends.
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whats creepy about approaching someone you know and is "friendly" when you see him and in the conversation ask if you could ad him to fb? I dont get it. think it would be creepy if you had never really spoken to him or just sent him a friend request out of the blue. he knows the guy, they've spoken and he greets him when they meet up. guess I'm missing something. I dont see anything creepy about what I said at all.

Steven.
 
Georgiadude said:
whats creepy about approaching someone you know and is "friendly" when you see him and in the conversation ask if you could ad him to fb? I dont get it. think it would be creepy if you had never really spoken to him or just sent him a friend request out of the blue. he knows the guy, they've spoken and he greets him when they meet up. guess I'm missing something. I dont see anything creepy about what I said at all.

Steven.
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When I first read this topic, it came off as random acts of kindness, like saying hello every now and then. If they have had conversations before, then of course its fine to ask to add them on Facebook.

My mistake.
 
Facebook has been a wonderful source of finding people from my past but I don't know all the ins and outs of it. I guess I'd send a message saying something like now that we won't have classes together it'd cool if we could stay in touch. Any objection if we'd do that on Facebook?

If that sounds lame blame it on the fact I'm in my 60s and not on anything else, ok? Good luck.
 
It sortof depends on how you personally use FB. I wouldn't ask him if I can add him, since I don't like to talk about Facebook IRL, but that's just me.

I'd say just add him and if he doesn't accept, then meh.
 
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