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Today, I want to share something very sad to you all. Wednesday my boyfriend past away. His name was Riaan, and I would like you all just to have moment. He was the kindest person alive, and we were deeply in love. Yes, we was discreet, and not completely out, but it feels like my entire world has crashed. We were living together for 1 month now and going out for 1 year and 3 months. He was such a good person; there are no words to explain what an extraordinary person he was. he was also very good looking, smart, funny and had a way to make you feel good about yourself even if you feel the entire world comes crashing down. We had such big plans for our life. i just wanted tolet you guys know. i wish i could get him back.

I will miss him dearly and will love him forever. I wish to dedicate this thread to him..



P.S. He also was a big fan of JUB
 
So sorry to hear of your loss. In time things will be better. Take your time.
 
G-d Bless you, and may your friend go from Light unto everlasting Light and be held in the arms of G-d.....(*8*)
 
Dear Friend..I share your pain..I lost my mother Nov 2 due to complications of surgery..No words can make you feel better and to me the pain is still very strong..Like you I feel her loss everyday..I have been told that in time you will have fond memories but now is your time to feel pain..Seek friends who share your grief as I have found that works for me..Keeping you in my prayers...
 
Sorry for your loss, and understand that as long as he stays a beautiful memory to you he will always be with you. Its hard right now and I feel for you. Please take care and allow yourself time to heal.

TJ
 
(*8*) (*8*)

I am with you still



In a twinkling of an instance
A dream comes to an end
The winds of change presented
Coming round the bend

And so your world is shattered
A breaking of your heart
The fabric of your being
So quickly ripped apart

It's all that you imagined
In all your wildest dreams
The emptiness surrounds you
With pain or so it seems

But this is not the ending
For strength lives on through will
My love is always with you
And I am with you still


I wish you strength in your time of grief(*8*)
 
Sorry For Your Loss.i Lost My Mother Two Years Ago And At Times It Is So Hard To Deal With Still.you Will Always Have The Memories.my Thoughts And Prayers Are With You.
 
I am so sorry! I dated someone on and off for about 3 years. We were mostly friends with benefits but there was some deep feeling there i like to believe on both ends. I always thought once he pulled himself together that we would finally be together.We had the strongest chemistry. I thought we have all the time in the world to drag this out. But 4 years ago this month he shot himself in the head. The moment I found out it changed me forever. I am so very different now than I was. People don't understand how deeply this changes you. I don't act or even look the same. It really aged me outside and in. I lost friends cause they couldn't understand my pain and one "friend" told me to stop talking about him. I had to let 2 of my really close friends go cause I saw who they really were. I still think of him even though I have been dating someone for almost 4 years. It does get better but go talk to someone. I had to get on antidepressants and i have never been on any meds. I only used them for 6 months but they helped.I also kind of had to keep our relationship private cause he had a bf. His friends knew nothing about me and I found out about his death at a bar. He left a list of people to be at his funeral and I was not on the list. I had to tell one of his friends about me so that i could get all the info on what happened. I really suffered in silence and don't let that happen to you! please take care of yourself and truely take it day by day.
 
I'm very sorry to read of your loss.
My heart is with you.
How can you tell someone you love good-bye?
You can't.
You simply say that I'll see you again...later.
Like it or not, death is something we will ALL do.
I believe that you'll see him again in the here-after.
If you'd put his obituary on this website:
www.findagrave.com
we could all stop by and leave flowers and a message for him.
I think that would help you knowing that we care enough to do that.
God be with you in your time of sorrow and to everyone that loved him.
 
I feel your pain and having just recently lost a dear friend and loved one, I know what you are going through at this moment. The only thing I can suggest to you is to focus on the good times that you two had together for these will never leave you. Perhaps keeping these good thoughts alive will help you with the pain. God bless you.
 
So sorry to hear of your loss :( Keep strong and cherish the good memories (*8*)

To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die...
 
May he soar on eagle's wings to be with the Beautiful God, and may you find strength to continue.
 
Piet
I don't know you and I read through all your posts on Jub to come up with a suitable response, I was trying to find feelings you had and to empathathise with them but found no mention of your friend or of any relationship. I'll assume you were genuine and didn't mention this for reasons of your own. So you have my heart felt condolencies and i wish you all the best in your future.
 
Things will be okay again. Just remember to take care of yourself and love yourself as much as he loved you and that will be enough to keep him alive in your heart forever.
 
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